In this episode of Beyond Coaching, Rob sits down once again with Mitch Hull to explore a surprising idea: stress isn't the enemy—how we view it is. Drawing on Kelly McGonigal’s TED Talk and Carol Dweck’s mindset research, Mitch shares practical strategies for reframing stress in high-performance settings, whether you're a coach, athlete, or parent.

Episode Highlights

• [00:47] Kelly McGonigal’s TED Talk: Why stress isn’t inherently harmful
• [01:21] Connecting stress perception with mindset and elite youth athletes
• [03:20] Research linking stress beliefs to mortality risk
• [04:32] “It’s not the stress, it’s the perception”
• [06:08] Rory McIlroy’s mental approach to pressure
• [07:31] Why “don’t be nervous” doesn’t work—and what to say instead
• [10:06] The body’s physical response to stress and how to leverage it
• [12:34] Rethinking the stress equation: caring × uncertainty
• [15:29] The goal isn’t to eliminate stress—it’s to equip athletes to handle it
• [16:54] Kevin Bullis’ one-time championship speech
• [17:57] Giannis Antetokounmpo’s process-first mindset
• [19:29] Modeling emotional regulation as a coach
• [21:39] “Failure is not an option. It’s mandatory.” Why failing forward builds resilience
• [22:47] What parents should ask kids at the dinner table
• [23:38] Teaser for the next episode: youth sports and parents

Featuring

Mitch Hull – Former Olympic wrestling coach and performance consultant

Quotes from the Episode“It’s not the stress—it’s how we react to it. If you see it as preparation, your body helps you perform.” — Mitch Hull“If you’re not nervous before a championship, there’s only one explanation: you don’t care. And that’s a bigger issue.” — Mitch HullBuy Our Books

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