Hello, Good Bis!

Hello, Good Bis!

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Hello, Good Bis! episodes

  • To All the Bis I've Loved Before

    Have you ever wondered what it's like to date a bisexual person? We sure did, so we invited our significant others to talk about what it's like, how they learned we're bi, what their communities think, and to share advice for folks learning their partner is bisexual. Send us your questions and comments to [email protected] or leave us a voice memo https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message

    Shownotes

    • Test Buddies podcast (with Annie and Dylan) https://testbuddies.myportfolio.com/
    • This Checklist will Determine your “Straight Number” https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/how-straight-are-you-you-get-one-point-for-each-o
    • How gay are you? https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomphillips/how-gay-are-you
    • What is “hang loose?” https://media.giphy.com/media/ceK5e0DXc7Zh6/giphy.gif
    • Terminology Episode, where we mention other scales/tests https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiLingual-e51od7
    • Bisexuality Week (I can’t find documentation that it’s month) https://www.glaad.org/biweek2019
    • Bivisibility Day http://www.bivisibilityday.com/
    • Ryan Russel’s coming out letter https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/27484719/no-distractions-nfl-veteran-opens-sexuality
    • Bella Thorn’s biphobic boyfriend https://www.latintimes.com/bella-thornes-italian-boyfriend-would-welcome-third-party-bedroom-439977
    • Mae Martin https://www.maemartin.net/
    • The Bisexual Chair, Ma Matiazi & Israel Walker https://www.facebook.com/israel.walker.90475/posts/191655611831394
    • Blake Moran on Madam Secretary http://greginhollywood.com/blake-moran-comes-out-as-bisexual-to-his-boss-in-touching-scene-on-madam-secretary-144815
    • Lil’ Nas X https://pitchfork.com/news/lil-nas-x-comes-out-as-gay/
    • Allyship episode https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiStanders-e58gp2

      • Timestamps

      Sexuality Quizzes 4:15

      Q&A: Dating a bisexual person 10:30
      Bisexual Visibility Month & Day 37:30
      Weekly Blights (bisexual news) 39:35
      Bising Stars 43:55
      Call for Adbice 50:15

      54 min
    • BiStanders

      Don’t just be a BiStander, but an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community! But what makes someone a good ally? Annie and Rose discuss how to build you good ally tool kit, actions that flex the good ally muscle, and ways your actions can have an impact! Specific questions are discussed at the timestamps below. Email us your comments, thoughts, stories at [email protected] or leave us a message at https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message. 

      :::::SPOILER ALERTS::::: 

      John Wick plot. Also, maybe the Matrix… 

      ::::: SOURCES::::: 

      • All your subs are belong to us: https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/, https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/, https://www.reddit.com/r/ainbow/, https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/, https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexualadults/, https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLGBT/, https://www.reddit.com/r/queer/, https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTQ/ 
      • Autostraddle https://www.autostraddle.com/ 
      • Pink News https://www.pinknews.co.uk/ 
      • Pride Media https://www.pridemedia.com/ 
      • Other LGBTQ news Outlets https://lmgtfy.com/?q=lgbtq+news+outlets 
      • @JessicaOutOfTheCloset https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDdi0yUyGW1PKzYXaIACnuA 
      • Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB 
      • Bihistory instagram https://www.instagram.com/bihistory/ 
      • PFLAG General https://pflag.org/ Advocacy 101 https://pflag.org/advocacy-101 Tips for parents https://pflag.org/blog/parents-quick-tips-supporting-your-lgbtq-kids-and-yourself-during-coming-out-process 
      • Voting Check that you’re registered https://www.vote.org/am-i-registered-to-vote/ Register to vote https://www.vote.org/register-to-vote/ Election reminders https://www.vote.org/election-reminders/ Find your polling place https://www.vote.org/polling-place-locator/ Registered somewhere that you aren’t physically? Know the absentee rules and deadlines https://www.vote.org/absentee-voting-rules/
      • Professor Ken Yoshino's Epistemic Contract of Bisexual Erasure http://www.kenjiyoshino.com/articles/epistemiccontract.pdf

        • :::::TIMESTAMPS::::: 

        How do I respond when someone comes out to me? 5:45

        How can I show support when I think someone is queer, but they haven’t come out to me? 13:50
        How can I learn about the queer experience in general? 18:50
        Letter from an ally 24:34
        Can I ask about someone's personal experiences? 28:50
        How can I support my people every day? 30:30
        How to take down the haters 36:00
        Get involved / support community / resources for allies 42:30
        I think I messed up. What do I do? 50:05
        Shout out to listeners 54:50
        BiLights (bi news) 56:10
        History and Bising Stars 60:14
        Call for AdBice 65:12

