In this crossover episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda, Belinda sits down with Carlin Lutzer from The Okotoks Podcast for a thoughtful conversation about community, mental health, local identity, and why real connection still matters. They talk about what makes Okotoks special, how small-town life is changing, and why so many people are quietly craving more honest, offline connection.

From men’s mental health and the need for safe spaces, to coping pressures, the rise of gambling, social media isolation, and community growth — this episode is a real conversation about what it takes to build belonging in today’s world.

What You’ll Learn

→ Why Okotoks is more than a bedroom community

→ How podcasts can help strengthen local connection

→ Why men’s mental health needs more safe spaces

→ How gambling and coping pressures are quietly affecting men today

→ How social media can increase isolation

→ Why people are craving real offline community

→ How small actions can rebuild connection in a town

→ Why service clubs and local spaces still matter

Timestamps

00:00  Introduction

02:32  Why The Okotoks Podcast Started

08:03  Men’s Mental Health and Safe Spaces

11:16  Coping, Gambling, and Modern Pressure

19:42  Why Real Connection Feels So Hard

23:37  Growth and Keeping Okotoks Connected

About the Guest

Carlin Lutzer is a realtor, community voice, and host of The Okotoks Podcast. In this episode, he shares his perspective on local identity, growth, men’s mental health, and why meaningful conversations are so important in building a strong community.

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Host & Guest

Host: Belinda Waites — Hear Right Canada, Okotoks. Where better hearing starts with listening.

YouTube: @belindawaites  |  Instagram: @belindawaites  |  hearrightcanada.ca

Guest: Carlin Lutzer — host of The Okotoks Podcast

Website: carlinlutzer.com  |  Instagram: @carlin_lutzer

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Hosted by Belinda Waites, a Hearing Aid Practitioner who believes hearing goes far beyond our ears. Hear Me Out explores what it really means to “hear beyond the noise” — in our health, mindset, and everyday lives.
Each episode dives into honest conversations about wellness, awareness, and the small changes that create a happier, healthier you. From hearing care to heart care, Belinda helps you tune in — to yourself, to others, and to the world around you.
“Real talk on hearing, health, and living well.”
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Host: Belinda Waites Watch full episode Youtube: @belindawaites Instagram: @belindawaites Belinda Waites - Hear Right Canada – Okotoks: where better hearing starts with listening. 🌐 hearrightcanada.ca
Guest: Victoria McLeod
Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/vmcleod/
Email: [email protected]

Grief touches every life, but most of us are never taught how to talk about it, understand it, or move through it. In this episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda, Belinda sits down with Shannon Hurst, grief literacy speaker and author of My Love/Hate Relationship With Death, for a powerful conversation about grief, loss, change, resilience, and why grief is about so much more than death.
Shannon shares her personal story of deep loss, including the death of her brother, the loss of family, and how those experiences shaped the way she now teaches grief literacy and pressure literacy. Together, Belinda and Shannon explore how grief can show up in the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, children leaving home, loss of identity, workplace stress, and life transitions that change us forever.
This episode is a grounded, compassionate reminder that grief cannot be fixed . but it can be named, understood, and integrated. If youfve been carrying sadness, fear, anger, stress, or the quiet ache of change, this conversation will make you feel less alone.
00:00 Introduction 00:20 Shannonfs story behind the book 03:07 Loss, anger and early grief 08:18 Why grief is bigger than death 14:02 What grief should really look like 21:16 A healthier way to live with grief 29:27 Why language matters in grief and pressure
#GriefLiteracy #GriefSupport #ShannonHurst #BelindaWaites #HearMeOutWithBelinda #HealingAfterLoss #Resilience #MentalHealthConversations #LifeTransitions #OkotoksPodcast
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Guest: Shannon Hurst . Grief Literacy Speaker and Author Book: My Love/Hate Relationship With Death Amazon : https://www.amazon.ca/My-Love-Hate-Relationship-Death/dp/B0G6G4LXG2 Linkedin : shannon-hurst-0b89ba1a/
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Host: Belinda Waites
Watch full episode Youtube: @belindawaites
Instagram: @belindawaites
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If you or someone you love is struggling to hear clearly, especially in noisy places, this episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda is packed with insight, hope, and practical tools. Belinda sits down with audiologist Dr. Sandra Vandenhoff to talk about cochlear implants, hearing fatigue, word recognition, auditory rehabilitation, and how adults can actually train their brains to hear better.
Sandra shares her personal journey with progressive hearing loss, what it was like to receive her first cochlear implant, and how that experience changed the course of her life. Together, Belinda and Sandra break down the difference between hearing aids and cochlear implants, why hearing in noise is so exhausting, and how adults can improve communication, confidence, and connection through auditory training, lip reading, and better strategies.
This is a powerful conversation for anyone navigating hearing loss, supporting a loved one, or wanting to better understand what hearing rehabilitation really looks like.
In this episode, you’ll hear about:
● What a cochlear implant is and who it is for
● The difference between hearing aids and cochlear implants
● Why word recognition matters
● How hearing loss can lead to listening fatigue
● Sandra’s personal hearing loss journey
● Why auditory rehabilitation matters before and after devices
● How LACE AI helps train the brain to hear better in noise
● The role of neuroplasticity in hearing
● Why lip reading and communication strategies matter
● How hearing loss affects relationships and connection
● What people should know before exploring cochlear implants
00:00 Introduction 01:17 Sandra’s cochlear implant story 04:23 Her hearing loss journey 07:37 What HEARa means 09:26 Training your brain to hear better 16:29 Communication strategies that help
If this episode resonated with you, make sure to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could benefit from this conversation. Hearing support is about more than devices — it is about connection, confidence, and quality of life.
#HearMeOutWithBelinda #CochlearImplants #HearingLoss #Audiologist #AuditoryRehabilitation #HearingHealth #HearRightCanada #HearingInNoise #OkotoksPodcast #BelindaWaites
Host: Belinda Waites Watch full episode Youtube: @belindawaites Instagram: @belindawaites Belinda Waites - Hear Right Canada – Okotoks: where better hearing starts with listening. 🌐 hearrightcanada.ca
Guest: Dr. Sandra Vandenhoff Title: Audiologist Instagram: @heara.ca Youtube: @HEARa Website: www.heara.ca

