Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 1 – Understanding Her Language and Rebuilding Connection


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She says you’re abusive.
You say you’re just trying to talk.
She wants emotional safety.
You want clarity and connection.

So why does every conversation end in disaster?

In Part 1 of this new series, we dive into one of the most exhausting and confusing struggles men face in broken or strained marriages—how to communicate with your wife when every word seems to make things worse. Maurice introduces a strategy rooted in film review, proactive empathy, and slow-motion emotional intelligence, empowering you to stop reacting and start learning the real meaning behind her words.

Inside this episode:

  • Why your wife’s words often don’t match what she’s actually trying to say

  • How recording conversations (yes, really) can change everything

  • What it means to “translate” your wife’s emotions like a foreign language

  • Why not living together doesn’t mean you stop learning how to show up

  • The role of baseball and slow practice in rebuilding emotional intimacy

  • How to introduce vulnerability as a strength in communication

This episode is for every man who’s thought:
“No matter what I say… it’s never the right thing.”

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