For bible says he that has no sin let him cast the first stone.
Bible also makes us understand that
MERCY as it's written triumphs over judgement.
Hallelujah
Many atimes people tend to see things in their perspective,many see others as sinners while deeming themselves righteous.
Remember the story in
Luke 18:10 -14
Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other men—extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this tax collector.
I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.
And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me a sinner.
I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”
What is “Being Judgmental”?
Being a judgemental person essentially means thinking, speaking, or behaving in a manner that reflects criticizing others, condemning others and their point of view. When we are judgmental we are critically nitpicking and finding fault with another person, group of people, idea, or situation.
But there is a big difference between making judgments and being judgemental. Making judgments comes from a balanced and neutral mind. On the other hand,being judgmental comes from an imbalanced and reactive mind that is seeking to protect itself from being hurt by others.
There are signs and symptoms that will indicate if You’re a Judgmental Person
look out for these if in you:
1. Do You believe that everyone is out to get you.
2. Do You expect other people to be consistent all the time.
3. Do You struggle to see beyond a person's lapses.
4. Do You easily jump to conclusions.
5. Do You struggle to tolerate ambiguity and uncertainty.
6. Are You intolerant of people different from your kind in values and orientation.
7. Do You struggle to truly appreciate or see the beauty in others.
8. Do You have low self-worth.
9. Do You feel anxious around other people.
10. Are You suspicious and hardly trusting people
If these,are applicable to you in some or all .then you need to go to God in prayer.
Ask him to renew the right spirit within you.
Ask God to restore the joy of salvation .Ask him to have mercy on you.ask him to help you see the good in others not the bad ,not the ugly.ask him to envelope you with his holyspirit in Jesus name.Amen