As a wife and mother, you should remember you only do as your husband says. It is your place to parent your children not give in to them they do as you say and not as they choose. Children have to learn we all have to abide by rules.

Are you allowing others in your marriage bed?

Don't turn on the TV in the bedroom and leave your mobile phone out of the bedroom, focus on your husband and not other people.

Every marriage has its ups and downs.

Your husband is not perfect he is human and he will make mistakes/

When he gets things wrong don’t try to take control instead support your husband and stand by him.

Once you are married everything changes, you and your husband become one and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.

The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body.

When you disagree, don't hold a grudge.

When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it tells him that you have no respect for him and his leadership. Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant

As his wife, you should support his hopes and dreams, help him to be the best he can, be by his side during good times and bad times and always offer your support and encouragement.

Don't let a busy life be the enemy of your sex life,

Being a Wife, Mother & worker can all stop you thinking about being a sexy woman for your husband. Take time to think about being intimate with your husband, so you are already in the mood for an intimate evening

If possible try to go to bed and get up at the same time as your husband. You don't want to miss out on those intimate moments at the start and end of each day if you can help it.

Acknowledge your husband's presence when he comes home, don't just say hello and continue what you are doing instead go to him and give him a proper welcome. Let him know you are pleased to see him home.

It is important to remember when on social media not to go looking up old flames and reconnecting with them they are from the past and should stay in the past; you don't want to rekindle the old feelings.