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How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages – Part 4: What to Do When She’s Still Upset… Even When You’re Doing It Right
“Why does my wife still think I’m not changing—even when I’m trying my hardest?”
“Why does everything feel worse when I finally start doing the work?”
Welcome to Part 4 of How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages. This episode dives into the emotional chaos many husbands experience when:
You're finally doing the work… and she still doesn’t trust it.
You're trying to respond the right way… and it just makes her more upset.
You’ve created a system, a plan, a list… but she still sees only your past.
She doubts your motives, questions your exhaustion, and resents your progress.
If you’ve ever asked, "What more can I do when she refuses to believe I’ve changed?" — this is the episode for you.
Discover:
Why visible progress doesn’t always look “valid” to her
The power of season four recovery time and why it’s essential
How to use your mission and identity statements to anchor you during setbacks
The spiritual reason you can’t let her reaction be the measure of your progress
How to show her you’re serious—without forcing her to believe it
This is practical training for husbands who want to lead in love, even when trust hasn’t caught up yet.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/protecting-against-pornography-and-harnessing-the-power-of-christ/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVXeq9KlUJQ
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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By Maurice Harker
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“Why does my wife still think I’m not changing—even when I’m trying my hardest?”
“Why does everything feel worse when I finally start doing the work?”
Welcome to Part 4 of How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages. This episode dives into the emotional chaos many husbands experience when:
You're finally doing the work… and she still doesn’t trust it.
You're trying to respond the right way… and it just makes her more upset.
You’ve created a system, a plan, a list… but she still sees only your past.
She doubts your motives, questions your exhaustion, and resents your progress.
If you’ve ever asked, "What more can I do when she refuses to believe I’ve changed?" — this is the episode for you.
Discover:
Why visible progress doesn’t always look “valid” to her
The power of season four recovery time and why it’s essential
How to use your mission and identity statements to anchor you during setbacks
The spiritual reason you can’t let her reaction be the measure of your progress
How to show her you’re serious—without forcing her to believe it
This is practical training for husbands who want to lead in love, even when trust hasn’t caught up yet.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/protecting-against-pornography-and-harnessing-the-power-of-christ/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVXeq9KlUJQ
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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