Can God redeem even our darkest choices? What happens when grace meets someone who believes they're too far gone?

In this episode of Help Her Be Brave, Amy Ford sits down with Evie West, police captain, author, speaker, and former gang member whose life is a remarkable testimony of God's relentless pursuit. As a teenager, Evie became involved in gang life, became a mother at sixteen, and later found herself pregnant again—alone, overwhelmed, and determined to have an abortion. But a compassionate pregnancy center, the love of a Christian community, and God's unwavering faithfulness changed the course of her life forever.

Evie shares how she found hope in the middle of fear, chose adoption for her second son, and discovered that her past did not disqualify her from God's purpose. Today, after more than 25 years in law enforcement, she serves as a police captain, bringing hope to people experiencing some of the hardest moments of their lives. Her story is a beautiful reminder that God doesn't waste our pain—He can use it to help others find healing and hope.

Whether you're facing an unexpected pregnancy, walking alongside someone who is, or wondering if your mistakes have defined your future, this conversation offers encouragement that no life is beyond redemption. God's grace is greater than our past, and He is still writing stories of hope today.

1. Evie's transformation from gang member and teen mom to police captain

2. Facing an unexpected pregnancy and becoming abortion-minded

3. How a pregnancy center's compassion changed her life

4. Choosing adoption and finding healing through God's grace

5. Overcoming shame, trauma, and a victim mentality

6. Discovering God's purpose after difficult choices

7. Living as a missionary through a career in law enforcement

8. Why sharing your testimony can bring hope to others

Resources & Links

Support Embrace Grace: https://embracegrace.com/donate

Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

Learn more about Evie West: https://ambassadorspeakers.com/speaker/evie-west/

Read Revolving Choices: Playing Roulette with Life by Evie West

What happens when one adoption story comes full circle across generations?

In this episode of the Help Her Be Brave Podcast, Amy Ford sits down with Janelle Basham, Executive Director of BraveLove and a birth mom herself, to talk about adoption, community, and the importance of making women feel seen, valued, heard, and supported.

Janelle shares her story of making an adoption plan at 16 and how the support she received during that difficult season shaped her life and inspired her lifelong passion for walking alongside other women. Decades later, she found herself supporting her own daughter through an unplanned pregnancy—and even sitting beside her daughter's adoptive mother during labor as her daughter chose to parent her son.

Together, Amy and Janelle explore the beauty and complexity of adoption, the importance of birth mom stories, how adoption has evolved, and why no woman should have to navigate an unplanned pregnancy or adoption decision alone.

This is a powerful conversation about the impact of community, the beauty of showing up, and how one person's support can create a ripple effect that spans generations.

Resources & Links:

• Support Embrace Grace: https://www.embracegrace.com/give

• Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

• Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

• Learn more about BraveLove: BraveLove

• Follow BraveLove on Instagram: @joinbravelove

In this deeply moving episode of the Helper Be Brave Podcast, Amy sits down with Steventhen Holland to hear his unforgettable story of life, hope, and redemption. Conceived in rape and abandoned at just seven days old, Steventhen's journey is a powerful testament to the value of every human life and the unyielding grace of God.

Steventhen opens up about discovering the truth of his beginnings, the courage of his birth mother who risked everything to save him, and the emotional reunion that brought healing and closure after 27 years. He shares how his experiences shaped his ministry, Broken Not Dead, and how he now empowers others to find purpose and hope in the midst of brokenness.

