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Have you ever had a moment that divided your life into before and after?

It’s easy to say “God loves me” when life makes sense. But when life falls apart, the real question surfaces: has His love changed? We pray and it gets worse. We obey and it costs us. Someone else gets the answer we’re still waiting for. And pain starts to look like rejection.

In the final message of our Unshaken series, Paul names our fears one by one, then tells us what they cannot do. Trouble can’t cancel His love. Suffering can’t take the victory Christ secured. Today can’t exhaust it, and tomorrow can’t defeat it. Your situation is not the exception Paul forgot.

We aren’t secure because our grip on God is strong. We’re secure because His grip on us can’t be broken. And when you know you’re fully loved, you’re free from the fear of death, free from taking everything personally, and free to be who God made you to be.

Your world may change overnight, but God’s love for you will not.

We close the series at the Lord’s Table, remembering what He gave.

Sometimes the hardest part of life is realizing how little we can control.

You may not know how this will turn out. What you really want is to know you won’t face it alone. Whether it’s loneliness, a struggling child, a strained marriage, grief, or financial pressure, we often slide from “this is painful” to “maybe God is against me.”

In Romans 8, Paul doesn’t explain every painful circumstance. He shows us what God has done for us in Christ. God stands for you. God gave His Son for you. God justifies you. And Jesus intercedes for you.

God being for you doesn’t mean nothing will hurt. It means your hurt can’t cancel His saving purpose. The cross is permanent proof that God is for you.

This week, Pastor Cody asks: what have you been allowing to speak more loudly than the cross? When you can’t explain what God is allowing, remember what God has already given.

The hardest part of suffering is often the silence after you ask God why.

It’s one thing to go through something painful. It’s another to pray about it, wait, and hear nothing you can recognize as an answer. A good-sounding Christian sentence can feel very small beside a hospital bed, an empty chair, or a family coming apart.

In Romans 8, Paul doesn’t give us a timetable. He gives us three promises. God hears you - even when you have no words. God is working - even when the situation is not good. God will finish what He started - even when you can’t see the ending.

You may not be able to trace God’s hand. But you can trust His heart - and we see it in Jesus.

This week, Pastor Cody reminds us: when you cannot understand God’s plan, you can understand God’s heart.

What do you do when you know God loves you, but the pain hasn't gone away? In this message from our Unshaken series, Pastor Cody walks through Romans 8:18–25. Christian hope doesn't deny what hurts – it declares that hurt will not win. Creation groans. We groan. But because Jesus is risen, the groan isn't the final sound. Whatever chapter you're in, it isn't the last one. So live like your last chapter is true.

How much life can you handle without losing who you are — without losing your cool, your bearings, your mind?

That may be one of the best tests of true Christian maturity. Because there are a lot of Christians who know the Word, go to church, and can quote the verses — but when real life hits, they don't always do very well. They can talk about grace but aren't very gracious. They can talk about faith but uncertainty paralyzes them.

The goal of Christianity was never just to produce people who know the truth. It's to produce people who can live the truth — in reality, on a Tuesday morning, under pressure.

This week, guest speaker Dr. Dave White walks us through how God forms that kind of man: the Father gives him Gravity — weight, depth, and a rootedness that isn't tossed by every cultural wind. The Spirit gives him Grit — the fortitude to remain faithful under pressure without fragmenting. And the Son shows him Range — the capacity to hold grace and truth together, to comfort and confront, to bond and set boundaries.

Gravity. Grit. Range. That's what it looks like to be formed not merely for church, but for reality.

You can be close to the things of God and still feel far from God. Close to the things of marriage and still feel far from your marriage.

Most of us know when something isn't working — when anger is controlling us, anxiety is running the show, or our private life and public life no longer match. So we try to change our behavior. We download an app. Start a plan. Make a rule. And for about four days, it works. Then the old patterns return.

Why? Because we keep trying to fix the fruit without changing the root.

We don't merely need improved habits. We need a new source of life. Romans 8 describes two ways of living — according to the flesh, and according to the Spirit — and the question isn't "did you come to church?" The question is: what are you living from?

The Spirit gives you a new way to think, a new power to live, and a new family to belong to. Before the world tells you who to be, let the Father remind you whose you are.

We're kicking off a new series called Unshaken. On this Freedom Sunday — marking one year since Charlie Kirk's death and 25 years since September 11 — we're reminded that freedom is precious, and costly. But there's a freedom no government can give and no culture can take away. In a culture that never forgets your failures, Romans 8 hands down a verdict that can never be reversed: there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Your past may explain part of your story, but it no longer owns your identity.

Sometimes I look back at an old picture of myself and think, "Who let me leave the house looking like that?" The haircut. The clothes. Whatever was happening — I thought it looked good. Why? Because everybody around me looked like that. I wasn't consciously imitating anyone. I was simply absorbing what was around me.

That's how formation usually happens. Nobody wakes up one morning and decides, "I think I'll become impatient. I'd like to become addicted to approval. I'm going to become bitter." We don't choose those things in one dramatic moment — we become them gradually. One repeated thought. One unchecked habit. One influential voice. One small compromise at a time.

But the opposite is true too. Nobody accidentally becomes patient, gracious, courageous, and deeply rooted in Christ either. That kind of person is formed as well.

As we close out our Shaped series, we're asking the question that matters more than any other: I am not neutrally living — I am always becoming someone. The question isn't whether I'm being formed. The question is, who — or what — is forming me?

Every family has a story. Some are spoken on purpose. Others are repeated so often nobody even notices anymore — "we never have enough," "people can't be trusted," "marriage is always hard." Repeated long enough, those statements become stories. And stories repeated long enough become beliefs your children carry into their own future.

Mephibosheth knew what it was like to live inside the wrong story. Crippled as a child while fleeing a king he believed wanted him dead, he spent years hiding in Lo-debar — a place whose name literally means "nowhere." But when King David finally sent for him, it wasn't for judgment. It was to give him a permanent seat at the king's table.

The story Mephibosheth believed about the king didn't match the king's heart. And some of us have been living the same way — carrying stories about God that don't reflect who He actually is.

This week, guest speaker Pastor John Jupp continues our Shaped series by asking: what story is your home repeating? Because grace doesn't erase the painful chapters — it refuses to let them write the ending.

Have you ever noticed you can hear somebody's voice even when they're not in the room? Your mother's warning. A friend's advice. The critic who said one thing three days ago that you still can't shake.

We all have voices in our heads. The question isn't whether you're listening — it's who's earned the right to shape you.

We're living in the loudest culture in human history. Before your feet even hit the floor, your phone can hand you breaking news, outrage, advice, and a stranger explaining why everything you believe is wrong — and it's not even 7am. None of these voices are automatically sinful. But every voice carries a vision of the good life, and you become like the voices you trust.

This week, in our Shaped series, we look at Psalm 1 and ask a simple but pointed question: whose voice is shaping you? Because what fills your mind eventually moves your feet.Have you ever noticed you can hear somebody's voice even when they're not in the room? Your mother's warning. A friend's advice. The critic who said one thing three days ago that you still can't shake.

We all have voices in our heads. The question isn't whether you're listening — it's who's earned the right to shape you.

We're living in the loudest culture in human history. Before your feet even hit the floor, your phone can hand you breaking news, outrage, advice, and a stranger explaining why everything you believe is wrong — and it's not even 7am. None of these voices are automatically sinful. But every voice carries a vision of the good life, and you become like the voices you trust.

This week, in our Shaped series, we look at Psalm 1 and ask a simple but pointed question: whose voice is shaping you? Because what fills your mind eventually moves your feet.