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What if the thing that's draining the life force from your next level isn't your workload or your wild schedule — it's what you're still holding onto?
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I'm back, gorgeous woman. And I've missed you.
I took the summer off from longer episodes, and it was exactly what I needed. I went on a retreat with my new coach in LA, resigned from every committee and board I'd said yes to out of obligation, and got completely obsessed with Human Design — mine, my clients', my kids'. I came back home to New Orleans a different woman. And I'm so happy to be back here with you on the podcast.
This episode, we're going deep on something that showed up for me big this summer. It's called the Paradigm of Disdain — and I want you to think about the last time you felt salty.
- About a friend who didn't get back to you.
- A client who didn't honor the container.
- A partner who didn't show up the way you needed them to.
- Or yourself, on a day when you fell short of who you're trying to become.
That's disdain. And it's not a character flaw — it's your mind doing its job, spinning a story to protect you from what's actually underneath it. The problem is, every minute you spend in that story is a minute of creative energy that doesn't go toward your next level.
Here's what I know, and what A Course in Miracles has been saying for decades: all forgiveness is self-forgiveness. Every resentment out there is just triggering something inside you that's ready to be seen, met, and healed. The person or situation you're mad at or hurt by didn't put it there. They just touched it.
In this episode, I'm walking you through a four-part practice that's changed everything for me:
- Notice the story your mind is generating — without fighting it or buying into it
- Drop into your body, where the actual truth lives — beneath the narrative
- Let the energy move — really move, not just reframe it — so it can complete
- Discover what becomes available in the spaciousness on the other side, because that's where your next level actually lives
I'm also weaving Human Design throughout, because how you process disdain and emotional friction is completely different depending on your type and authority. Knowing your design changes everything about how you move through this.
This is the episode for you if you feel like your next level has been way harder than it needs to be — and you can feel that you've been carrying something heavy and you're finally ready to put it down.
DID THIS EPISODE CALL YOU FORWARD?
If you're a founder, leader, entrepreneur, creative, or a woman who makes a difference — and you are ready to break through your upper limits and glass ceilings to create more impact and income — I'm personally inviting you to explore what a complimentary Next Level 1:1 conversation with me could look like.
With high-touch support, you'll get clear on what your next level actually is, identify what's in the way, and create aligned, powerful next steps tailored specifically to you and your next level of personal and professional success. You'll leave with clarity, courage, and momentum to move from thinking about your next level to living in the middle of it.
NEW: Human Design is now woven into every 1:1 conversation — you'll receive a mini-reading as part of our time together.
DM me directly on Instagram if you'd like a 1:1 conversation.
And send me one step — one thing you're pouring your reclaimed energy into this week — and I'll send you my Unshakeable Confidence private workshop as a gift.
You are here on purpose. Your assignment is your next level. And you have full permission and limitless possibility to create an extraordinary life that makes a difference for yourself, for others, and for the world.
Hey gorgeous.
I love you.
I'm so proud of you.
And I believe in your ability to create a next level life you love.