Submission to your Husband means

"Choosing to yield to your Husbands will."

It does not mean that you have no say in your marriage; you are an active participant in the union.

Your opinions are just as important as his, but you have given him the final say, and you are trusting him to make the right decisions.

A Submissive Wife should remember that what goes on in a marriage is between husband and wife. Marriage is not a community project that is up for open discussion on social media or with friends. Do not share details of your romantic night or arguments. What goes on in the marital bed should stay between husband and wife. Your husband doesn't want to hear that your friends know his likes and dislikes in the bedroom.

As a mother, it is essential that you teach your children the importance of families spending quality time together each day, talking and sharing things about their day.

The ideal time to do this is when you are all sitting around the table for the evening meal. Ban all phones and tablets from the table, have a family rule that all phones are placed in a box in another room while you have your family meal.

Children need to learn how to communicate in a family environment and also experience what it is like to be part of a loving, caring family.

Modern families are losing these precious times help keep these traditional family values alive.

A Submissive Wife should not be having conversations she would not want her husband to be part of or to hear. Never text anything or say anything that you would not share with your husband.

If you feel you have to say something negative about your husband or hide things from your husband, then you need to work on your relationship, devote the time to your marriage and not building a wall between you and your husband.

A Submissive Wife knows that is her place to serve her husband she should not exercise authority over him but learn from him quietly.

Do you have a habit of trying to tell your husband to do this then do that and only end up irritating him?

It is not your place to give him orders; you gave him the authority over you when you became his Submissive Wife.

If a job needs doing bring it to your husband's attention, don't tell him to do it

Stop challenging his authority

A Submissive Wife should always make intimacy a priority in her marriage. Do not let the lack of intimacy force a wedge between you.

Make time for your husband; schedule regular date nights be an active partner in the marriage bed. The more effort you put into pleasing your husband, the more pleasure you will receive, sex is a two-way street.

The more intimate time you share, the stronger your bond will be.

A Submissive Wife Chooses freely to place herself under her husband's authority. 


Her husband knows that her gift of submission is very precious and only given to the man she loves and trusts.

She is safe in the knowledge that he loves and respects her just as much and that he would never do anything that would damage that special precious gift of submission. He will be her rock to lean on and fair when he needs to be firm with her.

A Submissive Wife should not feel ashamed to tell her friends and family that she is happy to stay at home to take care of her husband, home and their children.

Staying at home to look after her home & family is a full-time job seven days a week, with no public holidays or annual leave.

The world would be a better place if more wives were able to choose to stay at home and bring up their children and not have to go out to work each day to support the family income.

It would allow them to spend quality time with children teaching them respect, values and the correct way to behave in society.

Sadly too many children are left to educate themselves on game consoles, tablets & phones. They never learn respect or that there are always consequences for their actions.

One way a Submissive wife can show respect to her husband is to seek his approval before she arranges any social events. Even if this is unnecessary it will show him you value his support and put his wishes before that of your friends.

Should your husband not approve of a social event then respect his wishes and trust he will have a valid reason for not wanting you to go.

Don't put friends before your husband

You are married, so it is now MR before Sister!

A Submissive Wife should be proud to dress like a woman.

Take pride in your appearance, dress in the clothing and colours you know your husband likes to see. You should be dressing for his approval and pleasure, not for the admiration of others.

Enjoy being a woman, be proud to dress like a woman and do it with class and style that makes your husband proud to be seen out with you.