In this compelling episode of Hanging with the Fabiens, we welcome Vanessa Cruz our dear friend who is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, U.S. Marine Corps veteran, wife, and mother—who shares her profound journey of healing from childhood physical and sexual abuse. You may want to have a tissue box near you on this EP. 

Vanessa discusses how her deep faith played a pivotal role in overcoming trauma inflicted by someone so close who was supposed to protect her. Her story is a testament to resilience and the transformative power of Jesus Christ in the healing process.

You can connect with Vanessa Cruz at https://vanessacruz.com/ 

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⚠️ Trigger Warning + Listener Discretion Advised:

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please seek help.

Helpful Hotlines:

National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (1-800-656-4673)

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988

Your story matters. Healing is possible. And help is available.

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CD and Melody 

🎙️HANGING WITH THE FABIENS with hosts CD+Melody Fabien

CD and Melody dive deep into the powerful impact of past wounds—how they shape the way we see God, the Church, and the people around us. These painful experiences often become the lenses through which we interpret life, forming what they call “Woundedology.”

In this episode, they unpack how unhealed hurts can influence our theology, become a wedge in our relationships, and quietly sabotage our marriages.

With honesty and Biblical wisdom, CD and Melody explore the path to healing, the power of forgiveness, and how to break free from cycles that no longer serve us.

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In Episode 6, CD & Melody sit down with two friends they love and have invested in—both single and one divorced—& we talk about all the things especially the realities of dating, discipleship, and faith after 30. Join the conversation with Elsi and Mike on 

What is Discipleship? 

What does godly dating look like after divorce? 

Dating in your 20s is one thing—but what about your 30s and 40s?

How do you wait well in a season of singleness?

What does discipleship look like as an adult navigating real-life struggles?

And how do we suffer well?

Honest, raw, and full of wisdom, this conversation tackles the real questions singles are asking and the lessons learned along the way.

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Ps We recorded this last summer when we lived in FL before we moved to Nashville. 

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We’re answering YOUR questions—raw, real, and rooted in God’s truth!

You asked, and we’re diving deep into the things that matter most:

✨ How do we truly forgive?

✨ What does healing from the past look like?

✨ If you’re engaged and already living together, how can you honor God now?

✨ What actually defines a marriage in God’s eyes? and MORE....

In Episode 5 of Hanging with the Fabiens we’re bringing biblical wisdom and honest conversation to help you navigate these real-life struggles.

Get ready for truth, grace, and practical steps forward.

Don’t miss it!

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What happens when you surrender your love story to God?

For Melody, it meant keeping a prayer journal for her future husband and trusting God’s perfect timing. She never imagined she would meet CD on a mission trip to Uganda, Africa—right as she was finishing a seven-year vow God had led her to make.

As their journey unfolded, Melody realized CD was everything she had prayed for. One of her deepest prayers was for God to write a beautiful love story, and little did she know, their story would inspire the world.

Join us as we dive into the power of prayer, divine timing, and the kind of love only God can orchestrate. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this podcast will encourage you to trust God with your heart and embrace the journey He has for you.

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🎙️HANGING WITH THE FABIENS with hosts CD+Melody Fabien

CD and Melody give all the details of their love story...their testimony leading up to how they met, how God divinely brought them together, and how they chose to save sexual intimacy for marriage. You have to hear this story! 

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Juan’s life was marked by violence and gang-banging, leading him to prison as a teenager with no hope for the future.

But in the darkest place, Jesus encountered him.

In surrender, Juan found not only redemption but also a beautiful love story written by God Himself—a wife divinely chosen for him. Dali and Juan share their journey as a testament to the power of transformation, faith, and a love that defies all odds. Prison couldn't break them.

Don’t miss this incredible story of restoration, second chances, and the kind of love story only God can write!

Available on Apple+Spotify+Youtube

Contact Juan and Dali: [email protected]

Connect with their homeless ministry in FL: https://showerup.org/tampabay/

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🎉 Podcast Family, We’re Back! 🎉

THANK YOU FOR ALL THE LOVE YOU HAVE SHOWN ON OUR MOVE!

So much has happened—we’ve had TWO big life changes!

✨ CD graduated with his master’s degree!

✨ We moved to NASHVILLE!!

After a season of transition, Season 2 is finally here!

We’ve prayed over it, poured our hearts into it, and now it’s ready for YOU!

We’ve missed you all so much, and we’re kicking off this season with powerful stories of God’s love, redemption, and restoring power. 🔥

First episode drops on Thursday, Jan 30! 🔥

Make sure to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE, so you don’t miss a single episode—we promise, this season will bless you!

We love you, and we can’t wait to dive in together! ❤️

#Season2 #PodcastIsBack #GodRedeems #MarriageRestored

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TESTIMONY ON OUR BIG MOVE TO NASHVILLE

https://youtu.be/_B6Qb7UWppg?si=t1NFvnOjYX7Ea6yQ

HEY FAMILY!

We wanted to say THANK YOU so much for your encouragement and GIVING towards our BIG MOVE! We are so grateful for our Podcast Family!

If you haven't watched/listened to our Big Announcement, make sure you do. 

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In this episode, Melody shares her testimony and a message she did about Enduring Faith from the life of Ruth and Naomi. May it encourage your faith!

JOIN THE FABIENS ON THIS FAITH MOVE!

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1. Praying: Pray for a safe and smooth transition.

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