Stop trying to change your husband.

If you could change your husband, he would no longer be the man you fell in love with.

Is that what you would want to happen?

A submissive should remember to put her phone down when her husband speaks to her.

Continuing to view your phone when he speaks is disrespectful, and your husband will think you are not interested in what he says.

By putting your phone down and looking at him, you are showing respect that he deserves and that you value what he says.

There will be plenty of time later for your phone.

A submissive wife should remember to speak to her husband kindly.

Do not speak harshly; he is not one of your children that you are chastising. He is your husband.

The man you submit to is the Head of the House and should be treated with the respect he deserves.

A submissive wife should remember to serve her husband first.

It does not matter whether you are putting a meal on the table, passing snacks, or putting his needs above others.

Serve him first

Serving your husband first teaches your children he is head of the house and that he deserves to be treated with respect.

It also shows your husband that you respect him and his role as head of the house.

A submissive wife should focus on being grateful for what her husband does daily.

Stop focusing on the negative things he does.

Focusing on the negative will cause tension in the home, but focusing on being grateful for what he does will strengthen the love you have for him.

Remember to let him know how grateful you are for what he does.

Modern life is busy; many wives have to work to support the family income.

Managing a home and holding a job down does not leave much spare time.

It is easy to start neglecting things in your marriage, but when was the last time you put extra effort into your appearance and dressed for your husband?

Remember, like you used to do when dating.

Yes, he loves you the way you are, and you don't have the time to dress up all the time but don't forget to let him know that he is worth the extra effort and that you love looking good for him.

Keep the spark alive.

A submissive wife should remember that affairs don't start in the bedroom. They begin in conversations that you would not want your husband to hear.

Meaningless compliments are not worth the destruction they cause.

A submissive wife should never make her husband feel sex has to be earned.

Do not cheapen sex by expecting a form of payment, such as a new pair of shoes.

Sex is a special gift between husband and wife, and sex should be given and received freely with love..

Do not cheapen sex by expecting a form of payment, such as a new pair of shoes.

Sex is a special gift between husband and wife, and sex should be given and received freely with love.

Serve her husband

Obey her husband

Respect her husband

Submission cant be taken; it can only be given.

There are times when your husband is going to say No

When he does say No, you have to remember that he will have a good reason for saying No

If you don't understand why he has said no, then ask him to explain why he has said no; give him your point of view.  Then accept his decision with good grace.

He is head of the house.