What happens when the world feels overwhelming—and your nervous system won’t settle?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco explores what it really means to stay regulated in a dysregulated world. Through personal reflection and therapist-informed insight, Jessica shares how our nervous systems respond to stress, uncertainty, and perceived threat—even when danger is indirect.

Using a recent personal experience as a touchpoint, this episode gently unpacks the difference between survival mode and intentional regulation, reminding listeners that frustration and gratitude can coexist. You’ll learn why feeling overwhelmed makes sense, how grounding supports the nervous system, and how small, practical tools can help you feel steadier when life feels chaotic.

This episode offers reassurance, perspective, and simple practices to help you care deeply—without carrying everything at once.

Key Takeaways

1. Healing can be playful and woven into daily life.
2. It's normal to feel overwhelmed after unexpected events.
3. Both frustration and gratitude can coexist.
4. Our nervous systems react to perceived threats, even indirectly.
5. Regulation means supporting your body, not ignoring reality.
6. Grounding techniques can help shift our nervous system back to safety.
7. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method engages the senses for regulation.
8. Small moments of grounding can accumulate to create stability.
9. Caring deeply does not mean carrying everything at once.
10. Noticing when you're in survival mode is key to regulation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Personal Growth

01:57 Navigating Trauma and Growth Mindset

04:51 Understanding Nervous System Responses

09:16 Grounding Techniques for Regulation

10:05 Conclusion and Resources for Support

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mental wellness, personal growth, nervous system, grounding techniques, trauma recovery, emotional regulation, self-care, mindfulness, therapy, coping strategies

What if every season of life deserves to feel brighter?

Chasing Brighter began as a guide for women in midlife—but this season, we’re expanding the conversation. Because no matter your age, your season, or your story, you deserve joy, growth, and connection.

In Season Five, Jessica and Kelly invite you into a deeper, more honest space—one that celebrates realness over perfection and growth over pressure. This season is about connection, authenticity, and permission to be exactly who you are.

✨ Real is the new perfect—and we’re just getting started.

February on Chasing Brighter is all about turning inward and gently starting again. While Valentine’s Day often focuses on romantic love, we’re shifting the focus to self-connection.

Winter invites rest, reflection, and slowing down—so we’re leaning into that energy with tools and conversations to help you:

1. Reset your mindset and nervous system
2. Rest without guilt
3. Reconnect with yourself before reconnecting with others

We created a 7-Day Brighter Challenge: A Self-Love Reset to help you gently reconnect with yourself in this season of life.

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1. More diverse stories and voices
2. Honest conversations about growth, identity, and joy
3. Practical tools for self-care, connection, and lively living
4. Permission to let go of perfect and embrace what’s real

What if your anxiety isn’t a sign that something is wrong with you—but proof that your body learned how to survive?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco explores how anxiety often comes from past trauma, not just present-day stress. She breaks down how the nervous system learns to stay on high alert, why collective stress can amplify those responses, and how to gently support your body back into safety.

You’ll learn grounding and mindfulness tools, how to reframe anxiety as a protective strategy, and why healing isn’t about erasing the past—it’s about understanding it with compassion and patience.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I so anxious when nothing is wrong?”—this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways

1. Anxiety can be a trauma response, not just stress.
2. The body learns to stay alert from past trauma.
3. Reframing anxiety as a protective strategy is crucial.
4. Gentle check-ins can help manage anxiety.
5. Mindfulness practices can aid in grounding.
6. Collective stress affects our individual nervous systems.
7. Setting media boundaries is essential for mental health.
8. Healing involves understanding, not erasing the past.
9. Your emotional responses are valid and make sense.
10. Change is possible with support and patience.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Anxiety Beyond Stress

03:28 Tools for Managing Anxiety

04:33 Collective Stress and Its Impact

05:58 Resources for Healing and Support

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anxiety, trauma response, nervous system, emotional responses, mindfulness, grounding practices, collective stress, media boundaries, healing, mental health

Can something as simple as tea, slow movement, or tapping shift your nervous system?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco steps into the Healing Lab to test gentle, accessible tools for calming anxiety—Tai Chi, herbal tea, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping. She shares honest reflections on what felt grounding, what surprised her, and what truly helped regulate her nervous system.

You’ll experience a guided tapping exercise, learn how ritual and movement can support emotional regulation, and hear why curiosity and self-acceptance might be the most powerful healing tools of all.

