When celebrating the New Year tonight, you should remember Once you are married you and your husband become one, and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.

The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body.

The only man you should be kissing or wanting to kiss tonight is YOUR HUSBAND

A Submissive Wife should take great pride in looking after the home.

I advise you to have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day.

List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms.

Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week.

Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do at once.

For those wives who are not good with time management or suffer from procrastination, your husband can hold you accountable for all jobs getting done each day /week.

Being organised and knowing what has to be done each day does make life easier and less stressful

If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a wife worthy of his respect.

You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough.

You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint.

A Submissive Wife should never put friends, family or work in front of her Husband.

Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority.

Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends. If you put your family and friends before your husband, then you are risking doing damage to your marriage.

A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget.

Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship.

It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid.

When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option but to hold you accountable and take a firm stand for your overspending.

A Submissive Wife should not drink to excess; you do not want to embarrass your husband in front of your family and friends over the holidays with drunken behaviour.

Alcohol alters the way we think and react to situations and things people have said to us.

Enjoy a glass of wine or two but be aware of your limits and if you are one of those who can not handle alcohol drink soft drinks only.

You don't have to be drunk to have a good time.

No matter how much your husband gets under your feet during the holidays, do not say to him "I will be glad when you are back at work."

Look for the positives in him being at home all day and not the negatives.

Having a negative attitude towards him is not showing him the respect he deserves as your husband

A Submissive Wife should not be guilty of spending more time and effort looking at her social media feed than she spends working on her marriage.

Your husband should be your number one priority not what your friend wore to a party.

Watch a movie together, go for a walk the important thing is to spend quality time together.

If your phone is a constant distraction turn it off Facebook will still be there tomorrow.

A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times.

Don't allow friendships with males to put your marriage at risk.

Being unfaithful is not restricted to have sex or kissing another person, if you start deleting messages on your phone so your husband does not see them or if you start having secret phone calls you are already unfaithful to your husband.

The safest thing is not to put your self in these situations where unhealthy relationships can develop.

Stay true and faithful to the man you married, let no one come between you ever

A Submissive Wife should never make any comment to her family or friends that ridicules her husband even if it is in jest making a remark that makes fun or is unkind is disrespectful, and your husband deserves better from his wife.

As his wife, you should be his number one fan