This episode marks Lorie’s return to the podcast for a second conversation after first meeting with Belinda in her clinic. Since their initial episode, Lorie has gone through the process of updating her hearing aids and wanted to come back to share what that experience was really like — from learning the new technology to noticing how her new hearing aids have improved clarity, confidence, and day-to-day communication. Together, Lorie and Belinda reflect on the journey, the importance of personalized hearing care, and why hearing solutions are never one-size-fits-all.
If you or someone you love thinks hearing aids should “solve everything,” this conversation will help you understand what support actually looks like—and how to advocate for better hearing in real life.
Belinda Waites - Hear Right Canada – Okotoks: where better hearing starts with listening. 🌐 hearrightcanada.ca
Guest: Lorie Watson Economic Development Specialist – Town of Okotoks
Watch the full episode on YouTube: @belindawaites
#HearMeOutWithBelinda #HearingLoss #HearingAids #Phonak #RogerMic #HearingHealth #Okotoks #HearRightCanada #Audiology #HearingCare
Episode Timestamps
● 00:00 Finding hearing aids that actually fit your needs (not one-size-fits-all)
● 02:15 Welcome back: Lorie’s hearing journey and why it was time for new tech
● 03:55 How the right provider changed everything (and why local matters)
● 06:16 The “product + service” truth: hearing aids are more than the device
● 13:00 Roger microphones: clarity in noise and why volume isn’t the real goal
● 19:50 Community + small business: building trust, giving back, and 5 years in Okotoks

Hearing loss is about far more than just your ears. In this episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda, Belinda sits down with Femi Coo, Registered Doctor of Audiology, to talk about how hearing connects to brain health, communication, relationships, confidence, and quality of life. They also dive into hearing protection, hearing aid technology, and why personalized care still matters no matter how advanced the tech becomes.
This conversation is both educational and deeply human. Femi shares his journey from Ghana to Canada, how he found audiology, and why helping people hear again can be life-changing. From the sounds people do not realize they are missing to the emotional impact of untreated hearing loss, this episode is full of insight for anyone curious about hearing health or wondering whether it is time to get tested.
Whether you are noticing changes in your own hearing, supporting a loved one, or simply want to better understand the connection between hearing and the brain, this episode is packed with practical takeaways and powerful reminders.
f this episode helped you think differently about hearing health, share it with someone in your life who needs to hear this conversation. And if you have been putting off a hearing test, this might be your sign to book one.
00:00 Welcome and Femi’s Journey 01:33 What Audiology Really Is 05:27 Why Hearing Protection Matters 07:15 The Emotional Impact of Hearing Loss
13:22 How to Choose the Right Hearing Aid 18:54 Why Human Care Still Matters
#HearingLoss #Audiology #HearingHealth #HearingAids #BrainHealth #BelindaWaites #HearMeOutWithBelinda #Okotoks #HearingProtection #FemiCoo
Host: Belinda Waites Watch full episode Youtube: @belindawaites Instagram: @belindawaites Belinda Waites - Hear Right Canada – Okotoks: where better hearing starts with listening. 🌐 hearrightcanada.ca
Guest: Femi Coo Title: Registered Doctor of Audiology Linkedin : https://www.linkedin.com/in/femi-coo/