        1 hr 8 min
      • BiLingual
        According to Merriam-Webster, new words can be confusing-- but also empowering! Join Annie and Rose as they discuss strength-based language, define some of the words around sexual identity, and the labels you might choose! Have you wondered about the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality? What’s all this talk about spectrums? And who the hell is Albert Kinsey and why is he giving me a number? Get a primer on some key sexuality terms in this episode. Email us with suggestions, questions, and things we messed up at [email protected]
        Timestamps:
        37:30 Listener mail
        40:00 Bi-lights (Bisexual News)
        42:30 Bi-sing Stars (Queer People We Like)
        45:40 Call of Ad-bice 
        Sources:
        What is Strength-based language? http://www.ct.gov/dmhas/lib/dmhas/publications/PCRPLanguage.pdf
        What is bisexuality? https://www.hrc.org/resources/bisexual-faq
        GLAAD glossary: https://www.glaad.org/reference/lgbtq
        GLAAD’s definition of pansexuality: https://www.glaad.org/blog/what-pansexuality-4-pan-celebs-explain-their-own-words
        Bustle’s article on pansexuality: https://www.bustle.com/p/what-does-it-mean-to-be-pansexual-we-asked-expert-heres-what-they-said-8227460
        The Spectrum Model of Sexuality: https://www.usd.edu/diversity-and-inclusiveness/office-for-diversity/safe-zone-training/spectrum-model
        The Kinsey Scale: https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php
        Women’s Health article on sexual fluidity: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a20662770/what-is-sexually-fluid/
        Pride Flags & their Meaning:
        https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2018/06/26/all-of-the-flags-you-might-see-at-pride-and-what-they-mean/
        Joshua Rush comes out as bi: https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/07/entertainment/joshua-rush-bisexual-trnd/index.html
        Fast and Bi-Curious Sketch https://vimeo.com/50350082
        48 min
      • The Good, The Bi, The Ugly: Coming Out

        In this very special episode, Rose and Annie share their coming out stories. What did they do well and what did they totally mess up? What would they do differently if they could do it all again? They share facts and tips about coming out as bisexual, highlight bisexual history, discuss queer people they like, and ponder if Hilary Duff could be next week’s Bising Star. Email us your coming out story, questions, suggestions, comments, and shit we got wrong at [email protected].

        1. Pew Research on Bisexuality and Coming Out 
        2. Bisexual Resource Center 
        3. Murder Mystery Parties you can adapt for your own coming out party 
        4. PLFAG 
        5. @BiHistory Instagram 
        6. Bi News - Valkyrie is Bi 
        7. Tessa Thompson on sexuality and Janelle Monáe 
        8. For your viewing pleasure, Janelle Monáe’s Make Me Feel music video, featuring Tessa Thompson (a bisexual anthem and hot video) 
        9. It’s Radish Time, Taylor Behnke 
        10. Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution, Shiri Eisner 
        11. Hilary Duff is straight, but opened-minded
        12. Megan Fox is Bisexual, thank the lord 

          13. Timestamps

          Facts about Coming Out 2:10

          Rose’s Coming Out 11:57
          Annie’s Coming Out 22:12
          Tips for Coming Out 34:29
          Bisexual History & News 39:06
          Bising Stars! 41:06
          Hello, Goodvice! 43:35

          49 min
        13. BI-LD'S PLAY

          Join Annie and Rose as they revisit how queerness is expressed in childhood (even when you don't recognize it), explore how feeling outcast compounds internalized misogyny, share the latest in bisexual news, highlight some of their favorite queer artists, and ask for your help!

          Show Notes

          • Car Seat Headrest’s Bandcamp
          • Kate Leth’s instagram
          • Rose’s formative ice skating video
          • Revolutionary Girl Utena intro

            • Please email us with questions, thoughts, feelings, topics we should cover, and shit we got wrong: [email protected].

            40 min
          • In the Bi-ginning

            Join Annie and Rose as they provide  context about the bisexual experience. In this episode we'll get to know the hosts (try not to fall in love), discuss the lack of bisexual representation in media (and why it matters), highlight some of our favorite queer artists, and touch on many of the issues surrounding bisexuality that we want to explore.

            31 min

          About Hello, Good Bis!

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          Join Annie and Rose as they provide some context about the bisexual experience by sharing stories, getting advice, and talking about queer people we like.