Chuck DeGroat is professor of pastoral care and Christian Spirituality at Western Theological Seminary and author of When Narcissism Comes to Church. Today, Chuck shares about dealing with anxiety his entire life, pursuing a life of influence, and how stepping back from that helped him find wholeness. Chuck also discusses the brokenness that so many pastors experience and how we can facilitate wholeness. Chuck’s story reminds us that honesty is the key to walking with the Lord.
Listen to Chuck’s story now!
- Growing up on Long Island, NY
Experiencing anxiety as a kidThe chaotic nature of his religious world as a childWhy he was drawn to CalvinismGoing to Dort College to find a softer version of reformed faithMoving to Chicago and having a bit of a faith crisisFeeling like he should go to seminary in FloridaReaching the height of anxiety while in seminaryGoing to see the professor of counselingDeciding to get a degree in counseling to buy some timeGetting called out for flirting with a clientTaking a job at a church plant and getting fired years laterMoving to San Francisco and a new kind of anxiety and busynessGetting counseling that picked up the fractured piecesWhy we get so many narcissistic pastorsWe all at some level have to reckon with our own dividedness.
We are all walking contradictions.
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