Healed and Holy

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  • How to love like JESUS (not the way you want) Pt 1

    What does it really mean to love like Jesus in marriage?

    The Bible gives us a blueprint — and when we follow it, our spouses should be able to testify that they feel loved like Christ commands. Not just in words, but in action.

    📖 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 reminds us love is patient, kind, not self-seeking, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs.
    📖 Galatians 5:22–23 shows us the fruit of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If the Spirit is in us, this fruit should be visible in how we love.
    📖 Ephesians 5:22–25 calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives to submit as unto the Lord.
    📖 John 13:34–35 tells us to love one another as Christ has loved us.
    📖 Colossians 3:12–14 says to clothe ourselves in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience — and over all these, put on love.
    📖 Romans 12:10 calls us to honor one another above ourselves.

    This week’s episode of Healed & Holy is a call to check our receipts: does our love for our spouse look like the love Jesus modeled?

    🎧 Tune in to Episode 1 of this series: How to Actually Love Like Jesus in Marriage.

    ✨ Your dream marriage is possible — when Christ is at the center.

    #HealedAndHolyPodcast #DreamMarriage #LoveLikeJesus #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGodsWay #BiblicalMarriage

    19 min
  • Forgiveness That Frees: Learning from Stephen’s Last Breath

    Forgiveness isn’t easy… but it’s powerful.

    In Acts 7:56–60, as Stephen was being stoned to death, he prayed, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” Even in his final moments, he chose forgiveness. And then Scripture says he fell asleep — he had peace while dying, because he trusted God completely.

    Imagine how much more peace we could have while living if we gave our anger, offense, and frustration to God.

    Marriage is one of the greatest classrooms for forgiveness. You’ll be tested, stretched, and challenged — but every time you choose forgiveness, you choose freedom, peace, and unity in your covenant.

    🎧 Tune in to this week’s episode of Healed & Holy as we talk about the radical power of forgiveness and what it means to practice it in marriage.

    ✨ Tag your spouse or a friend who needs this reminder today.

    #DreamMarriage #HealedAndHolyPodcast #MarriageGodsWay #Forgiveness #BiblicalMarriage

    22 min
  • What I’ve Learned from Loving Him: Lessons from My Husband, Led by the Holy Spirit

    This episode is a love letter—
    To my husband.
    To God.
    And to anyone believing that marriage can be beautiful when it’s built with Him at the center. 💛

    Over the years, I’ve watched my husband grow into the man I prayed for—and I’ve grown right alongside him. His patience, his thoughtfulness, the way he sees me… it’s not just romantic—it’s holy. ✨

    But here's the truth: This kind of love doesn’t just happen.
    It’s cultivated. It’s refined.
    It’s a result of prayer, patience, and the presence of the Holy Spirit.

    Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or praying for restoration—this episode will meet you where you are and point you straight to the One who transforms hearts and unions.

    • Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit in action—love, patience, kindness, self-control.

    • James 1:17 – Every good and perfect gift is from above.

    • 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 – Love is patient, love is kind…

    • Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

    • Ephesians 5:21–33 – Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

    • Psalm 139 – You are fully known and deeply loved.

    • Philippians 1:6 – He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.

    • Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the kingdom and all these things will be added
      💍 Dream marriages are possible—with God in the middle.

    #HealedAndHoly #DreamMarriage #GodlyLove #MarriageMinistry #ChristianMarriage #FruitOfTheSpirit #HolySpiritLed #WifeWisdom #LoveInAction #KingdomCouple #FaithFirstLove

    27 min
  • Marriage Hacks for 2025

    In this episode I'm diving into my top FIVE marriage hacks. It's everything you need to shift NOW in order to get one step closer to being the man/woman GOD is calling you to be in your marriage so that he gets the glory. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage.

    Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

    This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

    27 min
  • Are you TRIGGERED? Pt 2

    Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're continuing the conversation about TRIGGERS, how to move through so that you don't give the enemy a foothold to create contempt in your marriage.

    Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

    This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

    18 min
  • ARE YOU TRIGGERED? PT. 1

    Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're diving into what it means to feel TRIGGERED and how to work through in a healthy way. The enemy wants to kill your joy, steal your peace, and destroy your marriage with triggers-- but we can't let him win!

    Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

    This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

    21 min
  • Let'er RIP Pt 2

    Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we’re continuing our an in depth character analysis of one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse.


    The Scriptures for this episode:

    • Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

    • Ephesians 5:28-29 – “In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body...”

    • 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up…”

    • Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠⁠

      This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

      23 min
    • Let'er RIP!

      Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode I'm diving into an in depth character analysis for one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse.


      The Scriptures for this episode:

    • Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

    • 1 Corinthians 13:7 – “It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

      Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.


      Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠


      This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

      26 min
    • Welcome Home

      Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this first episode I'm diving into why the name change and what you can expect moving forward. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage.


      Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram @HealedandHolyPodcast


      This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by Hazel Jane Collection, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

      18 min

    About Healed and Holy

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    Welcome to Healed and Holy, the podcast for believers ready to grow closer to Christ, build the marriage of their dreams, and step confidently into the life God has called them to live. Hosted by Shayla Varnado, this show combines biblical wisdom, practical advice, and real-life insights to help you navigate marriage and personal growth with purpose and intention.