Hell Love A Ride

Welcome back to another episode of Hell Love A Ride. In this season finale, our hosts Dr. Joe, Dr. Brandi, JoJo, and Carter dive deep into the power of language, effective communication, and the importance of doing the inner work. They open up about a painful experience with their spouse, discussing the journey towards healing and the challenges faced along the way. From managing emotions to envisioning healthier relationships, we explore the impact our actions have on ourselves and those around us. Stay tuned as we uncover the secrets to finding peace, strengthening intimacy, and growing together. So grab a cup of tea, settle in, and let's embark on this transformative journey together. Welcome to the season finale of Hell Love A Ride Podcast. 

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group. 

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 
Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 
Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com 
Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/ 

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TIMESTAMPS: 
[00:02:23] Grandma, heat, great people, known faces. 
[00:06:46] Loving, compassionate husband apologized for hurting me. 
[00:08:35] Little character but real conversations with sons. 
[00:11:38] US pilot season: impact, what people want, keep going. 
[00:14:46] Involving kids in family conversations by asking questions. 
[00:19:00] Language is powerful; express yourself appropriately. 
[00:23:04] Mismatched socks cause trouble but it's okay. 
[00:25:43] Empathic children can sense our emotions. 
[00:30:18] Remember Carter, work on yourself for a successful relationship. 
[00:32:15] The impact of parents on their children. 
[00:35:53] Graduate school and university job funded education. 

 Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Hell Love A Ride Podcast! In today's episode, titled "Traditional Education vs Nontraditional Education", Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi dive into some thought-provoking topics. They discuss the importance of branding and selling oneself, reflecting on their personal experiences and the challenges they faced along the way. From missing friendships to navigating strong relationships and the complexities of education, they explore it all. Traditional versus nontraditional education is at the forefront of their discussion, debating the merits of both paths. So, grab a drink and get ready to explore the twists and turns of life's journey with Dr. Brandi and Dr. Joe. 

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group. 

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 
Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 
Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/ 

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 TIMESTAMPS: 
[00:00:04] Traditional vs nontraditional education: Choose your path. 
[00:05:40] Pandemic, Harvey Weinstein, equality, and hypocrisy. 
[00:08:49] Thinking about friendships and missing loved ones. 
[00:11:16] Exploring holistic health and living well. 
[00:14:54] Discussing life, love, legacy, relationship challenges, grief, parenting, and work. 
[00:17:27] "What do you wish you learned academically?" 
[00:20:48] College is a great place to develop skills. 
[00:23:00] Self-branding essential: promote yourself, not others. 
[00:28:25] College athlete with low grades finds adventure. 
[00:30:16] Focused on different path, denied PhD, married. 
[00:35:12] Mixed experience at Clark Atlanta HBCU. 
[00:37:14] Cried in Chancellor's office, transferred, found motto. 
[00:39:15] Applied for PhD but didn't get in. 
[00:44:42] Failed test twice, passed on third attempt. 
[00:46:09] Traditional education has its place, but don't limit yourself. Self-education is essential for success. 
[00:49:16] Podcast sponsored by Diane Morgan and Joe Johnson Group 

 Welcome back to another episode of Hell Of A Ride! In today's episode titled "The Pivot, the Shift, and the Adjustment," hosts Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi dive deep into the complex dynamics of career and relationships. Our speaker reflects on their own experience with making pivots within their careers and relationship, criticism, breakup, and the importance of determining if a connection can endure before considering marriage. They also discuss the challenges of long-term relationships and share insightful perspectives on making small and major pivots. Get ready for an episode filled with introspection, personal growth, and valuable lessons. So sit back, tune in, and let's explore the ride! 

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group. 

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 
Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 
Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com 
Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/ 

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TIMESTAMP: 
[00:00:13] Reflect on what speaks to your soul. 
[00:05:54] People aging well and feeling confident despite others. 
[00:07:20] Skinny body, gym, physical, mental, consistent work. 
[00:12:37] Importance of shared health and wellness goals. 
[00:14:45] Pivots and maturing spirituality in relationship. 
[00:17:25] Relationship starts with false promise, difficult adjustment. 
[00:19:38] Long term relationships are challenging; personal dissatisfaction. 
[00:24:02] Receiving, understanding, mature breakup, potential for marriage. [00:28:36] Choose wisely, consider values, avoid conflict. 
[00:31:52] Lost $10,000 due to poor planning. Lesson learned. 
[00:35:29] Huge pivot leads to burnout and dissatisfaction. 
[00:37:03] Yearning for clarity, I fasted and prayed. 
[00:42:06] Think before pivoting, seek sound advice. Amazing results. 

