The Bible’s first mention of anger among humans is seen in book of genesis..
Cain and Abel offered sacrifices to the Lord. Abel’s sacrifice was acceptable but Cain’s wasn't accepted..
(Genesis 4:5-7)
So Cain was very angry, and his face fell. The Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.
God encouraged Cain to act rightly, and not allow anger. Cain ignored God's counsel instead he embraced anger, and kills Abel his brother. That was the origin of household wickedness.
Many many followed the route of anger in bible but it led to bad end
Levi and Simeon angrily wipe out a city in their anger.
Saul, in a rage, tried to kill David.
Jonah got angry when God spared Nineveh.
Moses, who was known for meekness,humility ,an anointed ,a prophet and deliverer in anger disobeyed God while frustrated by the people of Israel.
Leadership comes into test in our ability to remain calm in an annoying or provocative situation.
(James 1:19-20)
let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Anger impairs our ability to make wise decisions.it knocks away common sense.
(Psalms 37:8).
“Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil”
Its much Better to wait, do nothing, and ponder the matter once anger is no longer clouding our judgment.
Some wives due to their nagging nature have turned good husbands to angry husbands.
Some husbands to who intimidate and oppress their wives have turned gentle submissive wives to become angry and vengeful women.
I remember the story of a woman who had suspicion of the husband cheating on her .unfortunately the husband was asked by the neighbour pls give my sister a lift to the nearest bus stop .this angry wife only saw another woman standing by the husband's car.
she took a knife ran out to the woman without waiting to hear anything kept stabbing the innocent woman till she was dead in pool of blood.
Of course that's man slaughter she ended in prison for life.
Anger can make a person say things that will damage relationships,business opportunities, marriages.anger kills
Anger is a demon.dont allow it come near you.whatever makes you angry avoid it.if you have issues with anger seek the face of God and place of prayer for real deliverance.
I pray the holyspirit will help you in Jesus,name.
Proverbs 22:24-25)
Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.
Anger is contagious. If you are around it too much, you become more prone to anger ourselves.
Way out
1: seek the face of God.
2: avoid things that trigger you.
Ask the holy spirit to help you and deliver you.
If you need to get counsel do so.that your destiny will not be destroyed by anger.
3: learn to say sorry and walk away from confrontations
4: remove bitterness,vengeance,and hatred from your life.
5:be quick to listen and slow to judge.
6:stop nagging and complaining.
7: learn to forgive.
Now close your eyes and talk to God.tell him to deliver you,to help you,to save you ,tell him to renew the right spirit within you in Jesus name amen.
Say with me
Lord Jesus I am a sinner.Forgive me for all my sins.wrote my name in book of life ,holyspirit have your way in my life .i surrender all to you in Jesus name.amen.
Take these prayers.
1: holyspirit deliver me from the spirit of anger ,hate and bitterness in the name of Jesus.
2: spirit of anger and vengeance I cast you out of my life ,in the name of Jesus.
3: covenant with anger in my bloodline be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
4: holyspirit overshadow my spirit,soul and body in the name of Jesus.
5: blood of Jesus arrest my spirit and set me free from all foul spirits in Jesus name.