00:00 – 03:48 | Introduction & Early Life

03:49 – 10:17 | Discovering His Story & Searching for His Birth Mother

10:20 – 21:52 | Emotional Reunion & Reflection on Grace

21:53 – 31:47 | Ministry: Broken Not Dead & Encouragement for Listeners

Join us as we explore:

1. How God redefined Steventhen's story from brokenness to purpose.

2. The impact of his birth mother's courage and love.

3. Stories of transformation and hope through his ministry and advocacy.

4. Encouragement for anyone navigating seasons of pain, rejection, or uncertainty.

This episode is a heartfelt reminder that even in the darkest beginnings, life is sacred, and redemption is possible.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Follow Amy and Steventhen on Instagram: @amyfordeg and @steventhenholland

2. Connect with Steventhen: https://www.steventhen.com/

3. Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

4. Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

5. Become a monthly partner: https://www.embracegrace.com/give

Watch Steventhen's original YouTube Video meeting his mom for the first time.

If this story inspired you, don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more courageous and heart-touching stories.

When Melissa Ohden's mother chose abortion, no one expected the baby to live. But against all odds — and through God's miraculous plan — Melissa survived.

In this deeply moving conversation, Melissa shares her incredible story of survival, forgiveness, and purpose. From learning the truth about her birth to ultimately forgiving her biological mother, Melissa's journey is a testament to the power of God's redemption and the sacred value of every human life.

Her story will leave you in awe — and remind you that no life is beyond God's reach.

Resources Mentioned:

• Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

• Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

• Become a monthly partner: embracegrace.com/give-monthly

• Follow Amy and Melissa on Instagram: @amyfordeg and @melissaohden

• Connect with Melissa: https://mybody-myvoice.org/

• Switch to Patriot Mobile: https://patriotmobile.com/embracegrace

When a single mom walks into your church, will she feel loved or judged?

In this heartfelt episode of Help Her Be Brave, Amy Ford shares powerful insights and stories about how the Church can better love single moms and create a truly welcoming environment for women facing unexpected pregnancies. From practical ways to offer help to the deeper heart change needed in our culture, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to see single moms the way Jesus does.

Whether you're a pastor, small group leader, or simply someone who wants to make a difference, this episode will help you take your first step toward becoming a safe place for her to find hope, healing, and community.

👉 Learn more about starting a support group or finding resources at EmbraceGrace.com.

Resources Mentioned:

• Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

• Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

• Become a monthly partner: embracegrace.com/give-monthly

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When God placed adoption on Jill Dasher's heart years before it came to pass, she never could've imagined how He would fulfill that promise. In this powerful conversation, Jill shares the story of adopting her daughter, Ruth Harvest—born 13 weeks early on Easter Sunday—and the brave mom who chose life.

Host Amy Ford and Jill talk about surrendering to God's plan, the beauty of open adoption, and the miracles that unfold when we say yes to God. This episode will renew your faith and remind you that His timing is always right.

Help Her Be Brave is hosted by Amy Ford, founder of Embrace Grace, helping churches become safe places for women with unexpected pregnancies.

About Jill Dasher:

Jill is an author, speaker, and co-host of the Not Yet Now podcast. She and her husband pastor a church in North Carolina and are passionate about living out the Kingdom here and now. Learn more at JillDasher.com.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Start an Embrace Grace group at your church: embracegrace.com/start-a-group

2. Get your free Life Support guide: helpherbebrave.com

3. Follow Amy and Jill on Instagram: @amyfordeg and @jilldasher

4. Support the life-saving work of Embrace Grace: Give Monthly

In this episode of the Help Her Be Brave Podcast, we break the silence on the topics that are often swept under the rug—sex, shame, purity, and the culture around them. I'm joined by Heather Lawless, founder and CEO of Reliance Ministries and author of We Do Talk About It: Breaking the Silence on Sex, Shame, and Redemption.

Heather and I dive into why Christians often avoid these conversations, how toxic purity culture can shape our lives, and the real impact of shame on relationships, parenting, and faith. We discuss the importance of vulnerability, the value of safe spaces for sharing our stories, and how embracing our brokenness can lead to healing, redemption, and hope.

Plus, Heather shares powerful stories from her ministry and personal life, including experiences with sexual trauma, overcoming shame, and showing the transformative love of Christ to women facing unexpected pregnancies.

