Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers in a Way That Builds Trust? Part 4 – Why She Doesn’t Believe Me (Yet)


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“I’ve changed. I’ve worked hard. So why doesn’t she trust me yet?”

In Part 4 of this essential series, we unpack the real reason why your wife may still carry pain—even after you’ve put in months of work. Emotional intimacy isn’t about looking strong. It’s about being reliable when tested. Just like a bridge under pressure, trust is built not by appearance but by how much it holds up when life hits hard.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why your wife’s pain doesn’t vanish just because you’ve improved

  • How real trust is built by sledgehammer-tested systems, not pretty words

  • The purpose of emotional intimacy and what not to expect in return

  • How to walk her through your growth without needing her approval

  • The crucial difference between a “full disclosure” and real emotional rebuilding

  • What it looks like to lead without shortcuts—even when you're tired

If you’re a man trying to rebuild trust with a woman who’s been hurt, this is your roadmap.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-battle-of-perspectives-laman-nephi-and-the-power-of-faith/


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