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Key Takeaways

1. Healing is personal and curiosity matters.
2. EFT tapping is a standout tool for emotional regulation and anxiety.
3. Tai Chi has real powerful grounding rituals.
4. Herbal tea is a low-cost, accessible grounding tool.
5. Curiosity is a powerful part of healing.
6. Tapping on specific points can reduce stress.
7. Research supports Tai Chi as a mind-body practice.
8. The ritual of tea can act as a mindfulness practice.
9. Self-acceptance is crucial in emotional healing.
10. Finding the right class and mindset is important for Tai Chi.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Healing Modalities for Anxiety

03:11 Introduction to Tapping Exercise

07:36 Introduction to Tapping Exercise

13:18 NEWCHAPTER

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What if you didn’t have to answer every anxious “what if” to feel safe?

What if anxiety isn’t trying to predict the future, but pulling you out of the present?

In this Therapy Is My Cardio episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco invites you to think about emotional fitness the same way you think about physical fitness. Anxiety, especially “what if” thinking, is treated here not as a flaw or failure, but as a habit that can be gently retrained.

This episode focuses on awareness as the first rep. Jessica helps listeners notice when their minds drift into future-oriented worry and guides them back into the safety of the present moment. Through grounding exercises, breathwork, and compassionate reframes, she walks you through how to separate thoughts from actual threat and how to calm your nervous system without needing to “fix” yourself.

You’ll practice a warm-up for mindfulness, learn how to respond differently to anxious thoughts, and move through a soothing cool-down that reinforces a powerful truth: you’ve handled hard things before, and you don’t need to solve the future to be okay right now.

This episode is a reminder that presence is a skill, anxiety is trainable, and this moment—right here—is enough.

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Key Takeaways

1. Anxiety loves to ask, 'What if something goes wrong?'
2. Future thinking is not a failure, it's a habit.
3. I have handled hard things before.
4. I can meet this one step at a time.
5. This moment is enough.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Therapy as a Workout

01:41 Understanding Anxiety and Future Thinking

02:09 Grounding Techniques to Combat Anxiety

03:29 Reframing Anxious Thoughts

04:15 Cooling Down and Releasing Worries

05:31 Preview of Upcoming Healing Tools

06:11 NEWCHAPTER

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Ever wonder why anxiety shows up even when “nothing is wrong”?

Anxiety gets a bad reputation, but what if it’s not the enemy?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco invites you to take a softer, more compassionate look at anxiety, not as a flaw or something to “fix,” but as a natural nervous system response trying to keep you safe. Together, we explore the many ways anxiety can show up in your thoughts, body, and daily life, and why understanding it can open the door to more choice, ease, and self-trust.

Jessica breaks down common anxiety disorders, including generalized anxiety, panic disorder, and OCD, shares how to recognize when anxiety may be interfering with your life, and offers practical, accessible tools to support regulation, without pressure or perfection. From CBT strategies and sleep support to self-care that actually calms the nervous system and mindfulness practices that bring you back to the present, this episode is about meeting anxiety with awareness instead of judgment.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I like this?”—this conversation gently reframes the question to: “What does my nervous system need right now?”

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Key Takeaways

1. Anxiety is a nervous system response, not a personal flaw.
2. Understanding anxiety can provide more choices in how to respond.
3. Common anxiety disorders include GAD, panic disorder, and OCD.
4. Anxiety can manifest physically and emotionally.
5. Recognizing when anxiety interferes with life is crucial for seeking help.
6. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is effective for managing anxiety.
7. Improving sleep quality is essential for emotional regulation.
8. Self-care should focus on regulation, not indulgence.
9. Mindfulness practices can help ground individuals in the present.
10. Healing involves awareness, compassion, and consistent choices.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Anxiety: A Compassionate Approach

01:40 Exploring Common Anxiety Disorders

06:39 Recognizing Symptoms and Seeking Help

07:58 Tools for Managing Anxiety

08:28 Cognitive Behavioral Techniques

10:15 Improving Sleep for Better Mental Health

11:48 The Importance of Self-Care

13:08 Practicing Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques

15:04 Embracing Healing and Moving Forward

16:17 NEWCHAPTER

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As we step into a new year, the pressure to reset, improve, and “get it right” can quietly wake anxiety up. In this opening January episode of Healing Is My Hobby, licensed clinical social worker Jessica Colarco invites listeners to slow down and begin the year differently.

Instead of diving into productivity or self-fixing energy, this episode offers a compassionate introduction to anxiety—what it is, how it shows up, and how we can build a more supportive relationship with it. January doesn’t have to be a clean slate or an intense overhaul. It can be a recalibration, a continuation, and a chance to choose intention over intensity.

This episode sets the tone for the month of January, where we’ll gently explore anxiety in ways that feel human, accessible, and nervous-system informed—because healing doesn’t have to be heavy to be meaningful.