What We Get Wrong About Weight Loss and Nutrition
if you’ve ever felt confused about healthy eating, frustrated with weight loss, or overwhelmed by food marketing, this episode is for you.
In this powerful and honest conversation, Belinda sits down with Vicki Stride of Inspired Fitness and Health to unpack what real health looks like — especially for women in midlife. From blood sugar balance and gut health to hormone shifts and emotional eating, this episode goes far beyond calories in, calories out.
They explore why nutrition is the foundation of everything — mood, sleep, metabolism, hormones — and why weight loss is often the result of becoming healthy… not the other way around.
If you’re navigating perimenopause, struggling with cravings, raising kids in a processed food world, or simply trying to make better choices in the grocery store — this conversation will give you clarity, confidence, and practical insight.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction 02:14 Vicki’s Journey from Corporate to Fitness 05:36 Stoplight Eating for Kids 10:10 Big Food, Processed Foods & Label Reading 18:00 What Is Metabolic Balance? 23:00 Blood Sugar Spikes & Cravings Explained 26:30 GLP-1 Medications and Nutrition Education 34:00 The Messy Middle of Healthy Habits 37:15 Nutrition, Hormones & Midlife Changes
If you found this conversation helpful, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs clarity around health and nutrition.
Your health is your responsibility — and your power.
#MidlifeHealth #WomensHealth #HormoneBalance #GutHealth #HealthyEating #MetabolicHealth #WeightLossJourney #PerimenopauseSupport #Okotoks #AlbertaHealth
Host: Belinda Waites Watch full episode Youtube: @belindawaites Instagram: @belindawaites Belinda Waites - Hear Right Canada – Okotoks: where better hearing starts with listening. 🌐 hearrightcanada.ca
Guest: Guest: Vicki Stride Instagram: inspiredfitnessandhealth Email: [email protected]

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “fine” while your body is quietly waving red flags — this conversation is for you. In this episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda, Belinda sits down with Sandi Scott of Scott Mortgages to talk about the power of community connection, the courage it takes to be vulnerable, and why women so often ignore their own health until something forces a wake-up call.
From navigating intense stress and caregiving, to learning how to de-stress when your nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone — and you don’t have to do life (or business) on hard mode. They also connect the dots between heart health, hearing health, and the importance of getting checked even when you’re not “sure” something is wrong.
In this episode, we cover:
● How community connection creates safety and confidence
● Why vulnerability is the fastest path to real connection
● Women’s health wake-up calls and the cost of ignoring symptoms
● Stress, caregiving, and learning who you are outside of your roles
● “Busy” as a badge of honor — and why we need to unlearn it
● How to prioritize self-care like an actual appointment
● Hearing health and why you might not know what you’re missing
● Financial confidence, mortgages, and educating people without judgment
Call to action If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs the
reminder to slow down, get checked, and lean into community. And drop a comment: What’s one small way you’re protecting your peace this week?
Hashtags #Okotoks #AlbertaPodcast #WomenInBusiness #CommunityConnection #SelfCareMatters #StressManagement #HeartHealth #HearingHealth #Vulnerability #SmallTownBusiness

Confidence isn’t always what it looks like on the outside. In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, host Belinda Waites sits down with local Okotoks confidence coach Wendy Halloway to explore the difference between performative confidence and authentic self-confidence—and what it truly takes to reclaim joy after years of survival mode.
Belinda shares a vulnerable story from her childhood that shaped how she learned to show up in the world, even when it meant hiding parts of herself to feel safe. Together, they unpack how early experiences, bullying, self-talk, and subconscious patterns influence who we become—and how we can gently unlearn what no longer serves us.

This episode is a reminder that confidence is a skill, authenticity is a practice, and joy often lives in the quiet moments we’ve been taught to ignore.
In this episode, we discuss:
● Why confidence can exist without authenticity
● How childhood experiences shape adult self-belief
● The long-term impact of bullying and unspoken wounds
● Why joy disappears—and how to find it again
● The difference between expectation and appreciation in relationships
● Reprogramming subconscious self-talk
● Learning to trust your body as a source of truth
● Giving yourself permission to change

Call to Action: If this conversation resonates, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who might
need to hear it. And if you’re curious about doing the work for yourself, explore Wendy’s Fearful to Fearless program linked below.
Host: Belinda Waites Website: https://hearrightcanada.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/belindawaites Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@belindawaites
Guest: Wendy Halloway – The Confidence Coach Website: https://www.theconfidencecoach4u.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheConfidenceCoach4u

In this special episode of Hear Me Out with Belinda, Belinda invites her “most difficult client” into the studio — her husband, Sean.
Together, they have a real, honest conversation about Sean’s journey with tinnitus, sound sensitivity, and high-frequency hearing loss. Sean shares how a painful salivary gland issue and surgery led to ongoing ringing in his ears, the mental fatigue of constantly “filling in the blanks” at work, and what it’s really like to live with invisible hearing challenges day to day.
Belinda walks through the treatment options, the long road of trying different hearing aids, and how they finally landed on a custom in-the-ear solution that supports both his tinnitus and hearing needs — while fitting his lifestyle (yes, even pickleball). They also talk about stigma, why some people delay getting help, and how the right hearing care professional can make all the difference.
If you or someone you love is struggling with tinnitus, sound sensitivity, or hearing loss, this conversation will give you insight, language, and a little bit of hope.