Hearts & Stripes

Welcome to an exciting new season of Hearts & Stripes podcast.  Each episode will bring you resources to strengthen your military marriage, highlight mission partners in this work and share the behind the scenes of Military Marriage Day.  Hearts & Stripes podcast is the official podcast for Military Marriage Day so if you are looking for us on YouTube or highlights on social media, you can find us @militarymarriageday.

Today we are talking all things Five and Thrive!  Five & Thrive was created to improve quality-of-life challenges our Air and Space Force families face in five focus areas: Childcare, Education, Healthcare, Housing, and Spouse Employment.  We thought these five focus areas would be ideal to highlight within our MMD virtual countdown.  Each day we will share the impacts of military marriage as it relates to these five areas.  Listen in to get a sneak peek of what to expect August 7-14th for the Military Marriage Day Virtual Countdown!

Website

https://www.fiveandthrive.org/

Thrive Guide

https://www.fiveandthrive.org/thrive-guide

Today’s Heart Track is Mambo Number Five by Lou Bega

Listen to our Heart Tracks 2022 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4MbugB2kQFI404L4ImMQ6Z?si=2df5ee8ce1e543e3

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.militarymarriageday.com

Connect with Military Marriage Day on IG & Facebook @militarymarriageday

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

We are back!  Welcome to an exciting new season of Hearts & Stripes podcast.  Each episode will bring you resources to strengthen your military marriage, highlight mission partners in this work and share the behind the scenes of Military Marriage Day.  Hearts & Stripes podcast is the official podcast for Military Marriage Day so if you are looking for us on YouTube or highlights on social media, you can find us @militarymarriageday.

Today we are talking with Elle Rueger, Founder of SOLEDIER SOCKS. The concept began in 2010 after sending socks to a deployed friend, and seeing the difference they made in the health of his feet. Officially launched in 2017 and donating to veterans and troops worldwide. We are on track to donate 50,000 pairs this year!

Website

solediersocks.com

Welcome back to Hearts & Stripes podcast.  We took a Spring Break that allowed us to evaluate what is next for Hearts & Stripes Podcast and today I’m excited to share what that looks like.  First and foremost, thank you for being a listener, whether you’ve listened to one episode or binge listened to them all, you are appreciated.  This podcast started as my way of bridging the gap between service couples and marriage resources.  The platform has grown into a national holiday, Military Marriage Day (August 14th) and a way to serve couples to meet their relationship needs.  I could have never imagined this would all come from starting a podcast.  Moving forward we have decided to shift from a yearly seasonal podcast to releasing seasons around Military Marriage Day and potentially again around Valentine’s Day.  Here is what the new season of Hearts & Stripes has in store: 

1. Hearts & Stripes podcast is the official podcast of Military Marriage Day

Today’s Heart Track is Lover by Taylor Swift

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/bcarrollevents

Welcome to the Hearts & Stripes podcast!  Have you heard of the CARE Method?  This is my proprietary method that I use when working with clients and through my own personal goals and challenges.  Today I am giving you a crash course in the CARE Method so that you can apply this action plan to your life and relationship.  Grab a pen and paper and let’s get to work!

DISCUSSION

What do you want to CARE about?

C- Careful Consideration

1. Get a clear vision of what your goal looks and feels like.

A- Assess the Foundation

1. What stories, beliefs, or feelings may get in the way of you reaching your vision?

R- Reinforce the Structure

1. What type of support do you need to keep you on track to CARE? Who do you need?

E- Engage + Trust

1. What actions do you need to take to truly CARE?  Let’s Earn Your Stripes (EYS) and do the things!

Command Collective Invictus Bracelet Launches April 8th!!

Today’s Heart Track is Tell Me If You Still Care by The SOS Band 

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on the Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community, and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

Welcome to Hearts & Stripes podcast.  Today we are talking about therapy.  In this discussion, I hope to shed the light on what therapy is and why it may be a resource more people consider to support them.  Personally, I have seen a counselor and really enjoy it.  This is something I’d verbally supported, but never actively engaged in until now.  Lean in as we talk about therapy and share resources that may help you find a clinician near you.

DISCUSSION:

1. What is Therapy? (Good Therapy : https://www.goodtherapy.org/what-is-therapy.html)

Military OneSource: https://www.militaryonesource.mil/confidential-help/non-medical-counseling/military-onesource/free-confidential-face-to-face-non-medical-counseling/

On or Near Installation: Military and Family Life Counselor (MFLC), Tricare Referral for Clinical Psychologists 

Other Options: betterhelp.com , therapyforblackgirls.com , www.life-giver.org/cliniciandirectory/

1. What types of therapy should I consider?

Non-medical counseling vs Medical counseling

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

Doors open on March 24th, but you can join the waitlist now to get all the details first!

Today’s Heart Track is Breathin by Ariana Grande 

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community, and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

Welcome to Hearts & Stripes podcast.  Today we are talking about how we can better show up for ourselves so that we can better show up for our marriage, our families, our communities, and other areas.  We focus on what building ourselves up looks like and ways we can do so.  This aligns with our first principle that we love to highlight on the podcast, thriving personally.  Being self first is not selfish and we hope this discussion during Women’s History Month encourages you to think about a new way you can build yourself up this month.

