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You’ve put in six months of work. You’ve grown. You’ve changed. But it still feels like she looks at you like the same guy who messed up. Why?
In Part 3 of this powerful series, we confront the painful disconnect that happens when you're doing deep inner work—but your spouse doesn’t acknowledge it. You want trust, connection, and a fresh start... but you’re stuck in the shadows of who you used to be.
This episode covers:
Why emotional intimacy feels like hitting the Rocky Mountains of marriage repair
How to handle it when she doesn’t believe you’ve changed—even if you have
What it really means to “go first” in rebuilding trust
Why you must treat her like she’s grown, too—even when you can’t see it
The hidden weight of connection that most couples overlook
And how to stop waiting for validation and start standing confidently in your growth
This is not about waiting to be rewarded. It’s about becoming the kind of man who leads with patience, strength, and emotional skill—even when it feels thankless.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/adhd-blog-comorbidities/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5S67HKpKUaA&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
By Maurice Harker4.4
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You’ve put in six months of work. You’ve grown. You’ve changed. But it still feels like she looks at you like the same guy who messed up. Why?
In Part 3 of this powerful series, we confront the painful disconnect that happens when you're doing deep inner work—but your spouse doesn’t acknowledge it. You want trust, connection, and a fresh start... but you’re stuck in the shadows of who you used to be.
This episode covers:
Why emotional intimacy feels like hitting the Rocky Mountains of marriage repair
How to handle it when she doesn’t believe you’ve changed—even if you have
What it really means to “go first” in rebuilding trust
Why you must treat her like she’s grown, too—even when you can’t see it
The hidden weight of connection that most couples overlook
And how to stop waiting for validation and start standing confidently in your growth
This is not about waiting to be rewarded. It’s about becoming the kind of man who leads with patience, strength, and emotional skill—even when it feels thankless.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/adhd-blog-comorbidities/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5S67HKpKUaA&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

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