There’s something comforting about a new week. Even when the last one was messy, busy, or didn't go quite how we wanted, there’s always that little feeling of “okay… let's try again.”






In this episode, we're talking about the weekly reset rituals that help us feel a little more prepared for whatever the week decides to throw at us. 😂






A reset doesn't mean fixing your life or suddenly becoming the most organized person on the planet. Sometimes it's just putting the house back together, checking the calendar, clearing out the mental clutter, or giving yourself a quiet moment to figure out what you actually need.






And the best part? Your reset can look completely different from ours.






🏡 Resetting Your Home




Sometimes a calmer week starts with a calmer space.






We chat about the little household things that make us feel more prepared, like:








Tidying up










Laundry










Fresh sheets










Getting the kitchen back in order










Grocery planning










Prepping a few things for the week










Putting things back where they belong








Not a giant deep-cleaning marathon. Just enough to make Monday-you feel like Sunday-you did her a favor. 😂






🧠 Resetting Your Mind




There are also all the things happening inside our heads.






We talk about checking the calendar, getting thoughts out of our brains, planning ahead, and creating a little mental breathing room before the week begins.






Sometimes a reset is less about doing more and more about finally giving yourself a chance to think.






❤️ Resetting Your Heart




This might be our favorite part.






A new week is an opportunity to look back without beating yourself up over everything you didn't accomplish.






Celebrate what went well.






Let go of what didn't.






Give yourself some grace.






Figure out what you need.






You don't have to earn a fresh start.






☕ Our Favorite Little Rituals




And then, of course, we get into the fun stuff—the cozy little rituals that make a reset actually feel enjoyable.






Favorite drinks, candles, playlists, planning, walks, reading, meal prep, family routines, comfort shows while folding laundry... whatever makes you feel like you're gently gathering yourself back together.






Because a weekly reset doesn't have to feel like another chore.






It can be a little ritual that says:






Okay, we're here. Let's take a breath and begin again. ✨






Come hang with us for Episode 93! 🤍







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There are some things you remember from childhood that you couldn't tell someone how much they cost, what year they happened, or even why they were such a big deal.






You just remember them.






Maybe it was a certain meal your family made every year. A place you went together. The way your house smelled on Christmas morning. A Friday night tradition that seemed completely normal at the time but somehow became your thing.






And now we're on the other side of it, getting to create those little moments for our own families. 🥹






In this episode, we're talking about creating traditions that actually matter and how they don't have to be elaborate, expensive, or perfectly planned. Sometimes it's the simplest things—the pumpkin patch every fall, Friday night pizza, decorating the tree together, or a cozy little tradition you made up on a random Tuesday—that become the things everyone looks forward to.






We're also chatting about how traditions change as life changes. Families grow, kids get older, we move, seasons shift, and sometimes traditions have to evolve right along with us. And that's okay. There's something really sweet about making room for new traditions while carrying a few old ones along with you.






Because at the end of the day, a tradition doesn't have to be impressive.






It just has to mean something to the people doing it. 🤍






In this episode, we chat about:






What actually makes something a tradition










Why the simplest traditions can become the most meaningful










Creating traditions without adding more pressure to your life










How traditions change as families grow and life shifts










Making new traditions during new seasons










Why some of the best traditions happen on completely ordinary days








🍂 Hermit Haven Reminder: Don't wait for the perfect holiday, the perfect house, or the perfect Pinterest moment. Pick something small, do it with the people you love, and then do it again next time.






That's how the magic starts. ✨






xoxo,






Ashley & Jacqui







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What if the life you're wishing for is actually the life you once dreamed about?






It's so easy to spend our days looking ahead. Waiting for the next milestone, the next vacation, the next season, or the next version of ourselves. We tell ourselves we'll slow down when life gets less busy, we'll enjoy it more when things settle down, or we'll finally appreciate it once we get "there."






But what if there is already here?






In this episode, we're slowing down to notice the beauty that's been quietly surrounding us all along. From morning coffee and school drop-offs to grocery store runs, bedtime stories, and family dinners, we're talking about the ordinary moments that don't seem like much today—but often become the memories we treasure most.






