Geoff and I take a bit of a divergence from the standard financing topics today, and get a lot more personal with some of our investing and business experiences.
A few days ago Geoff was having a conversation with one of our colleagues, and she mentioned that she prefers to work with people who have “weathered the storm”, so to speak.
This began a whole conversation about the “fear of loss”.
Probably the most common thing that stops most people from beginning their journey as a real estate investor is the fear of screwing up and losing money. All sorts of people train you on how to avoid pitfalls, strategies to minimize risk, and ways to protect yourself.
But what if the worst happens?
What if by some random twist of fate or circumstance you lose money? What happens then?
This is the real meat of the conversation.
Here’s the thing, people who’ve lost money, think differently. They’re more calculating in their decisions, and they have both positive and negative experience to draw from.
There’s an old saying… “When a man with money meets a man with experience, the man with experience leaves with the money, and the man with the money leaves with experience.”
Losing money is not altogether a negative experience. Yes, it sucks in the beginning. It feels like your whole world is ending, but then you start to gain some perspective. You realize you’re still breathing. You may have been broken down for a while, but if you’re strong enough to recover, you come back better than you ever were.
Losing money is not the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new one, like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly. It’s metamorphosis.
Most of the successful business owners that I know, have lost a great deal of money at some point in their career. But here’s the most important part... the person they became in the process. Once you’ve become someone who can make enough money that it hurts to lose it, you can make it back, and avoid the same pitfalls next time.
It’s also great to get around people like this because when you start to compare battle scars, yours will probably diminish in size and severity when compared to what some people have experienced.
Today’s episode of the “Investment Property Income” podcast is about loss, and more importantly, recovery of your investment adventure. This one is important!
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