DISCUSSION: The best ways to build you 

1. Pour into yourself by listening to podcasts, participating in therapy, leaning into your faith, and/or finding a coach

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

Doors open on March 24th, but you can join the waitlist now to get all the details first!

Today’s Heart Track is I Am Woman by Emmily Meli

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community, and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

Are you a military spouse or service woman in need of a community of like hearted ladies ready to keep it real, go after ambitious goals and thrive?  Well, I invite you to check out the Command Collective Community.  

It can be a challenge to find your people within this military lifestyle.  We typically look to spouse clubs or installation organizations, however each time you do a PCS move, you have to start all over again building relationships.  The Facebook groups offer us spaces to try to connect, but those groups don’t grow with you, however, do you really want to put your vulnerabilities out in those internet streets?

The Command Collective offers a secure location for open dialogue and a squad that goes and grows with you.  We help you set goals and support you in achieving tangible results because we believe that you are made for more and when you win we all win.

Doors open March 24th, but you can join the waitlist now to get all the details first!  

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

We are tackling the topic of marriage during deployment with our friends at Join me on this full circle moment as I reconnect with powerhouse military spouse Christine Hinrichs.  She shares her milmarriage story and journey to finding purpose and thriving. 

Key Takeaways

- We often loose sight of who we are in this military life.  What is my identity?   How can I be true to myself?

- Determine your first step to or, best next step by figuring the best work life balance for yourself.

- Stop asking what I should be doing.  The better question to ask is, "Who do I want to be?".  It's the difference of doing and being.

Christine's Steps:

- Get Started 

The MilSpouse Mastermind Show with Christine provides weekly conversations to help you walk through this self discovery journey.

- Get Unstuck

Get Unstuck Guide: MilspouseMastermind.com/GrowthWheel

10 Area Growth Wheel: healthy input = healthy output

- Go Deeper

MilSpouse Purpose Playbook: morethanamilspouse.com

About Our Guest

Christine Hinrichs is a military spouse, mom of three, marketing strategist, and coffee connoisseur. She is the host of the MilSpouse Mastermind Show, a podcast dedicated to helping military spouses get unstuck, find purpose, and begin pursuing their dreams in a sustainable way.

Connect with Christine

Podcast : The MilSpouse Mastermind Show

Today's Heart Track: Better Together by Jack Johnson

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

We are tackling the topic of marriage during deployment with our friends at MilHousing Network.  Listen in on Lindsey Litton as she takes the lead in interviewing me on this topic.  We break down all things pre deployment through send off and provide tips to help you navigate that time.  Here are things to prepare your marriage for deployment:

Communication:

- Is your paperwork in order? (Will, power of attorney, etc.) 

- Make time to discuss your plan of action.  Use the 5 Love Languages and think of ways to fill one another's cup.

The Sendoff:

- How will you say "see you later"?

- Create space to allow your kids to express their thoughts and emotions.

The In Between:

- Are you preparing your spouse for their return?  Share new routines and changes so your spouse is aware.

- Share your personal and collective wins to create points of connection.

This convo is also featured as Episode 147 on Milhousing Network podcast.  Head over there to hear part two of our conversation!

MilHousing Network co-founder Lindsey Litton is joined by 2020 AFI Air Force Spouse of the Year, Bree Carroll! Join them as they navigate how to keep the spark alive when your spouse is gone and you're in transition all the time.

Helping military families connect with military real estate experts throughout the US. Learn more about MilHousing Network at https://milhousingnetwork.com/ !

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll

Happy Black History Month! Today, on Hearts & Stripes podcast we hope to spark some excitement to think about your legacy through dreaming. In this episode I'm invited all my service couples to dream again, individually and collectively. Here are some of our big takeaways:

1. Think about previous or new dreams personally and with your partner. What dream would yo like to reach for?

2. Your dream will help you visualize the path to that end goal. Are you ready to lean into the dream? Are you ready to do what it takes to make it happen? (Note: This is Phase 1 in the CARE Method - Carful Consideration)

3. Building a legacy and dreaming again will lead to you seeing more wins in your life! Dreaming is the first step, which is followed by action.

4. If your dream doesn't scare you, it's not big enough. Your dream isn't purpose focussed if it's all about you.

5. Dream BIG & build your legacy!

Today's Heart Track :

Could Have Been Me by Halsey COMMAND

Listen to our Heart Tracks 3 playlist on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3izcNRGc44G4rHt4qcJzUJ?si=eaef4f0267684ed0

COLLECTIVE COMMUNITY

Learn more here: https://www.breecarroll.com/community

MILITARY MARRIAGE RESOURCE GUIDE

Learn more here: https://www.militarymarriageday.com/resources

Let's Connect:

To get even more on Hearts & Stripes podcast, resources, community and more head to https://www.breecarroll.com

Connects with Bree on IG https://www.instagram.com/itsbreecarroll

Connect with Bree on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/itsbreecarroll