We all love a good fight between good and evil. Whether it's Aragorn in Lord of the Rings or Luke Skywalker in Star Wars, there's something deep in us that responds to these epic battles.

Spiritual warfare is real, but it usually doesn't look like what we imagine.

The Catechism tells us that the first fight is against ourselves. In this episode, I'll share some of my own interior battles (like who's prepping dinner!), talk about how the enemy's favorite tactic is distraction, and get into why pornography is one of the biggest threats to men today.

Your heart is the battleground. Sometimes, you need to fight to stay in the fight.

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An engaged couple recently asked me, "What's the biggest danger we should avoid in marriage?" My answer: the slow drift apart.

In this episode, I'll walk you through what I call the green, yellow, and red zones of emotional connection. We'll talk about what it looks like when things are going well, what it feels like when you start treating each other more like colleagues than lovers, and what happens when the warmth fades altogether. I'll also share three simple, practical ways to keep your connection with your wife strong.

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🔥 3 Secrets to Becoming the Lover of Her Dreams

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In this first chat, I wanted to share a bit about myself and why I started this community called Holy Desires.

I'll tell you how it all began, what this space is about (and what it's not), and I'll leave you with a perspective on marriage that changed how I show up as a husband. Here's a hint: your marriage isn't actually about you. It's about being a witness of God's love. When your kids and the people around you see how you love your wife, what are they learning about God? Grab a coffee and let's talk about it.

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Get one of my free resources for Catholic Husbands who want to improve their intimacy:

🔥 3 Secrets to Becoming the Lover of Her Dreams

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⚔️ REWIRE: The Science of Porn Addiction

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