Heather's Detours

Its amazing to learn what is happening in our little community. This episode I sit down with Jill Anderson who is the Executive Director of CAPSA. She has dedicated more than 25 years to helping others.  Its good to be aware and I am grateful for the education program they are implementing in our schools. We need to be aware.  Join me and I promise you wont regret it.

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Hello! I am still here, are you?  Season 3 has begun. Perspective is a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. This can be so important in any relationship. Join me today and can I just say I have missed you all.

Conflict is a recurring issue in step families and life. I am wrapping up season 2 and we discuss this and more. Thanks for joining me and coming along the ride with Heathers Detours. This week marks 1 year of this podcast. Thanks for all your support and comments and downloads. Please share this podcast and remember I love feedback and questions. Have a good summer and Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there.
I read a quote today, " I am not a step dad, I am a dad who stepped up!" thanks Doug we love you.  And to all the fathers who step up. THANK YOU
Love,
Heather

Creating a parenting plan and sticking to it is tricky at times and Complaints happen. Today we talk about some of them. Do you know the way you handle your parenting plan can effect your kids self esteem?  Details are important. Explaining change is okay and its healthy for all. Consistency is so important especially at the beginning of a separation or divorce. Join me today on Heathers Detours.
Choose your Hard-
Heather 

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This is a subject that is a hard one for me.  It's a detour that I have felt I needed to talk about yet didn't know how? A friend of mine and past guest Kyle called me one day and said he felt like he wanted to talk about this subject and how he has unfortunately dealt with this on many levels. To me it was a sign. I was wanting to talk about it and than he called. Its a sad thing to talk about. Being educated is important though. Join us today and hear some advice and warning signs to look for.   

 Ripple Effect (noun)
 Definition says: the continuing and spreading results of an event or action

Divorce is hard and it effects your life in so many ways. Divorce effects obviously you and if children are involved  it effects them too.  Does it effect others? You bet it does. Today I have two siblings of mine join me as we take a trip down memory lane to discuss and hear their point of view and how my divorce has had ripple effects in their life too. It was emotional in man ways and I am so grateful for my family.

Happy Memorial Day.  Grateful for my freedom and those who have and continue to fight for our freedoms.

When someone has a heart attack, we immediately run to help them.  Some say its a BIG wake up call to things going on in our body.  We quickly  pay attention and seek for help. 
In our marriages or life we sometimes have "heart attacks"  and we need to be aware and take precaution and necessary steps to heal the issues. Recovering  from any form of "heart attack" isn't easy.  Some say,  people are never the same after a divorce or trial or heart attack. Join me today as we talk with Attorney Peter Olson. He has some advice and has developed a course to help save us from "heart attacks."

Show Notes:  transformyour.family
Achieve a Magnificent Marriage

*Zoom calls can be tricky with my sound. Sorry for any difficulties you have with the sound. 

What is Head Space? It's how I describe thoughts in our head that can become our reality. However, is that reality true? Today I talk about this and share some stories. Blending families can create a lot of head space. Its also natural to have opinions just make sure what we think is TRUE! Join me on this episode to understand what I am talking about. I hope this will help you or relate in some aspect of your life.
Love,
Heather

Show Notes:
Loving what is: Byron Katie

 First off Happy Mothers Day!
Trials come in all forms and today I talk with Val and she shares with us some twist that happened to her as a mother.  We talk about her journey  with her family and husband. Sometimes when trials hit we can take it out on those we love most. Everyone is fighting a battle and I can't stress enough to be kind and give a little more love even when its hard. Enjoy this podcast and search for gratitude this week in your life. 
Love,
Heather

You don't want to miss this episode. Its a good reminder to live like you are dying. Life is a gift. Friends are a gift. Your significant other is a gift. Family is a gift and so on.  How do you comfort those who need comfort. Join us today on Heathers Detours with Marissa.

Do something for someone else and pay it forward