Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 5 – Why She Keeps Bringing Up the Past (and What to Do About It)


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"Why does she keep bringing it up?"
"Why can’t we just move on already?"
"If I’ve changed, why does she act like nothing’s changed at all?"

In Part 5 of How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife, we tackle one of the most painful and confusing moments for men trying to lead their marriage back from the edge: her persistent need to revisit the past—even when you feel like you're doing better.

This episode is a roadmap for men ready to lead with strength instead of shame. You'll learn:

  • What an emotional "walkthrough" looks like—and why most men fail it

  • How to perform a "black box review" of your past without getting swallowed by guilt

  • Why hiding your personal development plan is destroying her trust

  • How to build a visible, manly blueprint for emotional safety—and how to show her the work

  • What makes her stop asking the same questions over and over again

If you’re tired of being caught off guard every time she brings up “that thing from 3 years ago,” this episode will finally give you tools, not just talk—so you can prove change without performing.

Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/working-on-emotional-intimacy-discussing-the-past/


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