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In this episode, Kira sits down with Rachel Feldman to explore why so many high-achieving women feel productive yet deeply unfulfilled—and what it actually takes to heal burnout at the nervous system level. Rachel shares her personal journey from early digestive issues to asthma and eventual burnout, driven by a lifelong need to prove her worth. Hitting a wall forced her to rethink everything she believed about rest, success, and sustainability.
Together, they break down the real signs of burnout, numbness, low joy, persistent anxiety, and exhaustion that no amount of sleep seems to fix—and how perfectionism and people-pleasing keep the body stuck in emergency mode. The conversation moves beyond food plans and supplements into regulation-based tools that create lasting change, including EMDR, brainspotting, RTM, acupuncture, breathwork, and intentional micro-pauses throughout the day.
Rachel reframes sleep as a non-negotiable boundary rather than something to “earn,” and explains why small, consistent practices build resilience more effectively than pushing through with willpower. They also name the core beliefs that fuel burnout—performing for love and equating worth with output, and offer ways to replace them with self-trust, limits, and nervous system safety.
This episode highlights how healing stress patterns doesn’t just change our own lives. It transforms how we parent, lead, and break cycles of anxiety passed down through generations. Rachel also shares how her business evolved toward connection-centered support, helping others grow without burning out.
About Rachel:
Rachel Feldman is a wellness momma, a former health coach for 5 years, and a business success launch coach with 15 years in the online space. After earning just $13K in her first year, she realized she needed a sustainable strategy and built her business on solid funnels and systems. Within two and a half years, she grew to $72K, and by year three, she broke six figures. Today, she helps coaches build profitable, sustainable online and offline businesses that actually last.
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