Q: As a fellow believer who adopted a pair of siblings who were 5+ years of age, how best may we seek to reverse what seem to be ‘generational curses’?

Summary

In this episode, Dr. E tackles a difficult question from an adoptive parent wrestling with the idea of “generational curses” and the lingering effects of brokenness.

Dr. Easley reminds us that while Scripture warns about the consequences of sin, it does not teach that children are doomed by their parents’ failures. Instead, each person is responsible before God for their own life and choices. At the same time, we can’t ignore the very real challenges that come with adoption: past trauma, struggles with attachment, and the weight parents feel to somehow “fix” their children.

Through both biblical teaching and personal experience, Dr. Easley points listeners back to the steady hope of the gospel. Parents cannot control outcomes—but they can faithfully love, nurture, and pray, trusting the Lord to do what only He can do. Adoption mirrors our place in God’s family: welcomed, broken, yet deeply loved.

This conversation is an honest encouragement for adoptive parents, foster families, and anyone walking through the complexity of raising children in a fallen world.

Takeaways

The Bible teaches consequences of sin can affect generations, but children are not guilty of their parents’ sins.

Misapplications of “generational curses” are common in some ministries, but Scripture does not provide formulas for breaking them.

Adoption is rooted in brokenness—children come from loss and often trauma that families must carefully navigate.

Attachment theories can be helpful, but they are not ultimate; only God heals hearts and secures identity.

Parents can disciple, love, and encourage, but they cannot control the spiritual outcomes of their children’s lives.

Hope rests in Christ, who loves our children more than we do and continues His work even when the path is difficult.

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