Grief isn’t a detour back to “normal.” It’s a turning toward something new—often unwanted, always hard, yet held by God. We sit down with Dr. Stacy Jensen to trace a deeply human story of loss, love, and quiet strength after her husband Nick’s death from melanoma in 2019. From family devotions in Romans 8 to the gift of a full funeral just months before COVID shutdowns, Stacy shows how mercy threads through even the darkest days.

Together we unpack why the five stages of grief don’t match lived experience and how Psalm 13 maps a more honest path—from “How long?” to “I will sing.” Stacy shares how each child grieved differently, what it took to parent amid waves of sorrow, and the surprising ways the body signals danger, like relentless cold before a final goodbye. She names the help that truly helps: curious questions, specific prayers, and one concrete burden lifted. A simple ask—“What necessary thing do you hate doing right now?”—led friends to take over school lunches and gave her back breathing room.

For churches, friends, and caregivers, we offer practical ways to care well beyond the funeral—steady presence, scheduled check‑ins months later, rides for kids, and remembering hard anniversaries. For students and young adults who feel invincible, we talk about preparing your heart now with Scripture memory, worship habits, and a circle of people who won’t rush your pain. And for anyone walking through fresh loss, Stacy’s message is clear: do the next right thing, rest in God’s nearness, and trust that nothing can separate you from His love.

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