We’ve all heard the phrase: “Don’t do as I do, do as I say.”

But let’s be honest — that’s not leadership. That’s hypocrisy.

In this video, I break down why this mindset is toxic, especially as a father, husband, and man of faith.

If you want to build a legacy that lasts, you can’t just preach values—you have to live them.

Your kids, your wife, your world… they’re not listening to your words. They’re watching your walk.

👊 Let’s talk about integrity, responsibility, and how to become the example your family wants to follow.—

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00:00 Introduction: The Problem with 'Don't do as I do, do as I say.'

00:32 Personal Experiences with Hypocrisy

01:30 The Importance of Leading by Example

03:50 Practical Examples of Leading by Example

06:11 Teaching Kids Through Actions

11:14 Encouraging Kids to Overcome Challenges

14:44 Conclusion and Call to Action

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"Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" is a podcast dedicated to helping people be the best parents, partners and people they can possibly be.

I'm Grant Berardi, a father of 5 kids, a husband of 16 years, a qualified counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience.

This podcast was made due to my passion for helping others reach their fullest potential in as many aspects of their life as possible.

This podcast embodies this passion but also sees the funny side even in the difficult moments.

Integrity, character, ownership, leadership and relationship are key themes throughout.

I've made these outlets because I've struggled with fear of failure, anxiety and self-doubt, and would have loved to have had help from someone along the way.

I want to be that help for others.

All the best,

-Grant Berardi

In this episode, we delve into the concept of victim mentality and its disempowering effects. I emphasize that adopting a victim mindset can lead to a loss of personal power and create division in relationships.

Personal responsibility and ownership are highlighted as the keys to making lasting changes in life. We look at the importance of addressing and healing personal wounds, rather than expecting others to fix them.

The discussion includes insights on how victim mentality breeds entitlement, restricts growth, and ultimately hinders one's ability to lead a fulfilling life.

I speak about and encourage you to embrace personal empowerment by taking charge of their own actions and responses, regardless of external circumstances.

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Mentality

00:18 Understanding the Victim Mentality

01:22 The Impact of Expectations and Responsibility

02:03 Empowerment Through Personal Responsibility

03:08 The Role of Relationships and Trust

11:42 The Dangers of Entitlement and Pride

15:12 Taking Ownership and Making Amends

26:10 Conclusion: Embracing Growth and Change

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"Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" is a podcast dedicated to helping people be the best parents, partners and people they can possibly be.

I'm Grant Berardi, a father of 5 kids, a husband of 15 years, a qualified counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience.

This podcast was made due to my passion for helping others reach their fullest potential in as many aspects of their life as possible.

This podcast embodies this passion but also sees the funny side even in the difficult moments. Integrity, character, ownership, leadership and relationship are key themes throughout.

I've made these outlets because I've struggled with fear of failure, anxiety and self-doubt, and would have loved to have had help from someone along the way. I want to be that help for others.

All the best,

-Grant Berardi

In this episode, I share my journey of embarking on a 14-day water-only fast towards the end of October 2023.

Faced with numerous life stresses, including my father's cancer treatment and frequent travel for our homeschooling, I initially resisted the idea of a prolonged fast.

However, after persistent reminders during prayer and encouragement from my wife, I committed to the challenge.

Throughout the fast, I experienced intense physical detoxification, including severe headaches and muscle soreness, but also remarkable health benefits, such as reduced inflammation and restored stomach vacuum ability.

Additionally, I aimed to deepen my spiritual connection, although I struggled with taking enough time for prayer and reflection.

This experience taught me valuable lessons about obedience, the impact of diet on inflammation, and the benefits of incorporating fasting into one’s yearly routine for both physical and spiritual growth.

I also share tips for those considering a fast and reflect on my intentions to make fasting an annual practice.

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Listen to the podcast at - //open.spotify.com/show/1uSJKNN5QB2hnzZ762WrKq?si=051a145f5aac433d

Interact with me on instagram - @grantberardi

Podcast Insta - @hi_struggling_im_dad

"Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" is a podcast dedicated to helping people be the best parents, partners and people they can possibly be.

I'm Grant Berardi, a father of 5 kids, a husband of 15 years, a qualified counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience.

This podcast was made due to my passion for helping others reach their fullest potential in as many aspects of their life as possible.

This podcast embodies this passion but also sees the funny side even in the difficult moments. Integrity, character, ownership, leadership and relationship are key themes throughout.

I've made these outlets because I've struggled with fear of failure, anxiety and self-doubt, and would have loved to have had help from someone along the way. I want to be that help for others.

