Love isn’t a lightning strike—it’s a conscious choice made with a clear mind and a steady heart. In this episode, we take The Lovers card beyond soulmates and fairytales into the deeper work of autonomy, attachment, and inner integration. Using the Rider–Waite imagery—the red-winged angel, the sun that burns through illusion, the Trees of Knowledge and Life, and the volcanic mountain—we explore how symbolism becomes practice: choosing with clarity, respecting edges, and allowing desire without chaos.
We unpack why so many of us mistake drama for passion and how our early experiences train the nervous system to chase what’s familiar, not what’s healthy. Through stories of postpartum shifts, grief for old versions of ourselves, and the changing rhythms of partnership, we talk about what it takes to build a love that can weather seasons. Expect grounded insights and gentle challenges—on calm intimacy versus volatile intensity, “what I need” versus “what I think I deserve,” and daily choice versus passive drift.
We also dig into projection: the parts of ourselves we exile and then battle in our partners, and how integration transforms conflict into connection. If you’re navigating big decisions, learning to trust your intuition again, or wondering whether your relationship still supports your growth, this episode offers both reflection and repair.
Pull a card, tune in to your body, and see what reveals itself when the sun comes out.
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