If you've ever felt stuck, silenced, or burdened by shame, this conversation will inspire you to speak up, break the cycle, and step into freedom and courage.

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: We Do Talk About It by Heather Lawless

• Reliance Ministries: relianceministries.com

• Support the life-saving work of Embrace Grace

• Start an Embrace Grace group at your church

• Download "Life Support: A Quick Guide to the Pro-Love Movement"

• Find a support group near you

In this heartfelt conversation, Amy welcomes Al Robertson, the "beardless brother" from Duck Dynasty. Al opens up about a decades-old mistake, a tearful apology, and the lesson that changed how he approaches life, faith, and ministry.

Al shares:

• His family's story of life — how his mother Kay was only 16 when she became pregnant with him, shaping his lifelong passion for protecting and celebrating life.
• Lisa's story of an unplanned pregnancy and redemption — and how their ministry now helps other women make better choices through community, grace, and support.
• A painful moment of conviction — when Al realized he had enforced a church policy that denied a baby blessing to an unwed mother, and how God led him to embrace grace instead of shame.
• Why grace works — how churches can move from punitive approaches to welcoming young women and their babies, offering showers, support, and a true "welcome home."
• Legacy & urgency — after losing his father Phil Robertson, Al reflects on passing down faith and values to future generations.

He closes by encouraging churches to become a place where women in unplanned pregnancies can be brave, choose life, and experience God's kindness.

Resources & Links:

1. Support Embrace Grace: https://www.embracegrace.com/give

2. Start a group at your church: https://www.embracegrace.com/start-a-group

3. Download Life Support: A Quick Guide to the Pro-Love Movement: https://www.embracegrace.com/forms/help-her-be-brave-life-support-download

4. Find a group near you: https://www.embracegrace.com/find-a-group

5. Connect with Al & Lisa: https://alandlisarobertson.com/

6. Listen to Lisa Robertson's previous episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CEdVPwdoTtU

In this episode of Help Her Be Brave, Amy Ford reflects on the life and legacy of Charlie Kirk, a voice of boldness and truth in our generation. His passing is a reminder of the urgency to walk courageously in our calling, no matter the cost.

Join Amy as she unpacks:

1. How Charlie Kirk modeled courageous faith

2. Why we're called to embrace hard conversations with love and truth

3. What it looks like to live boldly in your own calling

4. How to step forward with courage, even when it feels uncomfortable

Let this conversation encourage you to shine brightly, stand strong in your faith, and live fully surrendered to Jesus.

👉 If you would like to support the life-saving work of Embrace Grace: https://www.embracegrace.com/give

👉 Want to start an Embrace Grace group at your church? Get everything you need to launch here: https://www.embracegrace.com/start-a-group

👉 Download Life Support: A Quick Guide to the Pro-Love Movement: https://www.embracegrace.com/forms/help-her-be-brave-life-support-download

👉 If you are single and pregnant and looking for a support system, find a group near you: https://www.embracegrace.com/find-a-group

At 19, Amy Ford discovered she was pregnant—and everything changed. Raised in church but fearing rejection and shame, she faced some of the most painful moments of her life, including being turned away by a pastor she deeply respected.

But God had a bigger plan.

In this episode, Amy shares her unplanned pregnancy story, the wounds of rejection, and how God transformed her pain into the heartbeat behind Embrace Grace. From her son's powerful revelation years later to the birth of a global movement, this is a story of hope, redemption, and the grace that changes everything.

👉 If you are single and pregnant and looking for a support system, find a group near you: https://www.embracegrace.com/find-a-group

👉 Want to start an Embrace Grace group at your church? Get everything you need to launch here: https://www.embracegrace.com/start-a-group

👉 Download Life Support: A Quick Guide to the Pro-Love Movement: https://www.embracegrace.com/forms/help-her-be-brave-life-support-download

👉 If you would like to support the life-saving work of Embrace Grace: https://www.embracegrace.com/give