The rectification of the world starts with the self. The significance of how we eat from Chava to Esther to today. Why clothes worn on PUrim represent the hidden nature of Hashem. How recognizing the true self, valuing mindfulness in eating, dressing and all physical activities will contribute rectification, and the elevation of the world.

Relationships are opportunities to connect with Hashem. The successful marriage of Mordechai & Esther, vs. the unsuccessful one of Achashverosh and Vashti. Understanding that external appearances reflect internal spiritual conditions & how the clothing and physical details of the characters in Megillat Esther reveal deeper spiritual meanings & can mirror our own circumstances.

Staying in the trauma dims the soul’s light. Healing the brokenness brings security, completeness and enables the soul to shine with the purpose for which it was created. Nurturing a safe healthy spiritual life comes from the mother, the wife. How the woman brings her family and herself into the soul’s purpose, the mission of a Jew and the light of truth to reveal the unique expression of the soul – its light and its ability to bring Geulah. 

Do you always find yourself locked in a power struggle? Blaming "him" may feel good at the moment but you loose the opportunity to heal yourself and make shalom bayit. How admitting our faults and taking responsibility for our own growth elevates the marriage.

How can we cultivate more patience, understanding and love towards our spouses, even when they trigger our past traumas and challenges? Finding unity in the candle light and in our relationships.

This lesson episode examines the spiritual significance of candle lighting, reflecting the wife/mother's role in creating a unified and harmonious home. We explore how the yitzer hara can be used to reframe our choices, transform, mend and return us and our entire family to shleimut (wholeness) through refining ourselves and our spiritual practices.

We live in a world that avoids discomfort. How can we tolerate our own bad behavior yet are intolerant of the other? How can we heal from emotional pain? This class episode challenges the idea of simply coping with ourselves at the expense of our relationships. We examine how trauma is a call for introspection. Is "I'm just this way" an acceptable answer? Why giving into this approach can actually feed the "animal soul" and hinder personal growth. Tune in to learn how to optimize emotional pain for deep, lasting healing.

Accentuating the rectification of Hashem’s name. Being conscious of malchut. Introspection creates space for bonding with Hashem. When we focus on the source of unity and commonality between husband and wife the אש,we then complete the letters יה in Hashems 4 letter name and become co-creators with Hashem

The names -- Adam and Chava, demonstrate the differences between husband and wife but Ish and Isha demonstrates the shared journey, the similarity of purpose -- the very essence of their souls. He is only referred to/named Ish after Isha was created in Gan Eden

Balancing the dual and opposing aspects of humanity; ones potential greatness with ones humble understanding that we are small specs of nothing without Hashem. Self rectification is connecting to Hashem it requires willingness to understand our true selves and the potential to understand the other.Knowing oneself intimately leads to strength and transcendence.