Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 3 – Why She Still Feels Unloved Even When You’re Doing Everything “Right”


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You work hard. You show up. You’ve stopped doing the wrong things and started doing the right ones. But somehow, your wife still says she doesn’t feel loved.
She says you’re robotic. Emotionless. That you only care about work or money.

So why doesn’t all your effort seem to count?

In Part 3 of this powerful series, we break down one of the biggest misunderstandings in rebuilding emotional intimacy: how men think they’re showing love vs. how their wives experience it.

Inside this episode:

  • Why doing the “right” things isn’t enough if you’re not narrating your thoughts

  • How a man’s silence can make him look careless—even when he’s deeply invested

  • A masculine way to show emotional investment without forcing tears

  • Why unspoken effort often feels invisible to your wife

  • How setting a 5-minute timer can completely shift how connected she feels to you

Rebuilding intimacy doesn’t require emotional theatrics. It requires visible, verbal care. Learn how to speak what you’re already thinking—and finally let her feel what you’ve always meant.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/circus-mirrors-and-feedback-sessions/


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wiWm9KuATGM


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