Kristen and Dave talk about correcting their long-time imbalance in household responsibilities. Kristen points out that Dave tends to complicate even the simplest of chores. For more, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Kristen and Dave talk about the Best Practice of listening  – specifically, listening to understand – and how this works hand-in-hand with empathy. For more, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Listen to Calm AF, Kristen’s weekly coaching podcast.

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Dave proposes changing this week’s Best Practice to “Respect her girl world and get inside by invitation only.” For more, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Listen to Calm AF, Kristen’s weekly coaching podcast.

Listen to Dave: The Relationships Podcast Hosted by an Idiot.

Kristen and Dave talk about Dave’s “life-changing” communication strategy -- emulating Howard Stern, David Letterman, Regis Philbin, and others -- and whether it was actually a good thing. For more, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Get Dave’s bestselling book, The Journal of Best Practices, so you can follow along.

Listen to Calm AF, Kristen’s weekly coaching podcast.

Listen to Dave: The Relationships Podcast Hosted by an Idiot.

Listen to Uniquely Human: The Podcast with Dr. Barry Prizant and Dave.

Kristen and Dave get into an argument when Dave uses his words. To go deeper, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Kristen and Dave share how they started as friends, became a couple, and ultimately returned to friendship in their marriage. Dave says "marital setting" weird. To go deeper, send your questions to [email protected] or tap the links below.

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Kristen and Dave share the evening of his Asperger’s revelation and talk about preventing meltdowns or “man-tantrums." To go deeper, follow the links below or email us at [email protected]!

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Welcome to HAPPY NOW: Autism, Marriage, and The Journal of Best Practices! When Kristen Finch diagnosed her husband Dave with Asperger syndrome, an autism spectrum condition, everything in their marriage changed - for the better. Based on Dave's New York Times bestselling memoir, "The Journal of Best Practices," HAPPY NOW is a podcast filled with insights and wisdom for anyone in a neurodiverse relationship. (And, really, aren't we all?)

To learn more about Kristen, visit https://kristenfinch.com

To check out Dave's book, visit https://davidjfinch.com