 Welcome back to another episode of Hell Love A Ride! In this heartfelt episode titled "Handling Grief and Loss," your hosts Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi dive deep into the complexities of grief, loss, and navigating life's toughest moments. We open up about our personal experiences with grief and share how we've learned to cope and find meaning in the face of tragedy. From childhood memories to the impact of divorce, navigating sports-related grief to the untimely loss of loved ones, this episode explores the many layers of the human experience. So grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and join us as we dive into the profound emotions and resilience that come with the journey of healing. Let's ride! 

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group. 

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 
Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 
Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/ 
Production/Post Production Now Social Space @nowsocialspace 

TIMESTAMP: 
[00:00:14] Challenged to write 5 life-enhancing habits. 
[00:06:09] "Don't speak, observe, and judge later." 
[00:07:36] Tired from nursing schedule, pondering mortality. 
[00:12:29] Loss and grief encompass various life changes. 
[00:16:19] Identity crisis in athletes due to injury. 
[00:18:02] Women's impact transcends loss in practice. 
[00:20:39] Handling stressors with a "nobody died" attitude. 
[00:24:03] Remembering childhood experiences and navigating divorce's impact. [00:29:10] Mother's death at 10 changed me emotionally. 
[00:32:58] It reveals truth in dysfunction and death. 
[00:36:06] Mother's death, grandfather's tears, reflections on life. 
[00:38:03] Unpredictable, impactful moments shape healing journey. 
[00:41:52] Spend time. Adapt practices. Endure grief. [00:43:58] Buckle up for a wild roller coaster. 

Welcome back to Hell Love a Ride, the podcast where we dive deep into the complexities of life and tackle the topics that matter most. In today's episode, Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi confront varying opinions and beliefs about recognition and appreciation in their careers. While Dr. Brandi extends a heartfelt shout out to entertainer, Teyana Taylor and relates to feeling overlooked in her own career; Dr. Joe extends the message of being patient with one’s professional journey. Shifting gears, they begin to explore the fascinating dynamics of alcohol-induced revelations as a common cultural norm for coping and recreation. Why do people express their true emotions and thoughts when under the influence? Is it a shield to protect themselves or a way of coping with anxiety and nerves? We uncover the psychology behind this intriguing behavior. But that's not all! They pivot the conversation engaging in a light-hearted and wildly entertaining discussion about personal peeves and concerns, including excessive boasting, obnoxious humor, and non-stop complaining. And just when you thought things couldn't get more interesting, buckle up for a riveting tale about a distinctive smell on the basketball court. Trust us, you won't want to miss this engaging and exciting yet refreshingly informative episode! 


Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group.

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 

Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience 
Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 

Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com

Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/

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TIMESTAMP: 
[00:00:07] Identify top 5 pet peeves others have.
[00:04:38] Son's anger issues with video games.
[00:08:30] Be patient with your journey, feel overlooked.
[00:11:38] Unrecognized work, lack of funding for outreach.
[00:14:28] Natural for you to think help is advice.
[00:19:07] Pet peeve: always being late for dates.
[00:22:23] Overbearing boasting, humor, sarcasm, and complaining.
[00:25:34] Friday, found the source of a bad smell.
[00:27:32] Air dew, funky catch, post-gym shower delay.
[00:33:08] Hair cliffhanger, trauma acknowledgment, time perception discrepancy.
[00:34:10] Effort in appearance, caring nature, valid excuses.
[00:38:50] Dishes aren't a big deal; love is.
[00:40:38] The end.

This episode is sure to take you on one Hell Love a Ride as tensions rise between both Dr. Brandi and Dr. Joe. Topic of discussion is how personal decisions can impact your romantic relationship. Tackling a popular topic within the Black community – Black hair – both Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi confront social norms and values around beauty, vulnerable communication, and self-confidence. This episode is sure entertain and enlighten as the doctor duo demonstrate in real time how they navigate tough conversations. They explore the importance of doing the work to become a better partner, the trials and errors of navigating relationships without proper examples, and the significance of living in the present moment when tensions and conflict arise.  Our speaker reflects on the idea of regulating distress and shares their insights as a shrink. As always, our Dr. Brandi emphasizes empathy and understanding, reminding us that negative behaviors may stem from internalized emotions and personal struggles. While Dr. Joe expresses affirmation and validation to his wife Dr Brandi, demonstrating the power of introspection and care. In a candid moment, they reveal how their relationship with you, the listener, has contributed to their own personal growth. Plus, get ready for some heartwarming-yet-humorous anecdotes involving after-school dances, challenging university experiences, and the power of emotional release. So grab a cup of coffee, put on your headphones, and join us as we navigate the twists and turns of love and self-discovery in this captivating episode sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group. Let's ride! 


Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group.

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 

Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience 
Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 

Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com

Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/

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TIMESTAMPS: 
[00:00:02] Dr. Joe asks: Should you discuss appearance changes?
[00:05:31] Preparing to delve into a challenging discussion.
[00:06:57] Importance of communication, specifically vulnerable communication.
[00:12:20] Inheriting trauma, hair insecurities in marriage.
[00:14:31] Mixed feelings about new haircut, insecure at first. Negative comment causes second thoughts. Spouse's disapproval triggers anger.
[00:17:04] Questioning connectedness, levels of disclosure, decision ownership.
[00:21:46] Importance of understanding attraction and communication: Hair.
[00:25:43] Change in someone takes time to adapt.
[00:29:27] Cut hair, confirm bald, ask about beard.
[00:33:04] "You don't need details about my appearance."
[00:36:17] Deeper than that, hurt to hear.
[00:37:01] Surf, slow down, exit; seek understanding.
[00:40:59] I understand and can relate to you.
[00:44:56] Balancing self-validation and others' opinions is crucial.

The entire crew is back in the building! On today's episode, you get a front seat and learn even more about Carter and JoJo. Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi explore the importance of doing the work to become a better romantic partner, the trials and errors of navigating relationships without proper examples, and the significance of living in the present moment. Joe and Carter weigh in on serious and popular social topics like school violence, personal consequences, and managing emotions. JoJo brings a mature introspective perspective while Carter extends his quick- witted logic. The conversation gets really juicy when the Johnson boys weigh in on their thoughts about marriage and intimacy. Plus, get ready for some heartwarming-yet-humorous anecdotes involving after-school dances, challenging university experiences, embarrassing live events, and the power of emotional release. So, grab a cup of coffee, put on your headphones, and join us as we navigate the twists and turns of love and self-discovery in this captivating episode sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group. Let's dive in!

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group.

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 

Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience 
Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 

Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com

Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/

Production/Post Production
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TIMESTAMPS: 
[00:00:08] Thrilling journey through life, love, and legacy.
[00:06:03] Enjoy moments, regulate distress, be non-reactive.
[00:09:45] Fearful parenting moment leads to emotional release.
[00:10:36] Exchange of ideas on personal and professional interests.
[00:14:58] Trial and error in relationships, figuring it out.
[00:17:22] Age doesn't determine readiness; it varies.
[00:20:42] Unusual breakup: still friends but no girlfriend
[00:26:52] Tripping in front of teachers, special day.
[00:28:45] University meeting goes wrong, leading to tears.
[00:32:53] Marriage references, open market, sponsored by Diane Morgan

On this episode of Hell Love a Ride, Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi dive into a heartfelt conversation about the speaker's grandmother's health journey and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with caregiving for a loved one. They discuss the recent passing of Ms. Jacky Oh (DC Young Fly’s partner), and how tragedies can put things into perspective, making other problems seem small by comparison. The couple contemplate how lessons of mortality, loss, and the legacy of parenting can’t fully be learned through formal education or reading books. Dr. Brandi reflects on how the trauma of living life following the death of her mother has impacted her relationship to their 10 year-old son, while Dr. Joe reflects on how his perspective of physical discipline (translation: “whoopings”) has evolved. This leads to personal experiences and insights about the impact of their emotional state on parenting decisions and the value of acknowledging and apologizing for harmful actions. The Dr. duo also delve into the gift of nurturing connection, intimacy, and safety with their children. Moving into a more introspective phase, they open up about their struggles with identifying and expressing emotions, both personally and as a mental health providers/advocates. They discuss their efforts to do better in naming and discussing emotions with their own children. Finally, they express appreciation for their partner's parenting and emphasize the role of self-awareness and emotional regulation in discipline. With the concept of 'midlife awakening' in focus, they share their reflections on life in their 40’s. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Joe and Dr. Brandi provide supportive insights and encouragement, fostering an environment of open discussion and personal growth. Tune in to this casual yet incredibly informative episode!

