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In this first episode of Grief Witnessed, I want to share why this podcast exists, and why I believe grief doesn’t need to be fixed to be meaningful.
I tell the story of Tanner and me. Our love. His stage IV colon cancer diagnosis. The years we walked through treatment, hope, fear, laughter, and heartbreak all at the same time. I talk about what it was like to love someone while knowing you might lose them. What anticipatory grief felt like. And what it’s been like learning to carry him with me after he was gone.
For so long, I noticed how quickly people try to tidy grief up. We rush to silver linings. We offer timelines. We look for ways to make the pain smaller because sitting in it feels uncomfortable.
But what I needed most wasn’t advice.
It was to be seen.
This episode is about the power of witnessing grief instead of trying to solve it. It’s about sitting with someone in their pain without trying to move them through it. It’s about allowing grief to exist without rushing it toward healing.
Grief Witnessed is a space where loss is spoken out loud. Where stories are held gently. Where you don’t have to be “strong” or “moving forward” to belong.
If you’ve ever felt alone in your grief, this is for you.
I’m so grateful you’re here. 🤍