You can be 100% right about the facts, but if you are wrong in your internal state, you still lose the battle for your own happiness. This episode uncovers the hidden cost of 'psychological violence' and proves that true power comes from a calm mind, not a hateful one. Let's explore how to protect your heart from the poison of resentment so you can remain strong, clear, and truly free.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

We spend our lives climbing mountains—chasing the perfect relationship, the higher salary, or the dream home—convinced that the view from the top will finally make us feel complete. But all too often, we arrive at the summit only to find that the feeling of emptiness has followed us up the trail. In this episode, we will dismantle the illusion that 'more' is the answer and explore why true fulfillment can never be found in things that can be lost.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

We often think of our emotions like a light switch—that we can be a rage monster on the freeway or rude to a chatbot, and then instantly flip the switch to 'Saint' when we walk through the front door to see our family.

But neuroscience tells us a different story. Every time we practice impatience—even when we think it's harmless—we are literally wiring our brains to be unkind. Today, we're discussing the ripple effects of our private words, and how the 'neural grooves' we carve in secret eventually bleed over into the lives of the people we love most.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

Change is the only constant, yet our first reaction to it is often fear. Whether it is a shift in the economy, a change in our health, or the rise of new technology like AI, the "unknown" triggers our defenses. In this episode, we explore the choice between Fear and Acceptance. We look at historical figures like Dorothy Vaughan (who embraced the first computers) and the Impressionist painters (who embraced the camera) to see how successful people don't fight the future—they evolve with it. Learn how to treat the changes in our world not as threats, but as a "gym" where we practice expanding our hearts, quieting our egos, and moving from anxiety to curiosity.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

In an attempt to cope with a harsh and overwhelming world, many of us unconsciously desensitize ourselves to block out pain. But here is the catch: our emotions do not have selective volume knobs; when we numb the darkness, we also numb the light. In this episode, we explore this numbness paradox—why avoiding pain kills your joy—and how to safely open your heart to feel fully alive again.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

Imagine walking into a pitch-black room; you cannot see anything until you bring a light with you. Life works much the same way: the world does not inherently possess beauty or ugliness, but rather reflects the light we carry inside us. In this episode, we will explore how nurturing your inner beauty acts as a lamp, allowing you to find grace and wonder even in the darkest of times.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

When we face difficulty, our natural instinct is often to ask the disempowering question, 'Why is this happening to me?' However, this keeps us trapped in victimhood, whereas shifting our focus to 'What is this teaching me?' immediately unlocks our potential for growth and resilience. In this episode, we will explore how to make this powerful mental pivot so you can stop suffering through your challenges and start learning from them.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

The Oxford Word of the Year for 2025 is 'Rage Bait,' a perfect term for the online content that is engineered to hijack your attention by deliberately triggering your anger. In this episode, we will explore the psychology behind why the digital world wants you mad and, most importantly, how you can choose to opt out. It is time to stop taking the bait and reclaim your internal peace.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

Are you playing a short-term tactic or a long-term strategy? Life, like a complex game of chess, is defined by the moves we make. But unlike a solitary game, our board is shared. In this episode, we explore the powerful metaphor of Life as a Chess Game, where every decision—big or small—sends a ripple effect across the board, impacting not just our position, but the lives of everyone around us. We discuss the lag time of karma (why results often take time to manifest), the importance of foresight, and the ultimate question: Are your moves setting up a game of connection and victory for all, or are you unwittingly sacrificing the pieces that matter most? Join us to learn how to become a Grandmaster of kindness and intent.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/

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This talk explores the critical difference between being hurt by someone else's unkindness and choosing to react with cruelty. We challenge the notion that "hurting back" is justifiable, arguing that such an action makes us the unkind person we claim to hate in others. Learn how to choose calm and break the cycle by taking responsibility for your own emotional response.

New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.

🎧 Listen now at https://www.HappinessPodcast.org

Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the next step toward your full potential?

Join Dr. Robert Puff, a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, on the Happiness Podcast. With over 20 million downloads, the podcast explores the specific actions you can take to create lasting happiness.

A licensed psychologist in Newport Beach, California and author of 15 books, Dr. Puff has spent decades studying human achievement and sharing what he's learned. He wants to help you learn the steps you need to take to soar in your own life.

His blog for Psychology Today has captivated nearly 3 million readers, establishing him as a leading thinker in mental wellness.

Explore more:

• The Happiness Podcast: Listen for free.
• Books: Discover Dr. Puff's 15 books.
• Blog: Read his articles on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/robert-puff-phd

Contact Dr. Puff:

• Email: [email protected]
• Phone/WhatsApp: 1-714-337-4889
• Learn more: https://www.DoctorPuff.com

✅ Follow Dr. Robert Puff and the Happiness Podcast on social media:

· Instagram ▶️ https://www.instagram.com/robertpuffjr/

· LinkedIn ▶️ https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorpuff

· Twitter ▶️ https://twitter.com/HappinesPodcast

· Facebook ▶️ https://www.facebook.com/HappinessPodcast/