As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker, and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. She focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” Dr. Shaler offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of toxic people.

Today we’re chatting about:

• Why you need a year in a relationship before it gets serious.
• How adults and children become hijackals.
• How to respond to a hijackal in your life.
• What to do when your child is starting to be a hijackal.

Connect with Dr. Shaler: 

• Support Dr. Shaler’s work at: https://www.patreon.com/m/saveyoursanity
• Website: forrelationshiphelp.com
• Check out her books: https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/product-category/books/

Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.