We'll also chat about how social media can make everyday life feel small, why we're always chasing what's next, and simple ways to romanticize the life you're already living. Because a meaningful life isn't built from a handful of extraordinary moments—it's built from thousands of ordinary ones.






So whether you're folding laundry, driving to work, or taking a quiet walk around the neighborhood, we hope this conversation reminds you to pause, look around, and realize that the little moments might just be the big ones after all.






In this episode, we chat about:






Why we're always looking ahead to the next milestone










The everyday moments that quietly become our favorite memories










How social media can make ordinary life feel like it's not enough










Simple ways to romanticize your daily routines










Finding gratitude and joy in the life you're already living








🤍 Hermit Haven Reminder: A beautiful life isn't something you arrive at one day. It's something you create, one ordinary moment at a time.






xoxo,






Ashley & Jacqui







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Okay, okay... we know it's August. 😂






But have you seen Disney?! The fall decorations are out, the pumpkins are making their grand entrance, and honestly, if Disney says it's time for fall, who are we to argue? 🎃🍂






So we're getting a little ahead of ourselves, but we're officially ready for cozy sweaters, cute spooky things, crisp mornings, candles, and all the little traditions that make this season feel a little extra magical.






In this fun episode of Hermit Haven, we're talking about one of our favorite seasons and all the things that make fall feel a little extra special.






We love the cozy vibes. We love the cute spooky things. We love the crisp mornings, the candles, the sweaters, and all the little traditions that make this time of year feel special. And, yes, we're absolutely the kind of people who could probably keep the spooky decor going all year long. 😂






But one thing we kept coming back to is how quickly these seasons can fly by.






Life gets busy. The calendar fills up. The kids need things. There are errands to run and laundry to fold and approximately 700 snacks to distribute. And suddenly, you're looking up and wondering how an entire season passed without doing any of the fun things you were excited about.






So maybe we have to plan the fun, too.






Maybe we put the pumpkin patch on the calendar. Plan the cozy movie night. Make the apple cider. Go for a drive just to enjoy the changing leaves. Take the family pictures. Wear the silly Halloween pajamas. Do the little things that make us smile.






Because the fun doesn't always happen by accident.






Sometimes we have to make room for it.






And one day, those little moments we're intentional about creating become the memories we wish we could bottle up and keep forever. 🤍






So grab your favorite fall drink, put on your coziest sweater, and come hang out with us as we chat about our Fall Bucket List and all the cozy, spooky, fun things we want to make time for this season.






Here's to pumpkin patches, family traditions, cute spooky things, and remembering that life is allowed to be celebrated, too. 🍁🎃✨






In this episode, we chat about:








Why we both love fall so much










Our favorite cozy and spooky fall vibes










The fun things we want to do this season










Making memories and creating family traditions










Why it's important to plan the fun before life gets too busy










Being intentional about enjoying the season we're in










Making sure the seasons don't pass us by without celebrating them















The Hermit Haven Fall Bucket List:






🍂 Make time for cozy family traditions






🎃 Embrace all the cute spooky things






☕️ Enjoy a favorite fall drink






🍁 Get outside and soak up the changing season






📸 Take pictures and document the little moments






🎬 Plan a cozy movie night






🤎 Make memories with the people we love






✨ Leave a little room for fun and spontaneity, too













xoxo






Ashley & Jacqui







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Have you ever looked around one day and realized life doesn't feel quite the same anymore?






Maybe the mornings are a little quieter now. Or maybe they're louder than they've ever been. The routines that used to fit don't quite work anymore, and the version of you that stepped into this season isn't the same one who's standing here today.






Change has a funny way of sneaking up on us.






One day you're packing swimsuits and chasing fireflies, and before you know it, you're pulling out cozy sweaters, filling the calendar with new routines, and wondering where the time went.






Maybe life works a little like that too.






In this week's episode of Hermit Haven, we're talking about one of our favorite reminders:






It's just a season.






Not because we want to rush through the season we're in, but because we've learned that every season has something to teach us. The busy ones. The beautiful ones. The messy ones. Even the ones we'd never choose for ourselves.






Maybe this season is inviting you to slow down.






Maybe it's asking you to let go of something you've been carrying.






Maybe it's preparing you for a chapter you can't quite see yet.






