Hey family! Today we're talking about how us humans remain and actively participate in the victim mentality. We have the definitions, personal examples and resources you need to learn more about #victimmentality and overcome it if you're in it. Share with a loved one or accountability partner and have your own conversation. Assess in your journal. We are the loving mirrors reflecting you back to you. May you see yourself, know yourself and love yourself.

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High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

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High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

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A lot of us tend to gravitate toward what's familiar; even if the familiar is unhealthy or destructive. In this episode we discuss identifying chaotic patterns, the resulting grief, and examples of how we are coping and overcoming. 

Here's the book we mentioned at 15:52 [What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D.] 

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

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ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

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In our natal charts, Venus is the principle of pleasure and desire, reflecting our aesthetic values and tastes. it our impulse to relate to others, indicating how we show love and affection and how we create common bonds. 

Venus symbolizes art and music, the beauty (fashion, jewelry, and cosmetics), and gardens and the beautiful flowers we put in them. Venus signifies the natural world and its fruitful abundance, reflected in her allotted color of green. 

Venus 

Rules Taurus and Libra

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

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ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

in astrology, the "big three" refers to your sun sign, moon sign and rising or ascendant sign. in this episode we give a basic overview of each as well as examples from our natal or birth charts.   

learn more here: https://astrostyle.com/astrology/big-3/   

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

ENGAGE WITH US

ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

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when's the last time you updated your software? not your phone. not your laptop. but you. when's the last time you assessed your life or did some deep reflection? in this episode we discuss examples of how we are moving beyond our conditioning and how we knew it was time to do so. tap in.

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

ENGAGE WITH US

ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

Sometimes it's so easy to sacrifice aspects of your individuality to align with others. Relationships are shared experiences between unique individuals. Listen to Nikka and Shantaé discuss their relationship and how they've both committed to honoring their own individuality.

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

ENGAGE WITH US

ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

"I've put so much time/effort/energy/attention into this relationship/job/goal/etc. I can't give up on it now!" if this sounds like something you've said, this episode is for you. listen in as Nikka and Shantaé discuss what it means to be shackled to a dream as well as a few pointers to help you unlock your cuffs.

📰 How to Let Go of a Lifelong Dream 

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

ENGAGE WITH US

ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

Hey y'all! Welcome to Episode 2 of High Tea, Honey! Today we're talking about motherhood: what we're proud of, the best advice we've received, what motherhood looks like for us and our biggest surprises. 

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! Podcast on YouTube. 

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being.

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.

Welcome to High Tea, Honey! In the premiere episode we discuss moving from force to ease.

Join this discussion and explore going with your own flow vs. forcing yourself to be in a flow set by others. We share examples of what we're learning, feeling and celebrating, as well as tips and tools for those interested in navigating this shift. Listen in as we speak on pausing and being present with our actions, recognizing and managing stress, and freeing up and redirecting emotional capacity to live the lives we really want.

If you prefer to see us in action, you can watch this and every episode of the High Tea, Honey! podcast on YouTube.

ENGAGE WITH US

ABOUT THE SHOW

High Tea, Honey! is an intimate exploration of seeing, knowing, and loving thyself. Through candid conversations we, hosts Nikka and Shantaé, give you a peek into our journeys and the work we are doing to realize autonomy, personal freedom, emotional maturity, holistic health & thriving. It’s all about understanding your truth and living in it unabashedly. Themes include love, alchemy, peace, marriage, friendship, parenthood, spirituality & well-being. 

WILL I LIKE HIGH TEA, HONEY!?

High Tea, Honey!’s tone is warm, fun, positive & introspective. You will love this podcast if you are ready to explore living your best life through doing the work of self-acceptance, overcoming self-sabotage, and deep and honest reflection of your thoughts, experiences and emotions. Think of us as your friends who aren’t therapists but give excellent advice! We discuss essential techniques for self-love, healing, pleasure & self-trust. Hear from your new friends as we identify what may be disrupting your ability to easily live in peace.