We all want to find a love that lasts, and in this current culture of high percentage of marriages ending in divorce, there can be a lot of fear to commit to someone in marriage. This can lead to couples doing what I call, “PLAYING HOUSE.”
Playing house is trying to take the benefits of marriage without the commitment of marriage.
Playing house looks like:
Having sex before marriage
Living together before marriage
Delaying marriage (but wanting the other to stay committed)Sometimes the logic of trying something before we buy it seems like we should apply it to marriage, but that works for a car not for a husband or wife—at least not in the way we think.
I do think you should try out the relationship in the sense that you spend time with and get to know the honest and true version of the individual to see if they are the one you want to marry.