Whatever this season looks like for you, we hope this conversation reminds you that you don't have to fear what's next. Every season is quietly shaping you, stretching you, and preparing your heart for the one that's coming.






Because growth isn't about becoming someone new.






It's about paying attention to the person you're becoming.






✨ In this episode, we chat about:








Why every season of life has a purpose










Learning to adapt instead of resisting change










Reflecting on what this season has taught you










Letting go of what no longer fits your life










Building routines that support the season you're in










Entering your next chapter with intention instead of pressure










Asking yourself better questions as life changes








Before you head into your next season, we want to leave you with four questions we're asking ourselves, too:






🍂 What is this season teaching me?






🍂 What am I grateful for?






🍂 What am I leaving behind?






🍂 What am I making room for?






If this episode encouraged you, we'd love for you to share it with someone who's stepping into a new season of life. And as always, thank you for letting us be a small part of your journey.






Remember, every season has a purpose... even the one you're in right now. 🤍






xoxo,






Ashley & Jacqui







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Some days have a way of pulling your attention toward everything that's going wrong.






The coffee spills before you've had a sip. The to-do list somehow gets longer instead of shorter. Plans change. Someone says something that sticks with you all day. Before you know it, one frustrating moment has quietly convinced you that the whole day is ruined.






We've both been there.






In this week's episode, we're talking about the quiet power of gratitude—not because it makes life perfect, but because it helps you find your footing again.






The hard moments still happen. The disappointment is still real. But when gratitude becomes a way of seeing the world, it has a beautiful way of helping you bounce back a little faster. Instead of getting stuck in frustration, you begin to notice what's still beautiful, what's still good, and what's still worth holding onto.






We're sharing the ways gratitude has changed how we navigate difficult seasons, why looking for the silver lining isn't about pretending everything is okay, and how one small shift in perspective can bring more peace, resilience, and joy into everyday life.






If you've been carrying a little more than usual or feeling weighed down by life's challenges, we hope this conversation reminds you that one hard moment doesn't have to become a hard day—and one hard day doesn't have to become a hard season.






The silver lining isn't always obvious.






Sometimes, it's something we choose to look for.






✨ In this episode, we chat about:








Why gratitude is so much more than saying "thank you"










How gratitude helps you move through hard moments instead of staying stuck in them










Finding the silver lining without ignoring reality










The connection between gratitude, resilience, and emotional well-being










Simple ways to practice gratitude in everyday life










Choosing a perspective that brings more peace and joy








If this episode encouraged you, we'd love for you to leave a review, share it with a friend, or tag us on social media. Knowing these conversations are reaching women who need them means the world to us.






Remember, you're doing better than you think. 🤍






xoxo,






Ashley & Jacqui







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When was the last time you felt like you were fully in your day instead of just trying to get through it?






Lately, we've both been craving a slower pace. Not because we want to do less or dream smaller, but because we realized we were spending so much time rushing through life that we weren't fully experiencing it.






In this week's episode, we're talking about what slower living has been teaching us. We chat about the pressure to always be busy, why rest can feel strangely uncomfortable, and how we've started making small changes that have brought so much more peace into our days.






From slow mornings and reading instead of scrolling to leaving a little more white space in our schedules, we're sharing the little things that have helped us feel more present, more creative, and more connected to the people we love.






We've also been realizing something we didn't expect...






The more we slow down, the more clearly we can hear ourselves.






We make decisions from peace instead of panic. We notice the little moments we used to rush past. We stop reacting to life and start choosing how we want to live it.






Because maybe slowing down isn't taking you further away from the life you want.






Maybe it's helping you become more present for it.






🤍 In this episode, we chat about:








Why being busy isn't always the same as living intentionally.










The quiet pressure to always be doing more.










How slowing down has changed the way we experience motherhood, work, and everyday life.










The unexpected gifts we've found in creating more space.










Small, simple ways we're choosing a slower pace without putting our dreams on hold.










Why rest, presence, and peace might be exactly what helps you move forward.








This week's gentle reminder:






You don't have to earn a slower day.






You don't have to fill every empty moment.






And you don't have to rush through the life you've been working so hard to build.






Maybe the life you're hoping for isn't waiting on the other side of doing more.






