Unlike ladies on mother’s day, Men have a heavenly example of perfect fatherhood. None of us are perfect. There is only one that was without sin. The rest of us fall under the category of fallen and strive to rise up to be good men. As good as David was, his record as a father was blemished. Absolom had a different view of his father than others on the outside.
You are a man what do you know. There are some things that as a man we do know. We have learned that our shadow reaches further than we realize. Our words have more affect than we know. God is not looking for perfect men. He will supply the perfect. As hard as we try, we will make mistakes as a father. When we fall it is best to get back up, because there are others who depend on us getting backup. Our influence is great. When we least think they are watching; they are. There is nothing that is lost in life by maintaining integrity. The blessings of god are the result of walking with him. In Micha 7:2, he laments "the good man is perished out of the earth" Many may feel that way today. Our world needs good men who will stand and be counted. Good men who will say "I will serve the lord."
In our text, the bible tells us to follow the path of good men. This implies that there are other paths that men can follow. Many are made in private, and he thinks nothing of it. These decisions set the course for great moments, or great failure. The bible does not say perfect men, or great men. It says good men. There is no disappointment in doing good. Good things come from following good men. When we pursue good, the evil will be cast out. The two cannot co-exist. When we follow the path of good, we will leave the path of evil. The bible says to follow the path. This is intentional. There is no accident to be good. If we are to find the good things, it will because we actively walk into it.
There are two great dangers to good men. One is the evil man. The other is the evil woman. The evil man appeals to the mind and thoughts. The wicked may appear to be succeeding, but psalms tells us that their end will be destruction. The wicked will take shortcuts to profit, but those shortcuts will not lead to true success. The evil woman appeals to the fleshly appetite and desires. We must guard our appetite and desires. These temptations will lead us off of the path of good men.
Here is what we learn from good men in Hebrews 11
Noah taught us to build now and we won't be sorry later. Abraham trusted God when he couldn't understand Him. Enoc walked with God and that walk led him to better things. Jacob teaches that good men can make mistakes, but if we keep reaching for God, we can recover. Joseph brought much on himself because of naivety. Joseph teaches us that we must live for God no matter what happens. No matter what family or friends do to us, we must live for God.
There are many things that are hard to deal with in life. Through it all, we must follow the path of good men and decide that no matter what, we will server the Lord.