How do I let go of a past love when there is still a strong attachment?

(Ask Your Dating Expert Suzie)

1. It usually is the same story, you meet someone who you perceive to be exactly what you were looking for in a partner, this person said the right things and did the right things ... or so it seemed. There were so many red flags waving around that it’s almost impossible to see straight.

2. Often times we can't let go because there is something tethering us to that other person like something they're doing but more often than not it's all you. You're the one holding on, and you need to ask yourself why you're still attached. False Hope? Loneliness?

3. I’ve been there! Speaking to a professional helped me realize why it was that I was so attached, the funny thing was as much as I wanted to blame them it wasn't about them at all - it was about me. They were like a drug for me and I was, for lack of a better word, addicted.

4. Here’s what I did and what you can do to let go for real this time:

5. Take inventory of past relationships.

6. Build your confidence and know your worth.

7. Surround yourself with good people who care about you.

8. Be your best self!

9. Be happily single.

Remember that some people will always have a special place in our hearts but that doesn't mean they deserve a special place in our lives.

Suzie is at www.SingleDatingDiva.com

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