Growing Into Love

Today we are talking about our podcasts title-Growing into love. How we “choose” to grow instead of “fall” into love. Why this is so important to bare in mind within a relationship and how powerful a word change can be.

Falling: moving from a higher to a lower level, typically rapidly and without control.

Decreasing

Dropping

Descending

Lower

Growing: Undergoing natural development by increasing in size and changing physically.

Increasing

Becoming greater

Development

Gradual increase

Progress

Today’s episode is all about the masculine and feminine energy. Despite gender we all have both of these energies inside of us. Today we will discuss, which energy you lead with and how this reflects your inner nature and effects your relationship.

Masculine traits:

DOING mode

Logical mind

External

Focussed

Analytical

Strategic

Practical

Confident

Achieving

Planning

Feminine traits:

BEING mode

Intuitive mind

Internal

Receptive

Fluid

Random

Creative

Vulnerable

Feeling

Empathetic

Today’s conversation is all about marriage. We discuss where marriage originates from, the societal pressures of getting married and whether this truly is a sign of love and commitment.

"There's something psychological about not being married, because it gives you the freedom to make decisions one way or the other. So for me, I chose to stay, Kurt chose to stay, and we like the choice."-Goldie Hawn

Today’s conversation is all about hidden attraction. We discuss the guilt and shame we can feel when we find other people, outside of our relationship attractive. It’s important to note that entering a relationship doesn’t switch off your normal biological functioning and although we can’t change this, understanding it can help us respond more consciously to the impulses it creates.

Today’s conversation is all about subcommunication. What it is and how men and women are designed to communicate differently by using different areas of the brain and how this can be extremely frustrating if not understood in a relationship.

Sub communication is: Anything that is implied rather than said.

Our talking topic today is; Love Without Attachment. We discuss why attachment can cause relationships to become toxic or break down and how it inhibits the flow of love. We will talk about how love WITHOUT attachment allows you to freely and consciously give yourself to another person. Please reach out to us with questions/comments and feedback via our IG: @mollybsimpson @mathewmuskeyn

Love:

Liberating

Freeing

Selfless

Giving

Fulfilled

Non possessive

Interdependent

Higher spiritual level

Attachment:

Fear

Selfish

Insecure

Needy

Empty

Unfulfilled

Dependant

Ego based

Today’s topic is focussed on the male mind and the blind spots they encounter when it comes to valuing having one woman in their life.

In today’s conversation we’re talking about The Law Of Attraction and the steps it took us to attract one another and how these steps can help you attract love, or anything else you desire into your life.

There are 3 ways to manifest something into your life

1. Being specific

2. General

3. Feeling based

For attracting love into your life we would recommend being feeling based and trust that the Universe will bring the right person into your life.

In today’s episode we’re going to be talking about jealousy. How it has been glamorized and seen as a sign of “love” and how it has been demonized and suppressed. Both of these can cause jealousy to rear it’s ugly head in relationships and cause destruction if not addressed consciously. We’re here to share the 3 steps we use when we experience this biological and chemical reaction in the body: 1. Accept

2. Acknowledge

3. Express

These steps help connect and bring you closer together.

Today’s conversation is all about communication and the importance of it within a relationship. We share a recent moment that we experienced and how this affected us. The solutions we took, and suggest taking in order to solve miscommunication in a relationship and build a stronger connection are:

1. Switch from emotion to logic

2. Release the need to be right

3. LISTEN to your partner

4. Thank them for expressing

5. Express objectively

6. Reconnect