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 

Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience 
Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 

Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com

Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/

Production/Post Production
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00:02] "Parental impact: Challenge to discuss upbringing"
[00:06:03] Midlife awakening and unreadable writing at 40.
[00:08:23] DC Young Fly's partner's passing is significant.
[00:11:23] Gratitude, mortality, loss, and personal reflections.
[00:15:35] Pivotal podcast moment blending cultures without judgment.
[00:18:46] Whippings ineffective, self-awareness and emotional regulation.
[00:20:52] Lack of insight leads to parenting mistakes.
[00:26:16] Sons are smart, surprising and evolving kids.
[00:27:07] Watching children develop helps me mature too.
[00:30:14] Upbringing impacts parenting; it's second nature.
[00:34:18] Scary health journey leads to valuable conversations.
[00:37:08] Motherhood: Vulnerable, insecure, and full of doubt.

"On this episode of Hell Love a Ride, they dive deep into the concept of self-limiting beliefs and the power of evolving and transcending. Drs. Brandi & Joe, acknowledge that people often resign themselves to a certain way of being, saying 'that's just who I am', but they argue that with daily commitment and practice, we can break free from these limitations. We explore both Dr. Brandi and Dr. Joes personal experiences, reflecting on past difficult seasons and the impact of childhood traumas on their relationship, parenting, and career. Dr. Brandi shares stories of her grandmother's selfless love and care, and how she brought that same energy into her marriage, only to find herself feeling resentful when Dr. Joe didn't reciprocate. This leads to an intimate discussion about the unconscious expectations we carry and how they can shape our reactions and behaviors. Dr. Joe reflects on how he navigated conflicting feelings regarding his parent’s divorce. Join the ride as Drs. Brandi and Joe reflect on cultural perspectives of trauma, share personal experiences of resilience, the significance of self-reliance and taking initiative, and the need to show grace and forgiveness towards one’s self and others. They emphasize that love cannot be received or retained if it is not radiated. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode, where the prolific Drs. challenge our preconceived notions, unpack the influence of childhood, and explore the power of personal growth. 

Hell Love a Ride podcast is sponsored by the Diane Morgan Group and the Joe Johnson Group.

Hell Love a Ride on IG: https://www.instagram.com/helllovearidepodcast/ 

Resources from Dr. Brandi: https://www.thedianemorgangroup.com/dmg-experience 
Resources from Dr. Joe: https://www.purposeoverdreams.com/ 

Book Dr. Joe: https://www.joejohnsongroup.com

Dr. Brandi IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrbrandi/ 
Dr. Joe IG: https://www.instagram.com/joejohnsonspeaks/

Production/Post Production
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@nowsocialspace 

TIMESTAMPS: 
[00:02:22] Concern for TikTok-famous cousin, need to check.
[00:04:32] Influenced by past, clash due to upbringing.
[00:08:03] Trauma and significant life events discussed succinctly.
[00:11:14] Rely on yourself, not others; self-sufficiency crucial.
[00:15:04] Incompatible purposes breed insecurity and relationship turmoil.
[00:17:07] Grandma cleaned room, cooked; husband lacks consideration.
[00:22:17] Mom disrespected, grandfather overshadowed, women marginalized.
[00:25:04] Early therapy strengthened our bond and values.
[00:28:52] Childhood experiences shape adulthood, affecting relationships and success.
[00:32:59] Sometimes it's better to separate for personal growth.
[00:33:56] Gratitude for teaching love and humanity's complexity.
[00:37:40] Episodes sponsored by Diane Morgan and Joe Johnson.

The Evolution of Self: "I'm learning that there's room for the both of us. But again, it's like, just that awareness, like that, that wasn't personal. And I'm not even suggesting that it's okay. I'm suggesting that that is a feature of the evolution of self."— Dr. Brandi 00:19:2400:19:58
Why Men Disappoint and How to Overcome It: "I had this implicit expectation that men will disappoint you. That's what they're going to do."— Dr. Brandi 00:21:2100:22:16
The Role of Women in Society: "And I just remember feeling like, yeah, that's how that go. And even though my grandfather I mean, this is a real podcast, so I'm just going to say what it is. Even though my grandfather was an incredible provider and he was such a fun and loving man oh, gee. Jerry T such an amazing man. I also feel like his identity overshadowed my grandmother's to the sense, like, where it was like that kind of old school, like he was bigger than life. And even though she kept everything together, it appeared like she was a fixture, even thou