"Why is she still upset after all the things I’ve tried to change?"
"And if I’m trying to fix myself, why does it feel like nothing is ever good enough?"
In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we uncover a painful truth: most husbands are working hard—but working on the wrong things. If your wife keeps bringing up issues no matter how much you improve, it’s likely because you’re setting goals… when you need a Passion Project.
We’ll break down:
Why surface-level improvements never restore emotional trust
The critical difference between a "goal" and a God-powered Passion Project
What miracles actually look like in personal development—and how to expect them
How Satan quietly convinces men they’re incapable of deep change
Why your wife's endless concerns might be valid… and how to organize them into a blueprint for transformation
You’ll also hear the miraculous origin story of a brotherhood that helped thousands of young men find purpose, purity, and power—not by talking about problems, but by fighting for passion-driven change.
This isn’t self-help. It’s soul-help.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reacting-to-toxic-people/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zIV8zMKmT5s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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By Maurice Harker
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"Why is she still upset after all the things I’ve tried to change?"
"And if I’m trying to fix myself, why does it feel like nothing is ever good enough?"
In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we uncover a painful truth: most husbands are working hard—but working on the wrong things. If your wife keeps bringing up issues no matter how much you improve, it’s likely because you’re setting goals… when you need a Passion Project.
We’ll break down:
Why surface-level improvements never restore emotional trust
The critical difference between a "goal" and a God-powered Passion Project
What miracles actually look like in personal development—and how to expect them
How Satan quietly convinces men they’re incapable of deep change
Why your wife's endless concerns might be valid… and how to organize them into a blueprint for transformation
You’ll also hear the miraculous origin story of a brotherhood that helped thousands of young men find purpose, purity, and power—not by talking about problems, but by fighting for passion-driven change.
This isn’t self-help. It’s soul-help.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reacting-to-toxic-people/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zIV8zMKmT5s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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