In this episode of Healed. Whole. Called., Wendy sits down with Carolina Arco — leadership mentor, coach, and founder of ARCO Teachings — for a steady and wisdom-filled conversation about identity, forgiveness, and the kind of love that transforms a life from the inside out.
Carolina’s journey spans continents and seasons of uncertainty. As a teenager in Brazil, she often felt misaligned with the systems around her, unsure of her direction. At 18, she left home with little money and began building a life in São Paulo. A few years later, at 23, she immigrated alone to Canada with the intention of staying six months. That short season became ten years.
In the early years in Canada, Carolina worked long hours in a coffee shop — biking through snow before sunrise, opening the store, making hundreds of sandwiches, and closing each afternoon. Without residency status, without a clear career path, and far from home, she entered a deep season of depression and unworthiness. She describes feeling disconnected from purpose and unsure why she was even there.
It was in that fragile state that she experienced a turning point. After walking into a small shop offering a short meditation session, she encountered a profound sense of peace — a quiet, light-filled space where suffering momentarily lifted. Soon after, during a guided meditation, she experienced a vivid vision of Jesus meeting her in a small shelter in an open field. In that moment, she felt held, comforted, and seen. When Jesus’ face became the face of her earthly father — with whom she carried deep wounds — she sensed a clear instruction: forgive.
Obedience did not come easily. Forgiveness required surrendering resentment and pride. Yet she chose to call her father and tell him she forgave him. That single act marked the beginning of a year-long journey of forgiving others — and forgiving herself.
The fruit was unmistakable. Within months, circumstances began shifting. She met her future husband in an unexpected encounter on public transit. Her visa process resolved, allowing her to leave the restaurant job. A simple online ad asking, “Do you want to have a positive impact on people’s lives?” led her into the world of coaching. Mentorship, formal training, and eventually launching her own business followed.
What began as 21 days of free meditation gatherings grew organically into a global mentoring practice. Today, Carolina has supported thousands of individuals across more than 30 countries, guiding them in emotional wisdom, responsibility, and inner steadiness. She describes her life now as deeply aligned — not because hardship disappeared, but because her anchor shifted.
Even in a recent year marked by miscarriage and grief, she returned to one central practice: focus on love. Rather than chasing outcomes or attempting to fix the world, Carolina cultivates the felt reality of God’s love daily — asking, “If I am a force of love, how do I act today?”
Her message is simple but mature: love is not passive. It is chosen. It is practiced. It is carried into neighborhoods, workplaces, and marriages. It begins within and ripples outward.
For the woman listening who feels lost, disconnected, or unworthy, Carolina offers this reminder: you deserve to feel God’s love. You are not disqualified by your past, your doubts, or your detours. Forgiveness may be the doorway — and love is the path forward.
As Scripture reminds us, “Above all, love each other deeply” (1 Peter 4:8).
This episode invites us to become sanctuaries of love in a world hungry for steadiness — trusting that when we respond to today’s assignment with obedience, God weaves the larger design.
How to Connect With Carolina Arco
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/caroline.arco
Website: http://www.arcoteachings.com
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