Happy Place

In this deep conversation with Tah Whitty, a former emergency room nurse of 25+ years turned coach and facilitator, we explore the nuanced realities of consent beyond simple “yes” and “no.”

Together, we unpack the hidden dynamics of expectations, disappointment, people-pleasing, and the roles of victim, rescuer, and villain that often shape intimate interactions. This episode invites a more mature, accountable, and compassionate understanding of consent - especially in the complex spaces of intimacy, healing, and transformation.

Connect with Tah

https://calltah.com

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

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If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

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Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

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Shibari isn’t therapy.

And it isn’t magic.

But when held with presence, intention, and emotional intelligence, it can become a powerful doorway into self-awareness and transformation.

In this conversation with shibari artist and somatic intimacy guide Kati Bird, we explore the intersection of shibari, healing, and emotional attunement.

We talk about:

• why technique alone is not enough

• what most people misunderstand about healing

• the role of trauma awareness and emotional intelligence

• and why the most powerful tools often come from outside the rope

This is a conversation about responsibility, curiosity, and the courage to feel.

A Shibari Goddess, Spiritual Seeker, and Healer who creates safe spaces where the body and soul can communicate. Kati is fueled by questions of what lays below the surface of the everyday human interactions, cultivating depth and meaning, discovering levels of intimacy and play, finding internal and external freedom in the world, and empowering others on the journey of healing and transcendence.

https://www.shibariunravelled.com/about-kati

https://www.instagram.com/becoming_unravelled/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

Upcoming Cabo retreat May 3-10 2026

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If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Shibari as Ritual - Art Book https://www.etsy.com/listing/4414958529/shibari-as-ritual?ref=share_ios_native_control

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

We often talk about shadow as something dark - anger, jealousy, shame, the parts of us that feel too messy or socially unacceptable to show.

But there is also another kind of shadow that rarely gets the same attention, and that’s the qualities we admire in others to the point of putting them on pedestal, secretly envying them, or feeling like we’re somehow not quite enough to ever become that.

In this episode I’m speaking about the golden shadow - the brilliance, confidence, creativity, erotic power, or leadership we’ve disowned in ourselves and projected onto mentors, lovers, teachers, or public figures, and how easy it becomes to feel worthy simply by being near them instead of allowing ourselves to become that big.

Who do you admire a little too much, and what part of you is afraid to take up that same space?

If this resonates, feel free to share it with someone who might need permission to stop shrinking.

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

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Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Shibari as Ritual - Art Book https://www.etsy.com/listing/4414958529/shibari-as-ritual?ref=share_ios_native_control

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

"This is my happy place!" Rina.

In this episode, Rina explores the concept of conscious play parties, breaking down common myths and misconceptions surrounding them. She emphasizes the importance of intimacy, self-awareness, and personal responsibility in creating a fulfilling experience at these gatherings. Rina shares her insights on preparing for a play party, the different types of events, and the significance of emotional regulation. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates the transformative potential of play parties, highlighting the journey of self-discovery and connection with others.

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Shibari as Ritual - Art Book https://www.etsy.com/listing/4414958529/shibari-as-ritual?ref=share_ios_native_control

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

In this conversation, Rina explores the concept of intimacy as a skill that can be trained rather than merely a reaction to stress or loneliness. She discusses the societal tendency towards consumption in intimacy, the importance of education in fostering deeper connections, and the evolving role of intimacy workers. Rina emphasizes the need for a shift from quick fixes to meaningful relationships, highlighting the significance of understanding one's own needs and the impact of the nervous system on intimacy. The conversation also touches on empowering women in the realm of intimacy and the transformative potential of intimate experiences.

00:00 Redefining Intimacy: Beyond Consumerism

07:25 The Shift from Transaction to Depth in Intimacy

11:33 The Role of True Intimacy in Personal Growth

18:56 The Evolution of Intimacy Workers and Education

24:47 From Consumption to Creation: A New Paradigm

30:46 Empowering Women: The Shift in Intimacy Services

34:39 Nervous System Health: The Foundation of Intimacy

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us.

It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly.