1. Why January can feel activating rather than refreshing
2. How anxiety thrives on urgency, pressure, and self-doubt
3. What anxiety is (and what it isn’t)
4. The difference between fixing yourself and supporting yourself
5. How to work with your nervous system instead of fighting it
6. Why the goal isn’t eliminating anxiety—but changing your relationship with it
7. A gentle alternative to New Year’s resolutions
8. Simple, compassionate intentions to anchor you this month

Instead of asking, “What do I need to fix about myself this year?”

Try asking:

“What do I want to support in myself this year?”

Choose one soft intention—not a resolution, not a transformation—just a steady anchor. Let that be enough.

Throughout January, Healing Is My Hobby will explore anxiety with curiosity and compassion—looking at how it shows up in our bodies, thoughts, and behaviors, and how we can respond with more choice and kindness.

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Thank you for being here. May this year feel less about proving something—and more about coming home to yourself.

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What if you ended the year without fixing, forcing, or reinventing yourself—just listening?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica Colarco invites you into a Nervous System Year in Review, a gentle reflection that looks back on the year through the wisdom of the body rather than productivity or achievement. Together, you’ll explore what your nervous system carried, what brought comfort, and what it’s asking for as you step into the new year—with compassion, curiosity, and care.

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Key Takeaways

1. Healing doesn't have to feel heavy or clinical.
2. Reflect on what your body carried this year.
3. You don't need to do this perfectly.
4. Recognize what soothed your nervous system.
5. Small moments of stillness can be healing.
6. Our bodies are resilient and intuitive.
7. Acknowledge what you held and healed.
8. Your nervous system needs direction, not resolutions.
9. Choose what feels grounding for the new year.
10. Be gentle with yourself; you are doing well.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Reflection

03:42 Reflecting on the Heavy Moments of 2025

07:04 Finding Comfort and Soothing Practices

09:03 Surprises and Lessons from the Year

10:12 Acknowledging Personal Growth and Pride

12:48 Setting Intentions for 2026

14:31 Closing Reflections and Gratitude

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Have you ever opened social media feeling totally fine… and closed the app feeling off—but you can’t quite explain why?

Maybe a post didn’t get the response you hoped for.

Maybe you saw something that made you feel left out, behind, or suddenly not enough.

In today’s episode of Healing Is My Hobby, we’re exploring why social media can hit so deep—and why those reactions might not be about the app at all. They might be old emotional wounds getting activated.

We’ll talk about how feelings like abandonment, comparison, and the need for validation show up online, how they connect to trauma responses, and—most importantly—how to meet those moments with awareness, compassion, and tools that actually help your nervous system settle.

This isn’t about quitting social media or shaming yourself for how you feel.

It’s about understanding your reactions, separating your worth from likes and comments, and creating digital boundaries that support your emotional health.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why did that affect me so much?”—this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways

• Social media can trigger emotional responses linked to trauma.
• Feelings of abandonment can arise from social media interactions.
• Validation wounds can be triggered by poor post performance.
• Awareness is crucial for emotional regulation.
• Naming your emotional wounds can help dissolve shame.
• Reconnecting with your body aids in emotional regulation.
• Social media is curated and not the full truth.
• Reducing exposure during vulnerable moments is important.
• Likes and comments do not define your self-worth.
• Creating digital boundaries can support emotional health.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Emotional Triggers in Social Media

06:19 Navigating Trauma Responses and Regulation Techniques

08:59 Practical Tools for Healthy Social Media Engagement

09:32 NEWCHAPTER

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What happens when you finally stop scrolling long enough to hear your own mind again?

In this episode of Healing Is My Hobby, Jessica steps into the Healing Lab to share the surprising results of her four-day social media reset. What started as a simple break quickly revealed how deeply woven digital habits are into daily life—the impulse to check, the discomfort of stillness, and the quiet comparisons happening beneath the surface. Through intentional pauses and mindful detachment, Jessica discovered clarity, sharper focus, and a calmer nervous system. This experiment didn’t just change her screen time—it reshaped her relationship with herself, her time, and the world around her.

Key Takeaways

• I realized social media doesn't add nearly as much value to my life as I thought.
• The urge to check was intense, especially in the first two days.
• With fewer inputs, my thoughts had room to breathe.
• Emotional discomfort surfaced without the distraction of scrolling.
• I didn't realize how often I compare until the comparison withdrawal.
• Micro pauses helped disrupt my autopilot behavior.
• I feel more productive because my attention is sharper.
• This single shift has radically reduced any anxiety related to social media.
• A short pause is enough to break the cycle of compulsive checking.
• I'm having more ideas and feel more connected to my values.

Chapters

00:00 The Social Media Reset Experiment

02:23 Unpacking Emotional Discomfort

04:10 Finding Connection Beyond the Screen

05:43 Lessons Learned from the Experiment

06:35 NEWCHAPTER

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