Growing In Love Together

Asking yourself the question "what does she need right now?" before jumping into being the disciplinarian can change how things play out when it comes to communicating with your daughter.

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Charise

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Was this phrase said to you when you were growing up? It certainly was said to me, more times than I care to count. In this episode, I talk about how this phrase is hurting your relationship with your daughter.

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Connecting with your daughter can be as simple as holding her hand. 

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You say you know your daughter but, how much do you really know her?

In this episode, I talk about the mistakes you may be making in your relationship and ways for you to genuinely get to know your daughter.

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Are you guilty of telling your daughter all of the the things you didn't have as a kid and she should be grateful for all that you have given her?

NEWS FLASH: She doesn't care!

It's time to really evaluate where that feeling of trying to make  them be more grateful comes from. Is the real reason that you would like them to be more grateful or is this something where you need to look within and find your own gratitude.

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Today's tip is all about not only giving her a simple gift but wrapping it. Wrapping her gift will bring more meaning to the gift you are giving her. The gift can be something very simple that you won't necessarily have to go to the store for!

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It's truly about the simple things when it comes to connecting with your daughter.  Keep it simple. No need to whip out the credit card for a mani/pedi day. Connecting with your daughter gets to be simple. I've implemented simple connection by using the 5 love languages. The 5 love languages are Physical Touch, Receiving Gifts, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Acts of Service. 

The tips I share on a daily basis are SIMPLE and not necessarily always EASY to implement. Implementation is going to take ACTION on your part.  

Keep it simple.
It's about the quality of time spent.
And in all that you do when connecting with your daughter make sure you remove the U in guilt and Grow In Love Together.

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Why do we stop giving the same enthusiasm we once gave to our daughter when she began to walk?

This tip is talking about connecting by giving her a high-five with a splash of enthusiasm! I talk about keeping that same excitement you once had for her when she first learned to say "mama",  first learned to walk, and first learned her ABC's. 

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Show her some love today by helping her do something that you would normally have her do something on her own.  

• If she normally makes her bed, take time and help her do that.
• If she normally folds her laundry on her own, help her do that.
• If she normally cleans her room on her own, help her do that.

Less focus on the fact that she KNOWS how to do the things and more focus on the opportunities to connect that can be inserted into your daily activities.  

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To connect today, forget the extra stuff and say the simple phrase, "I love you". I'm sure you say I love you but do you JUST say I love you with nothing else before or after the phrase?

Connecting by saying the phrase "I love you", will help combat the feeling of people pleasing. Saying just that phrase will send the signal that YOUR love for HER is unconditional.

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