In todays podcast I speak on losing yourself as a mom, as a woman and human being. How depression can sneak into your life so easily when you are overwhelmed as a mother, a wife and a working woman. How its easy to put yourself last, to take care of everything and everyone, except yourself. My journey towards self care and how its been extremely hard. Today we speak on some of the things that as moms we keep to ourselves because of fear of being looked at as a “bad mom” for wanting to put ourselves first sometimes. You aren’t alone darlings.. Lets talk.

The full story behind my infamous “Perico” mug and why it will not be restocking at all now. How the company who was making this piece of merchandise for me made me waste my time and hated on my mug’s design from the get go. Plus I give yall updates on the release of my “A Gangsters Wife” eyeshadow palette and earrings dropping Saturday February 13th at midnight pacific standard time on my HelloLoca.com online boutique!

A ton of updates about everything from my upcoming “A Gangsters Wife” eyeshadow palette and when that is planning to release to new upcoming goodies that will be added to the shop by next week! I also bring you the chisme about the infamous “Perico” mug that will also be dropping and the story of why it will now be considered a limited edition item among other things.

Be kind to your clients! This is the story of the first time I went to a hair salon because I wanted to be blonde and how the way the stylist treated me scar’d me for life. This episode is dedicated to anyone working in the beauty industry from hair stylists to nail techs, massage people, makeup artists etc who deal with people directly on a daily and how treating a client incorrectly can affect them and your bag at the same time.

Please, I am begging you.. as a woman specially.. try and set a little bit of money aside every month for an emergency. A little stash that only you know about because it can save you from so many things! Don’t ever just solely depend on your significant other to have your back. Having your own money for an emergency can save your entire family! Please try to start having a lil secret stash if you haven’t already. In this episode I discuss my own journey being out of work and how having just that has helped my family survive during this pandemic. I also speak on unemployment and programs which are out there right now offering FREE MONEY for those who are self employed and are suffering because of this Corona virus hell. These programs include the PPP Paycheck Protection Program and the EIDL Grant both offered by the SBA. Please inform yourselves and I hope this can help those of you who truly need it!

A sneak peek into my upcoming eyeshadow palette, “A Gangsters Wife” and the meaning behind the shade names.

It is what it is. Im that friend who will cry with you, get fucked up with you, listening to Marco Antonio Solis with you and be there helping you pick a candle to get the love of your life back! LOL I said what I said.

In the first part of the episode, I speak on my New Year resolution weight loss journey and update you ladies on how thats going. My experience with detox teas, senna leaf, calorie counting and all that in efforts of helping move my weight loss along. In the second part of the episode, hell breaks loose. I finally speak on something that I had always kept inside, but needing to speak about now. A person who portrays to be all for women empowerment and yet (in my own personal experience dealing with her) it was all bullshit. People on the gram are definitely not who they claim to be, even personally wise. Zero humility. My sad story time.

In the first part of this episode I go down memory lane about a girl who was literally trying to take over my whole life by literally pretending she was me. This girl went outta her way to look like me, sound like me and try and get my bag. I confronted her and the ending was sad. On the second half of this episode I address an issue that fans have been contacting me about with regards to a girl who is releasing a palette which is also called “A Gangsters Wife”. Here is what I gotta say..

Update on week 1 of my New Year resolution aka to lose 20 lbs.. not good. Plus a major conversation starter about why we cannot be so quick to judge other women based on how they look. We all have things we go through that can directly affect our physical appearance aka looking like we just woke up 24/7.