All the best,

-Grant Berardi

Why I Disappeared: Grief, New Life, and My Intention Moving ForwardThis is the most personal episode I’ve ever shared. After the passing of my dad and the birth of my daughter, I found myself in the middle of life’s most beautiful and painful moments. In this video, I talk about the tension between grief and joy, and why it’s okay to feel both.Over the past year, I faced significant personal challenges including the loss of my father and welcoming a new baby into our family. I talk openly about my grief, the complexity of emotions, and the need for personal growth.Balancing accountability, family responsibilities, and creative pursuits has been tough, but I'm back with renewed energy and a commitment to build a supportive community. Thank you for your understanding and support as I share this personal journey. I hope you this video helps you in your life in some way. 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Video01:44 Challenges and Hiatus03:07 Dealing with Grief and Loss13:23 Welcoming a New Family Member18:54 Returning to the Podcast22:34 Future Plans and Community BuildingWant counselling and coaching support? - www.heartinhand1.com Listen to the podcast at - //open.spotify.com/show/1uSJKNN5QB2hnzZ762WrKq?si=051a145f5aac433d Interact with me on instagram - @grantberardi Podcast Insta - @hi_struggling_im_dad "Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" is a podcast dedicated to helping people be the best parents, partners and people they can possibly be.I'm Grant Berardi, a father of 5 kids, a husband of 15 years, a qualified counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience. This podcast was made due to my passion for helping others reach their fullest potential in as many aspects of their life as possible. This podcast embodies this passion but also sees the funny side even in the difficult moments. Integrity, character, ownership, leadership and relationship are key themes throughout. I've made these outlets because I've struggled with fear of failure, anxiety and self-doubt, and would have loved to have had help from someone along the way. I want to be that help for others. All the best, -Grant Berardi

In this episode, I discuss the importance of taking ownership of our actions and avoiding the blame game, particularly in parenting.

I emphasize that parents should not blame their children for their own reactions and stress the significance of teaching kids personal responsibility. I also highlight the impact of blaming your kids for you actions/reactions, and how it can affect parent-child relationships for generations if left unchanged.

Strategies are shared for effectively communicating with children about their actions, ensuring they understand their own responsibilities without carrying any unnecessary burdens.

In this episode, I share a heartfelt and what I hope is a relatable lesson that emphasizes that

I encourage persistence and patience, drawing from my own experiences and challenges, including launching new business ventures and creating this podcast.

Through personal anecdotes and motivational insights,I share some personal stories and motivational insights to hopefully encourage you that perseverance leads to growth, and all things are hard

If you enjoyed this episode please leave a positive review and share it with someone you think it would help.

Cheers,

Grant

DISCLAIMER:

This episode contains potentially distressing topics, we also had many technical issues which you'll see is covered in the episode, and it also contains

This episode delves deeper into the bigger stressors in life, mainly world or current events. This episode was filmed on the back of a random knife attack that happened in Bondi, Australia, and a Priest that was stabbed on a live stream in Australia. I found myself stressed over my family's safety, focused on these events and wanted to help any others that may also be feeling this way to process effectively.

We cover how to protect your kids from fear on a global scale; how to effectively process this fear as an individual and/or parent; and how to self-care whilst juggling caring for others.

If you enjoyed this episode please leave a positive review and share it with someone you think it would help.

Cheers,

Grant

"Grind and Hustle" culture is synonymous with entrepreneurship and success in general. It speaks of sacrificing everything in your life until you reach your goal. However, the flip side to this is the countless successful people who now say how they regret sacrificing time with their family and will never get the years back with them.

This problem is rarely focused on due to the glamour of hustle and grind culture, "doing what it takes" to be successful/wealthy etc. But it is a very real problem, and there is a very real solution!

This episode dives into the concept of contentment but without being satisfied; how to manage and apply this in your own life; how to identify the non-negotiable's in your life; and a realistic look at the positives and negatives of this approach for your life.

This podcast focuses on growing and honing your integrity, accountability, ownership, resilience, but also focuses personal growth in you as a person. All of these concepts are at full display in this episode.

I hope you enjoy it and that you get something great out of it.

*NOTE* The weirdness of the hanging sheet in the background is due to us just having moved back home and things were EVERYWHERE. Including sheets hanging from stand alone coat racks. However, I was inspired to make this episode so I filmed anyway. Hope you like it.

If you want to be the best person, partner and parent you can be but find it hard to navigate it at times, "Hi Struggling, I'm Dad!" was built for you. This podcast gives insight into how to navigate personal and societal issues, give insight into their origins and practical ways to overcome them.