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This episode is for every guy. I tell you about my mistake of going on a first date on Valentine's Day last year, my advice for all the single guys on Valentine's Day, and recommendations for guys in relationships. There's something for everyone in here so happy valentine's day!

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I started a magazine! The first-ever issue of Guyset Magazine is live at theguyset.com

In this episode, you'll find out why I started this magazine and how my vision for Guyset is finally coming to life. The podcast isn't going anywhere, don't worry. If anything this will enhance it.

There's always an opportunity to do something different, do something better. An opportunity to create what you don't see, what you're looking for. So I created what I've been looking for, for the last 5 years. A new generation of tools, tips, and advice for what guys are really wondering about, what guys actually want to know, and what should be talked about. Welcome to the next generation of advice for guys. Welcome to Guyset magazine.

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The authors of Hold Strong, Robert Dugoni, Jeff Langolz, and Chris Crabtree are here to talk about their new novel based on a true and never-before-told World War II story, out today!

There are some incredible conversations in this episode on how they uncovered this story and how writing this book has deeply impacted each of their lives.

The episode is spoiler-free so you can still listen if you haven't read the book yet, and I think you'll want to read it after listening. If you haven't picked up a book in a minute, you won't regret reading this one. Buy Hold Strong here!

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Hold Strong Description:

From Robert Dugoni, Jeff Langholz, and Chris Crabtree comes an epic and inspiring novel―based on true events―about love, heroism, and resilience during the darkest chapters of World War II.

Sam Carlson is a projectionist in small-town Minnesota, where fantasies unspool in glorious black and white―for him and for his sweetheart, college-bound math whiz Sarah Haber. When the Japanese bomb Pearl Harbor, Sam is sent to the Philippines and captured as a POW. Brutalized but unbroken by the Bataan Death March and POW camps, Sam is one of eighteen hundred starved and weakened prisoners herded into the cargo hold of a barbaric hell ship called the Arisan Maru, his survival doubtful.

Determined to use her math skills on the home front, Sarah is recruited to Washington, DC, into the covert field of code breaking. When Sarah intercepts a message about a Japanese convoy, the US Navy's mission is clear: sink the Arisan Maru and send it to the bottom of the South China Sea. Now, the lives of the two young lovers are about to inadvertently collide in one of the most shocking acts of World War II.

Anchored in an extraordinary true story and breathlessly re-created, Hold Strong is a one-of-a-kind novel that explores faith, courage, survival, and coming home against insurmountable odds.

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For anyone that's considering leaving their job, in the process of searching for a new job, in the application or interview process, or anywhere in between, this episode is for you.

This week on Guyset, my friend Luca Milletti is here to talk about leaving his first job after two and a half years and the process of finding a new one.

You'll hear about why he decided to leave, how long the process took to find a new job, how many interviews he went through, how many rejections he faced, how he dealt with that rejection (and advice for you on rejection) the conversation he had with his boss, how he told his coworkers, and so much more.

In this episode, Luca and share actionable things you can do in your own job search, where and how to start, advice for applications, interviews, cover letters, standing up for yourself in the workplace, the difference between being confident in your work and self-absorbed, and how he's feeling about starting his new job. We also both share our experiences with imposter syndrome and hear his perspective about living on his own for the first time.

Don't miss this one.

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I answer frequently asked dating questions sent in by you guys:

• When should you confirm that the date is on before the first date?
• How do you actually get a first date?
• How do you greet someone on a first date?
• I feel like I should have gone in for the kiss after the first date but didn't, what do I do now?
• Is it weird to kiss on a first date?
• What do I talk about on the second date?
• What do I talk about during the talking stage?

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I wanted to introduce, or reintroduce, myself to you and tell you a little bit more about the person you're listening to on Guyset.

The biggest problem with getting advice from guys online is most of the time they're anonymous and you don't know the first thing about them.

When asked the question, "tell me about yourself," it's incredibly stressful to define who you are and come up with everything you want to say leading you most of the time to land on the quickest most surface-level things you can think of. It's nearly impossible to summarize "you" into a few sentences or any words at all beyond where you work, where you live, and what you do.

I spent a lot of time this past week thinking about who I am and what makes me, me, to share a little more with you. So here's what I've come up with so far.

It's like the song from Camp Rock except it's me and not Nick Jonas.

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This year I started a new job, met some incredible people, took a few trips, read a couple books, walked a lot of steps, and learned a lot about myself. Here are 24, actually 34, things I learned this year.

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This is your guide to goal-setting for 2025 and reflecting on 2024. Here's how to create your 2024 life resume and update it right now for the end of the year.

Questions or prompts to update your 2024 End Of Year Resume (write these down and answer them):

-Where I traveled:

-What I watched:

-What I read:

-What I did consistently:

-What I didn't get to:

-What I want to work on:

P.S. Update your real resume too.

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I watched Good Will Hunting for the first time last week and it's one of the best ways I've ever seen the experience of being a guy in your early 20s captured. Everything from how we deal with our emotions and talk about mental health, to how we act in relationships and avoid vulnerability in fear of how people will think of us differently was like looking in a mirror. I could understand exactly how the characters were thinking and feeling because I've been there many different times these past few years. Here are all of my thoughts on the movie and why I think every guy in their early 20s needs to watch it!

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If you're living on your own for the first time (with roommates also counts) this episode is for you

The 5 sections: Taking care of things, Time management, Exploring, Meeting new people, Getting to know yourself

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