In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about:

– learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture

– the danger of intensity without attunement

– how rope can either traumatize or transform

– why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes

No script. No performance. Just truth, rope, and lived experience.

Anastasia is a Shibari artist, educator, and performer, and the founder of Voudou Ropes, a brand devoted to making rope art accessible, expressive, and deeply connective.

2026 October 8-12th beginners shibari + tantra retreat.

https://www.voudouropes.com/shibari-retreat-luxe

https://www.voudouropes.com/

https://www.instagram.com/voudou.ropes/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us.

It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly.

In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about:

– learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture

– the danger of intensity without attunement

– how rope can either traumatize or transform

– why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes

No script. No performance. Just truth, rope, and lived experience.

Anastasia is a Shibari artist, educator, and performer, and the founder of Voudou Ropes, a brand devoted to making rope art accessible, expressive, and deeply connective.

2026 October 8-12th beginners shibari + tantra retreat.

https://www.voudouropes.com/shibari-retreat-luxe

https://www.voudouropes.com/

https://www.instagram.com/voudou.ropes/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training

https://www.suhai.world/

Do you actually feel at home in your home? In this episode, Rina speaks with architect and author Talor Stewart, creator of Conscious Home Design, about how your space can support your happiness, relationships, and daily rituals. You’ll learn simple, practical ways to turn any apartment or house into a nourishing “happy place” — using light, layout, and intention, not big budgets.

Talor Stewart, Architect.

Conscious Home Design, Inc.

#1 best selling book Conscious Home Design available for instant download on his website: ConsciousHomeDesign.com

Also offering certification for architects and designers in the CHD system and methodology.

[email protected]

https://www.instagram.com/conscioushomedesign/

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity. 

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training 

https://www.suhai.world/

In this juicy and transformational episode, Rina sits down with Darshana Avila, Erotic Wholeness Guide, to explore the one skill most people never learn but desperately need: how to receive.

Together, they dive into why so many women (and men) struggle to take in the very things they say they want—pleasure, connection, intimacy, desire, emotional safety—and how cultural conditioning, nervous system patterns, and unspoken fears silently block us from receiving the love and pleasure we crave.

You’ll hear real examples, practical tools, and vulnerable stories about:

– How people-pleasing kills desire

– What resentment really reveals

– Nervous system capacity & the body’s role in pleasure

– How to ask for what you want without shame

– How to communicate desires, boundaries, and kinks with clarity and love

– Why telling the truth is the gateway to deeper intimacy

This episode is an intimate map for anyone ready to open wider—to pleasure, to truth, to being seen, and to receiving fully.

Perfect for listeners longing for more authentic relationships, deeper erotic fulfillment, or simply a more honest connection with themselves.

Darshana Avila is a trauma-informed somatic educator, practitioner and international speaker who helps people reconnect with the most essential aspects of themselves — their truth, their desires, and their capacity for profound pleasure and power. 

Known for her grounded, candid, and relational approach, she bridges the worlds of erotic embodiment, trauma healing and self actualization.

Darshana’s work has been featured on Netflix’s Sex, Love & goop, The Guardian, The New Yorker, and numerous leading podcasts.

WEBSITE

darshanaavila.com 

SOCIAL HANDLES

instagram.com/darshana_avila

youtube.com/@darshana-avila

linkedin.com/in/darshana-avila

FREE GIFT

skool.com/galgasm

Galgasm! is a free online community hub for women and AFAB folks ready to live, love and lead from their deepest pleasure and power. With a library full of resources and live-taught workshops and Q&A sessions with Darshana, it's a wonderful way to begin your journey to Erotic Wholeness.

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.

This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity. 

Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training 

https://www.suhai.world/

Most people try to be attractive through looks or confidence, but the real source of magnetism is developing a personal superpower — a skill or presence that allows you to connect, attune, and offer value to others from fullness, not neediness. In this episode, Rina explores how attunement, embodied skills, and conscious practices like touch, Shibari, energy work, and empathic listening can make you irresistible, deepen intimacy, and transform your relationships, community interactions, and love life.

Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more

https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi

Let’s Connect!

Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/

Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/

Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training 

https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com