Today Doug and I talk about Divorce. Not just one divorce but 6?  Join us now and if you have a specific question you can email me at [email protected] or message me on Instagram.  Divorce is not fun and remember no one wins.  If you  are thinking about divorce or you are in the middle of it hang on, there is hope. Have a good week.
love,
Heather

show notes: Human Intimacy Marriage, the family, and its meaning

Have you ever Meditated?  Do you know what meditation is?  It has so many angles.  I wanted to learn more so on this episode I talk with Kiersten Wilson. She is an amazing lady and she opens up and shares her experience with meditation. She opened my eyes and made me realize I knew more than I thought. Sometimes we make things harder than we need to. You don't want to miss this. Let me know what you think.  I challenge us all to spend a little time to do something for ourselves. 
Love,
Heather

P.S  A Happy Birthday Shoutout to my wonderful Husband!

Responsibilities change as we go throughout our life. When blending a family new guidelines need to be set.  Responsibilities can set the tone for the home and its so important to make sure we are all on board.  Our mind is a powerful tool when blending families or with any new relationship.  The life you once had is forever changed and you feel over burdened.  I remember being a new single mom and I had a lot of responsibilities and even more was added to my plate.  Many times it was overwhelming and I felt like I was drowning.  Todays episode we talk with, "The Transformed Couple"  we talk about responsibilities and get a female and male perspective. They are an amazing couple ( from Canada) and I think you will enjoy this episode.  Now lets listen to this podcast
love,
Heather

I am back!  I have missed recording and talking with all of you.  I hope this episode resonates with one of you or better yet ALL of you.  At the end of each episode I always worry if I conveyed  my words in the right way .  It is hard at times to put my thoughts and feelings into the right words. It feels good to be back and I have  great things in the works. My last episode taired on November 23, 2020.  Ironically, its my 44th birthday today and I found it fitting to start season 2. 
 Happiness sounds so easy, people say its a choice?  Maybe it sounds fake?  This episode I discuss some things I learned about myself this holiday season. I share examples and some advice on happiness.  Hopefully you can  relate and this episode can help you in some way.  I do love feedback and I would love for you to leave a review on iTunes or whatever app you use.  It would be the best birthday gift.  Here we are at the beginning of season two. Cant wait to see where this takes us all....
love,
Heather

Wrapping up season one!!!! THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for all your support and downloads. Please share this podcast on social media and with family or friends. Also please leave a review  on  Apple podcast or Spotify. Leaving a review helps me grow and helps my podcast pull up for those searching for a podcast on divorce, blending families etc.

Today I talk a little about Holidays and give some advice as we are entering the holiday season. I also share something really sweet my new in-laws did to help me feel excepted as we began our blended family during the holiday season. I pray you all have a good Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year. Wherever you are right now be grateful for what you have. I know this can be hard however our attitudes effect a lot of our moods and this is important for the holidays.  I would love to hear from you. Please message me tell me your thoughts on season one. Please tell me what you would you like to see in season two? I have some fun ideas. 

Also please follow Heathers Detours on Instagram or Facebook. I will be posting giveaways and tips on more blending families  and releasing information for Season two.  I would love to stay in contact. Until season 2..... One more thing Check out www.heathersdetours.com  you can leave a message there too.
Love
Heather

 This topic can be a hard one to talk about. However I know its important and we can all learn from this episode. I was so honored to have Geoff Steurer join me on Heathers Detours. Geoff is a therapist and author. He is an expert on this topic and I enjoyed talking with him about pornography and the effects it has on marriage. Can a marriage survive pornography?  Listen to todays episode as we discuss this question and much more.  I promise you will learn so much.  

Make today great
-Heather

Show Notes:  Fight the New Drug
                               Beauty Redefined

This episode I sat down with our oldest boy. Cole and I talked about things that we have never discussed before. Cole is my step-son.  I say that so you know the family connection however to me he is my son.  I am so proud of him for being raw and honest with me. I met Cole at age 12. He is now 23 and a husband and father to our sweet granddaughter. You don't want to miss the advice he gives and I truly believe this episode can help anyone whos listens.  Please join me today.
 I love feedback so please drop me a line or message on Instagram/ HeathersDetours or [email protected] and message me. Thanks for all your support!
Love,
Heather

Thinking about getting remarried? Thinking you have it all together? So glad that  your marriage is safe? In reality nothing is guaranteed.  It can be a scary thought and a hopeless feeling.  It doesn't matter where we are in out life's or what age we are we all have to work on our relationships.  Today we talk about life and when things don't go as planned. I was lucky to have Kylee Ann join  me on this podcast. You don't want to miss this episode! Also Happy November

I was  excited to interview the author of The Invincible Family by Kimberly Ells. Her book talks about, "Why the Global Campaign To crush Motherhood and Fatherhood can't win." You may be surprised how much the family is under attack?  Her book is very insightful. I know there is a war on families I don't think I really realized all the details. Join me today and listen . You may hear some statistic's that are staggering.  One thing Kimberly mentioned is the importance of reading to our children from great books that speak and teach the truth.

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stopcse.org

This podcast hit 4000 downloads this past week. Thank you so much for all of your support. I honestly had no idea what to expect and I still don't not know what to compare it to. However I think 4000 downloads is great, I will take it. So again thank you. Today I talk briefly with you on some little things. Join me today and let me know what you think about these three topics we lightly talk about. I love hearing from you. Here's to another week. Remember you got this!

Love,
Heather