Maybe it's waiting in the moments you've been too busy to notice. 🤍













xoxo,






Ashley and Jacqui







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Have you ever caught yourself thinking...






"I'll do it when I feel more confident."






"I'll start when I'm more organized."






"I'll post it when it's better."






We've both been there more times than we can count.






This week's conversation is about something we've been learning lately: perfection has a funny way of convincing us we're being responsible, when really it's just keeping us stuck.






We talk about the dreams we've delayed, the fear of being judged, and why so many of us wait until we feel "ready" before we let ourselves be seen. The truth is, growth rarely happens before we begin. It happens because we begin.






Some of the people we've connected with most in life weren't the ones who had it all together—they were the ones who were willing to show up, learn as they went, and let others see the beautifully imperfect middle.






We're also sharing what this has looked like in our own lives, from motherhood to building Hermit Haven, and why we're learning that confidence doesn't usually show up before the first step... it grows every time we choose courage over perfection.






If you've been waiting for the perfect time, the perfect version of yourself, or the perfect plan before you begin, we hope this conversation reminds you that growth isn't something you earn before you start.






Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is take one imperfect step forward and trust that you'll become who you're meant to be along the way.






You already belong exactly where you are. 🤍







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Some of our favorite moments lately have been the ones that probably don't look all that exciting from the outside. Slow summer mornings.






Packing snacks before heading out the door. Trying to answer emails while someone needs a hug. Getting out of the house with a toddler. Watching our boys play. Folding laundry while dreaming about what's next. Finding little pockets of time to work on the podcast we love.






Life has looked a little different for both of us lately, so we thought it would be fun to bring you along for a glimpse of what our days actually look like.






In this episode, we're sharing what a typical day looks like as two moms in different seasons of motherhood. Ashley is navigating life with a one-year-old, while Jacqui is soaking up summer with her five and ten-year-old boys.






We talk about the routines we've found ourselves loving, the challenges we're still figuring out, and the little things that help us create lives that feel meaningful.






Somewhere between motherhood, marriage, podcasting, endless to-do lists, and trying to remember to take care of ourselves too, we've both realized that fulfillment isn't found in having everything perfectly balanced.






It's built in the ordinary moments. The slow mornings. The walks. The conversations. The tiny moments that remind us we're building a life we genuinely love.






In this episode, we talk about: • A realistic day in the life of two moms in different seasons • Raising little boys while building a podcast • Slow summer mornings and creating simple family memories • Getting out of the house with a toddler • Balancing motherhood, work, home, and everything in between • Making space for hobbies, creativity, and self-care • Building a life that feels fulfilling instead of just busy






Whether you're folding laundry, driving to work, going for a walk, or hiding in your pantry for five quiet minutes (we've all been there 🤍), we hope this conversation reminds you that there is beauty in the life you're building, even on the ordinary days.






xoxo, Jacqui & Ashley







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What does it actually look like to show up for yourself? Not in a perfect way. Not in a "completely transform your life overnight" way. Just in the real-life, everyday moments that slowly shape who you're becoming. In this week's episode, we're sharing some of the things we're currently working on in ourselves—from mindset shifts and emotional growth to habits, hobbies, routines, and the small choices that are helping us feel more grounded, intentional, and connected to ourselves. We're talking about learning to trust ourselves more, letting go of perfectionism, protecting our energy, spending less time on our phones, creating healthier routines, and finding joy in things that have nothing to do with productivity. Because the truth is, personal growth isn't just about becoming better. It's also about becoming more yourself.
In this episode, we talk about:
• The mindset shifts we're actively working through
• Letting go of perfectionism and negative self-talk
• Learning to trust ourselves more • Being less reactive and more emotionally grounded
• Journaling, reading, walking, and other habits helping our mental health
• Spending less time on our phones and being more intentional with our attention
• Finding hobbies and interests outside of motherhood and productivity
• Why confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself
• The power of small habits and tiny changes
• Growing without putting pressure on yourself to be perfect We also share some of the things we're still working on because, just like you, we don't have it all figured out. This isn't a conversation about fixing yourself. It's a conversation about supporting yourself. One small choice, one habit, one mindset shift at a time. Because the little ways you care for yourself today slowly become the person you're becoming tomorrow
🤍 xoxo, Jacqui & Ashley

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